27/07/2021
Here is a bust-worthy myth about tug-of-war we didn’t even know existed.
About one week ago, there was a very sad news item about a baby killed by a dog in Australia (https://salten.cz/2021/07/15/staffy-who-killed-a-five-week-old-baby-on-the-central-coast-viewed-infant-as-prey-experts-warn/). Such stories, while rare, unfortunately reappear again and again in the news. The local media interviewed a dog trainer who stated:
“…humans often teach canines to kill by playing games like tug-of-war with them. Dogs aren’t meant to have toys – they’ve only been around for 40 to 50 years and we now have more problems than we’ve ever had before. When dogs use their mouths on something non protein-based, they learn that it’s OK to do that with other objects. Tug-of-war is violent and riles the dog up, so we’re teaching them that’s okay.”
Playing tug with your dog will no more teach him to kill than playing fetch will teach him to knit. That’s ridiculous. A few thoughts to rebut the trainer’s comments a little further:
1. Dogs tug naturally. Not only that, but many will solicit “co-mouthing” with other dogs by shoving objects into their faces. Mutual pulling then ensues. Play is a necessary and naturally driven behavior and is needed to practice social skills and give-and-take. Some of the practice is also predatory, of course, but dogs are perfectly capable of killing prey without being educated in tug play.
2. Dogs aren’t meant to have toys? What does that even mean? And as far as 40-50 years of toydom, Nylabone has been around for 66 years (!), but dog people have been fashioning toys for their companions for as long as dogs have lain around their campfires. And, yes, it’s perfectly cool for dogs to put their mouths on non protein-based objects. Here’s a cool early 19th century Italian statuette of a dog playing with a toy: https://www.englishaccentantiques.com/product/italian-early-19th-century-carved-wooden-dog-playing-with-a-toy/
3. Tug-of-war can rile dogs up but the play can be well controlled by ensuring that tug is played with specific, tug-dedicated toys like a braided fleece or rope toy, by teaching the dog to let go of the toy on cue (by using food or a different toy with the cue, e.g. “drop it!”, then just using the cue. Of course, dropping the toy can be reinforced by giving the toy back and playing some more! And, finally, the play should be stopped if the dog’s mouth lands on human skin or clothing. Tug is an awesome game for redirecting an excited dog’s energy, such as at the end of a good, clean agility run , or for distracting a restless young dog who needs to wait her turn in training class.
The original story, of course, has absolutely nothing to do with playing tug. Safety practices with infants and dogs must include strict separation unless the dog is well controlled (leashed or verbally), and never, ever leaving them alone together. But suggesting that play can teach dogs to kill is over the top and diverts attention from more important and rational practices such as separation and active supervision.