08/06/2024
This is a fantastic demonstration of digging a bit further to understand your dog's behaviour.
Bringing a new baby home is hugely emotional for many reasons and our dogs absolutely will have reactions to these changes. Sometimes we are quick to apply a 'human' reaction, such a jealousy to seemingly new behaviours, rather than sit with the context for a moment and think about the dogs perspective. Is it really the dog's behaviour that is new? Or yours? How often do you sit on the floor pre baby, unless you were interacting with them? So is it fair for the dog to assume that it's an invitation to play?
Preparing before baby's arrival will help your dog adjust and take some of the stress off you in those few weeks of bringing a newborn home.
Oh my this is SO important. We are lucky to know ahead of time what to expect with our baby’s new milestones and development, or at least have the resources to research and learn more. Our dogs, however do not have a book or app to guide them as our baby grows.
They count on US! Knowing what changes are ahead can help you prepare WITH your dog. Changes in management, parent-guided activities, and enrichment.
Great example: Sitting up on the floor is an exciting milestone but might be confusing or conflicting for your family dog! Prepare and practice with your dog ahead of this new stage. Here are a several of things to think about when approaching this milestone.
❓Does sitting on your floor = excitement or playfulness from your dog?
❓Do you currently play with your dog by getting on the floor?
❓Will your dog respond to your cues while you are sitting on the floor?
❓What would you like your dog to do while you engage with your baby on the floor?
Parents often complain that their dog is “jealous” and tries to “get in between” when they try to engage with their baby on the floor. This leads to frustration and concern by parents and confusion for your family dog. If you used to play on the floor with your dog, this may be very confusing for them as to why you don’t want to play with them now. If playtime with your dog, before the baby, involved sitting on the floor then you can help your dog by teaching them the new rules. Prepare and practice ahead of time where you want your dog to be when you engage with your baby on the floor. Set up a gate or play yard as a boundary.