08/07/2022
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VET CLINIC ETIQUETTE
I was in a vet clinic recently and saw some cringey interactions between client dogs in the lobby. I remember thinking “Oh wow that looks uncomfortable. It’s kind of an unspoken rule that you don’t let that happen!” And then I thought, “Well wait .. if rules are unspoken, how is anyone supposed to know about them!” So I am going to quickly run through some proper vet clinic waiting room etiquette, and how to be the best client possible!
The people I’ve been meeting lately are AWESOME dog owners. They are really putting in the hours making sure that their puppies are having lots of experiences, meeting people and dogs, and working on their training. They know the professional dog people have been stressing to them the importance of meeting lots of different people and dogs to help work towards a friendly, social, and confident dog. What sometimes gets neglected is mentioning that they should also be working on NOT getting to meet every person and dog. So for every person/dog your puppy gets to meet, you should also be having experiences where dogs and people are nearby, and they just ignore them! There are going to be a TON of times in your dogs life where they are going to have to mind their own business and be expected to ignore others so you need to practice this with your dog.
The vet clinic is one of those places. When you are in the waiting area with your dog, you are going to be expected to keep to yourself. Meeting between dogs is highly discouraged. What is expected is that you keep your dog on a short leash, focused on you, and be sure that they are not interacting with the other animals in the lobby. You may have the sweetest, friendliest dog in the world, but these rules are in place to help protect the dogs who are shy, scared, sick, and in pain. Every once in a while I see a post show up in my news feed from someone who had a very stressful vet visit. Not only were they stressed out because their dog was needing medical care in the first place, but there was a person who was letting their dog approach their dog because “he just wants to say hi”. You may think it is an innocent enough interaction but let me tell you ... it’s stressing people out!
-DID YOU KNOW … Some dogs at the vet are shy, fearful, reactive, or aggressive. A trip to the vet is most likely already a VERY stressful event for these pups. Owners of these dogs are probably working very hard to keep their dogs feeling calm, cool, and collected in the waiting room. The more your dog encroaches on their space, the less safe those dogs will feel. When they stop feeling safe and start to feel like there is a threat, they start to display distance increasing behaviours. Those behaviours are things like lunging, growling, snapping, showing teeth, barking, and biting. Now these behaviours generally happen after dogs show more subtle signs. These more subtle signs can be the lifting of one paw, looking away, slow blinking, yawning, “whale eyes” or seeing whites around the eyes, licking their lips, freezing, pinning ears back, tail tucking, stiffness, etc. If you see these signals from a dog in the waiting room, that is them saying “I need some space, please.” When you see the more “loud” behaviours like barking and biting, it is because the more subtle requests were ignored and they feel the need to speak a little louder.
-DID YOU KNOW … Some dogs are at the vet because they are injured or in pain?? A dog who is in pain is more likely to show distance increasing behaviours to help keep animals and people away. The closer people or dogs are, the more likely they are to get bumped into which may cause extreme pain for the animal.
-DID YOU KNOW … Some dogs are at the vet because they are contagious. You know how when you go to the walk in or your doctors office and you almost don’t want to breathe because there are people coughing and hacking all around you? You certainly wouldn’t be going and putting your face into other people’s faces and talking to them. You keep to yourself. The same goes for our dogs! Dogs can be visiting the vet because they have a bug and are contagious. So by letting your dog approach them you are actually putting your dog at risk, and potentially setting up yourself to rack up some more vet bills!
-DID YOU KNOW … Cats do not want to say hello to your dog! A trip to the vet for a cat generally means that they are going to be seeing a lot of things/smelling a lot of smells that they are not accustomed to. They could feel very worried by this, and the last thing they need is your well meaning dogs’ eyes peering into their carrier. The kindest thing you can do for a cat in the vet is give them their space! Their owner, who is probably also very stressed, will be very thankful!
So the TL;DR is: The vet clinic is not a social get together. People and dogs are there for appointments, and may be there for very serious reasons. Dogs of all different levels of temperaments and qualities of health will be there .. so for your safety and theirs the best course of action is to remain in your own space and not allow your dog to enter the space of other animals and humans. If you happen to have a super friendly, exuberant dog who might be a bit ‘extra’ in the lobby, it is totally acceptable to say to the receptionist “Hello, we are here for our appointment but will be waiting in our car until you are ready for us.” This may also be a good idea for those with fearful, contagious, or aggressive dogs. When we can’t predict the actions of others it is best to protect our own dogs and be proactive!