06/06/2025
Letโs say your biggest fear is spiders and I follow you with one in my hand, as you start to run I run after you, we gather speed and eventually I catch you - you freeze, squeeze your eyes tight and curl up your body. ๐ท๏ธ
The spider lands on your arm and you feel him moving up your arm, you stay frozen and try to imagine youโre somewhere else.
Eventually you feel his legs on your face and you canโt take anymore, you explode, flailing your arms, screaming and running as fast as you canโฆ you worst fears are compounded and now you are more frightened of even the smallest spider.
Yesterday I was helping with some lovely horses from the Off The Track Program, while I was there little Rusty was getting a clip jobโฆwell, half a clip job.
As I was working horses I could hear the clatter of hooves, Rustyโs โgo toโ is to run over people and leave at speed when he becomes uncomfortable, and trust me, heโs an absolute tank ๐.
His owner was having a hard time getting the clippers on his right side without getting flattened and pulled around. Sheโd been working on it for about an hour with no luck.
When I brought the horse I had finished working with back in I asked if I could have a go, she gladly accepted ๐. As I touched the rope and turned on the clippers he turned and towed me off immediately down the lane, so strongly I had to let go. (I wish I had a before video if not just for the comedy value!)
I worked with him for around 10 minutes and this was the result, so what changed??
Firstly, I ACKNOWLEDGED HIS FEAR.
He was not being pushy, arrogant, rude or disrespectful, he was fearful of the pressure and noise. So I reassured him instead of reprimanding him.
Secondly, instead of following him with the clippers every time he tried to get away, as weโve often been taught, I paused at signs of overwhelm, for him this looks like pushing away the pressure and shifting his weight.
I know this goes against everything weโve been traditionally taught for fear of rewarding โbad behaviourโ.
Lastly, I got him thinking and processing using his curiosity, again, instead of chasing him with the clippers I invited him to investigate them. โOh!โ He said, โnow Iโve had time to think, these are not nearly as scary as I first thought!โ
Iโm not just looking for immobility either, I donโt want him shutting out the scary thing because I wonโt let him get away (he wouldnโt let that happen anyway ๐) - I want to see signs heโs listening and aware, ear mobility and soft, blinking eyes.
Great work Rusty ๐