06/02/2025
So true!
HOW MANY TIMES HAVE YOU LEARNT TO RIDE⁉️
If You Have Only Learnt to Ride ONCE – You’d Better Read This…⬇️
Because that might be the reason you struggle with getting your horse into a good posture and frame, the horse travelling willingly forward, or not rushing.
The reality is—you have to keep learning to ride!
The reason why your coach or trainer can get on your horse and it performs better for them is that they have continued learning to ride!
Let me explain…
There is so much to sitting on the back of a horse and being a good load for them to carry!
I describe my own experience like this—when I first learned to ride, I considered I had achieved that mark when I could walk, trot, and canter on a horse, steer them in directions I wanted to go, and slow and stop when I wanted to without falling off.
I always struggled with getting a horse soft in the bridle, but I thought that was what different bits, double bridles, side or draw reins were for.
To be honest, I really stayed at that level for nearly 20 years, and my story is not uncommon.
Really, that is the equivalent of me learning to play Twinkle, Twinkle Little Star🌟 on a piano and needing to put on a recording of other music to cover up the fact I could only play a simple melody.
Luckily for me, I had a horse that didn’t put up with the mediocre standard of my riding and made me aware that I was grossly ignorant about my skills. However, this horse also ignited an amazing experience of discovering how good I could get with the right practice.
You see, I was practising my riding—I just wasn’t aware of what I was doing wrong. Therefore, I was continually practising the equivalent of Twinkle, Twinkle Little Star🌟 on the piano and hoping to become a concert pianist🎹!
Because I was not aware of what I was doing wrong, I was not able to develop my ability to sit on a horse, communicate, and influence them effectively.
Therefore, over the years, I have continuously learned how to ride, and each time I have had to work through the same frustration and discomfort as when I was initially learning to ride.
I remember initially learning to rise to the trot and how uncoordinated that was. But trust me, I have experienced the same awkward feelings when I have refined that skill of rising to the trot many times. Then there is sitting trot—that has been many times too, as I keep exploring my own compensation patterns and asymmetry!
There is how I pick up the reins, communicate to the horse flexion, bend, shoulders, contact, connection… gosh, that has been an amazingly endless journey.
I could go on, but I hope you get the idea and can reflect back on yourself.
When you dearly love the art of riding horses and you have that drive to be good at it, you have to understand that mastery is an inside job. It is not an outside job of bits, gear, or even the horse. It is seeing yourself as an evolving masterpiece of skill—the equivalent of someone who started playing Twinkle, Twinkle Little Star 🌟but has evolved to play pieces of music with more complex rhythms, intricate fi*****ng, or virtuosic technical work!
I even have a very simple test for people to give themselves some indication of the most basic quality of their seat and balance.
If you are brave enough to expose your own seat, you can do this test yourself—trot on a loose rein.
Now, when I mean loose, I mean buckle loose, so you have no way of balancing on your horse’s mouth!
If you feel super awkward and out of control, fantastic! You just gained an amazing insight that opens up an opportunity to work on the independence of your seat! This solves so many training and performance issues with horses!
If you tell me you cannot do that because your horse will take off, well, guess what? That also means you have to refine the way you ride and communicate with your horse, as reins should not function as some kind of handbrake. In fact, it usually means you have most likely been balancing on your horse’s mouth too!
Again, this opens a door of opportunity for you to take yourself to the next level in your riding.
Remember—knowing your weaknesses is how you can focus and refine your practice. That’s how your use of time becomes more effective, and you see progression!
📸IMAGE: Me at 12 with my Dad (being a good "Show Dad"!🥰). I had made it to "Twinkle, Twinkle Little Star🌟" riding level - and stayed there for nearly 20 years😎! My only evolution during this time was discovering different bits, side and draw reins🫣!