23/08/2023
THIS!!!
I agree with Dr. Dunbar that our voice can be so useful for communicating with our dogs.
Well worth a read of his post.
A lot of people are completely ignoring one of the most valuable tools in dog training: their Voice.
Your VOICE is incredibly powerful and convenient, if you know how to use it.
You might think I'm talking about giving a dog verbal instructions, and it's true, that is one way you can use your voice. But the real power in your voice comes from using it to provide FEEDBACK. You can use your voice to let your dog know how you feel about what they are doing, which is ABSOLUTELY ESSENTIAL if you want your dog to do the things you like and avoid the things you dislike.
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Of course, like any training tool, there is a right way to use your voice, and a wrong way. A lot of people do make mistakes with how they speak to their dog, and these mistakes can make the whole process ineffective, or even counterproductive.
One of the biggest mistakes people make is to use their voice to give verbal instructions to their dog, and then they get frustrated when the dog doesn't do what they want. You have to realize, WORDS are not a natural form of communication for dogs. Verbal commands are challenging and it takes a lot of practice to teach them, and if your dog is in a stressful or exciting situation, verbal instructions might now work. Telling your dog "Sit, Sit, Sit..." when they're too distracted or frightened to listen is NOT using your voice effectively.
Another mistake people make with their dog is they use their voice to provide feedback, but they provide far more negative feedback than positive. They only talk to their dog when they don't like what the dog is doing. If the dog is starved for attention, this attention can actually be reinforcing. It also classically conditions the dog to dislike it when their owner talks to them. It's also terribly unfair! Most dogs are good most of the time, and they get ignored for all of their good behavior and the only attention they get is when they misbehave.
So, how should you talk to your dog?
First, you should make an effort to praise them and talk to them when they are doing what you like. Notice and reinforce good behaviors with your voice. Your dog won't understand all of the words you use, but they are excellent at reading tone and facial expressions so praise them from the heart and they'll definitely pick up on the good vibes.
Second, praise them while you hand-feed them or pet them or play with them or do other activities they enjoy. This will increase the power of your praise as a secondary reinforcer. You'll be classically conditioning your dog to love your praise even more, because they will associate it with all their favorite things.
Third, use your voice to comfort your dog when they are anxious. If your dog is afraid of something, you can use your voice to let them know that they don't need to worry. But dogs are good at reading facial expressions and tone, so if you're worried, you have to hide that from your dog. If your dog sees that you're worried, that will make them worry more. So talk to your dog in a way that is comforting, but also makes it seem like you are totally relaxed. "Hey, Rover, it's OK, you don't need to worry about that other dog. Hey, just look at me, it's going to be OK, let's play a game, or how about I sing you your favorite song and I'll do a little shimmy so you know that I couldn't possibly be worried because look at me, I'm being goofy and fun!"
Fourth, and this is only after you've made use of the first three, you can and should use your voice to express displeasure. If your dog is doing something you don't like, let them know. The easiest, most humane way to do this is with your voice. You don't have to scream or curse at them. Remember, dogs are good at reading tone, and if you've been praising your dog enough, then it will be very obvious when you switch from your usual praise to an admonishing tone to say "Hey, Rover, that's not OK, quit it, you're being a jerk and I don't like it." But the moment your dog stops the undesirable behavior it's "Thank You! I knew you could be a good boy, yes, let's do something fun now, come over here and let's play a game or settle down or have a treat."
However, if your dog is doing something you don't like because they are anxious, then your voice should be, more than anything else, comforting and relaxed. But as soon as they start behaving the way you want (or they simply stop behaving the way you don't want), you need to switch your tone to something that is obviously more positive to make the distinction obvious and immediate.
The power of your voice comes from the convenience, the nuance, and the immediacy. You always have it with you, you can provide finely calibrated tones that communicate a lot, and you can switch, instantaneously between the feedback you are providing, so you can go from Mildly Disappointed but Still Comforting to Ecstatic, Effusive Praise in a millisecond.
This is incredibly useful for managing interactions with other dogs or people, because it allows you to keep up with your dog's dynamic behavior.
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