25/09/2025
I rarely rant but here’s one!
Consent is not just for humans, It’s for Dogs Too.
Here is the truth that needs to be said louder, and I am a straight shooter so here goes!
Dogs deserve consent, dogs deserve to be heard, dogs deserve to be treated with respect.
Too often I see people yanking dogs on leads, holding them down, forcing them into situations they are clearly uncomfortable with and for what? Compliance?
That is not training, that is trauma.
That is not leadership or k9 parenting, that is control.
And it really destroys trust.
Dogs do do not speak with words, they speak with body language, Lip licking, turning their head, freezing, trying to move away, these are all ways they say, “I am not okay with this.”
Are you listening?
If you choose to bring a dog into your life, then it is your responsibility to learn their language, respect their boundaries, and give them a voice. That is what real partnership looks like.
I will never force a dog into compliance.
I will always ask for consent.
I will always put trust before your so called obedience.
If a dog is struggling in any situation or with grooming, vet visits, or any kind of handling, it is your job to prepare them, support them, be their voice advocate for them, not to punish them for being scared.
Dogs are not giving you a hard time, they are having a hard time.
So to every K9 parent out there, and to everyone that works with dogs
Step up.
Be their voice.
Build trust.
Earn respect.
Because they are not “just dogs.”They are your family. ❤️
There are no quick fixes and what training tools humans use to do so called quick fixes only suppress behaviour they don't change it.
go on the journey that is needed with your dog as when you do that is connection.