08/26/2024
Why are we drawn to the horses we have?
This is a question I’ve spent countless hours pondering on and chatting about with folks.
I’ve come to two conclusions in my journey with horses so far…
1. We are drawn to the horse that fills a space for us. Horses that are placed in our life to help us grow, change, or support us during hard times.
2. We are drawn to the horse that pushes on our weakness. As we know, there are three types of horses we deal with: mind, space, and pressure horses. Often in my experience, people will be drawn to a horse that matches one of the pressures they need to work on.
My horse Felix is a perfect example of this. I have always struggled with boundaries and wanting everything to feel soft and slow. Felix pushes me to own my space and be more decisive and clear. To not be afraid of being messy sometimes. Because of these lessons, I’ve seen changes in my daily life that have helped bring me to where I am today.
So I encourage all of us to pause and ponder what our horse does for us. Is your horse a space holder, helping guide you in your journey? Or are they a pusher, helping drive you to your higher self?