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30/01/2025
It's easy to look at our teens and see them as the young adults they are growing into. Let's face it, it's hard not to when they tower over you and leave their size 13's in the middle of the lounge room!
But it's also easy to forget that their brain isn't wired like an adult just yet. Their brain is rapidly developing in areas such as independence (leaving the nest and surviving on their own), their emotional intensity is off the charts, and the parts of the brain that regulate their emotions and introduce logic to their decisions.. well... that's still to come!
There is a lot to be said for acceptance for the process. Instead of wondering "what were you thinking" and abandoning all hope, there's good reason to believe that they are doing the best in the moment.
When it feels like they are pushing you away, just know that they are ready for some independence, and they are making their way to being more responsible young people.. and all the better with you supporting them and letting them know you are always there.
Being with them, with understanding, in their moments of chaos will set the foundations for years to come.