17/12/2025
First Walks With Tully ๐๐ด
I always have these visions of my first walks with my pups being full of puppy wonderment. You know the picture โ hair blowing in the breeze, a sweet little fluffy baby dog sniffing around, learning all about the environment, maybe checking in with you, a big smile on their face, enjoying some pup treatsโฆ and you feeling like a very proud mum.
And thenโฆ thereโs Tully ๐ฅฐ๐๐
Our walks have certainly been very different from what I imagined and, unfortunately, quite a challenge for little Tully. I quickly learnt that she is scared of cars, bikes, and dogs barking behind fences. Some low-level stress is normal when pups experience new things, but Tully was running backwards, trying to wriggle out of her harness, with her little heart beating a hundred miles an hour.
So I had to change tack very quickly, because I absolutely did not want her early walks and learning experiences in the world to be traumatic.
Instead, I started taking her to a lovely, quiet park down the road, where she could experience her triggers at a safe distance while calmly engaging with the environment. The video below is our very first walk in the park. ๐ฅน
In the video, youโll notice a car goes past and Tully sits and watches. When sheโs ready, she moves on again. I tried to get her attention but she was focused on the environment and all the noises around her (first walk very normal). But the good thing was, there was no running backwards, no trying to escape her harness, and not the panic I saw on her street walks. She startled slightly to the second car but she kept going relatively calmly and we ended having a really nice walk. Why? Distance, the right environment, and a lead that gives her the freedom to make choices that help her feel safe.
If youโre wondering why I have her on a long lead, itโs because I want to rebuild her confidence on the lead and give her room to make the choices she needs to cope with what sheโs experiencing. A shorter lead simply doesnโt allow for that. Any time she sits and watches something new, just watches a car, ignores a car, or calmly takes in her surroundings, I reinforce it. For now, thatโs our focus. Iโm not worried about loose lead walking or walking at heel โ building her confidence in the world comes first.
Do I want to get to a point where I can walk Tully around the beautiful streets where I live? Absolutely. But itโs just not for now.
One thing Iโm constantly reminded of in my work with dogs โ puppies and adults alike โ is that you have to do what works for your dog. More importantly, you have to work with the dog in front of you, not the dog you imagined, or the dog you thought would neatly fit into your world. It doesnโt always turn out that way, and that can be hard on everyone involved, especially your dog.
If you work with the dog in front of you, youโll be amazed at what you can achieve. Often, itโs not about doing more โ itโs simply about changing the environment for a while and setting your dog up to be their best self.
We had some great progress today ๐ฅฒ๐. Little Tully completely ignored three cars that were about four metres away and just kept sniffing. OMG โ so good! Iโm incredibly proud of this little Tully bug.๐๐
So, I guess the moral of the story...work with the dog in front of you. Your dog will really thank you for it and you will negate a lot of behaviour problems down the track๐๐พ