08/20/2025
Thankfully the temps have dropped by 10 to 12 degrees this week & we had a bit of rain, although not nearly enough! 😔🌧
However, the trails, forests & parks are still closed as an extra fire precaution, so I’m still limited on where I can walk dogs with certain training requirements. Due to their training needs Benny & Frankie are not yet ready for busy streets and places with lots of distractions. These will only trigger them and create stress, which we want to avoid while I build up their confidence, resilience, and trust. 💝💫
Whilst Benny & Frankie will eventually benefit from doggy social walks (and when they're ready!). It is very important that some foundational training be established first. Dog social walks should be carried out with an extremely calm, polite, non-reactive, well socialised dog (and I know the perfect candidate!! 😉).
As a Trainer, one of the things I’ve heard mentioned many times over the years about socialising dogs is;... “Just take the dog to a busy dog park and let the other dogs sort them out!”
Why is this a bad idea?❗️
❗️’Forcing’ dogs to be social or to become ‘friends’ doesn’t always end well!
[It would be like me making you enter a room full of other humans & telling you all to get along! Not all humans are social butterflies and there will definitely be one or more people that you just don’t click with! I’m pretty sure most people would also feel awkward, anxious or overwhelmed…I know I would! I prefer to pick my own friends!]
❗️Not all dogs are good communicators or are able to read other dogs body language & may misunderstand & find themselves in difficult & stressful situations.
❗️A dog park is full of so many different energy types; overly excited (bouncing dog to dog, jumping, barking & being annoying!), overly exuberant (missing all the signals!), stressed, anxious, nervous, over stimulated, aroused, rude, prey driven dogs, assertive, confident, maybe a calm dog or two, that at some point a dog dispute or fight is going to break out or some form of aggression be displayed!
❗️Forcing an already stressed or fearful dog into a stressful situation is only going to elevate their stress levels, making them unable to cope, decreasing their resilience & tolerance level and thus, regress in their training, which in most cases can actually make a dog become even more fearful of other dogs and they won’t want to go near a dog park ever again!
❗️Some dogs ignore, miss or cannot read ‘cut off’ signals, which dogs give when they want a break from play or interactions & may get themselves into trouble!
❗️A lot of the time dog parks are also full of socially inexperienced dogs, who are not actually well socialised at all!
❗️Generally speaking really well socialised, calm, confident & polite dogs will want to avoid places like dog parks because they find them chaotic, full of unstable dogs & will actually make a dog feel anxious putting them in these kind of awkward situations.
❗️When I’ve observed other dogs in dog parks, I’ve witnessed a lot of them displaying high amounts of stress, anxiety, displacement behaviors, avoidance of other dogs, appeasement & even fear!
❗️Dog parks are NOT a good place to socialise a dog! Dogs mimic behaviors of other dogs too, so your dog can pick up unwanted behaviors in the process!
❗️Out of 10 dogs, your dog will make 1-2 friends that they get along with, but the other 8-9 dogs may cause them stress, anxiety or be avoided!
❗️There's a lot of hormones in an enclosed space! Some dogs may not be fixed (spayed or neutered), which can definitely trigger a fight amongst dogs, especially males competing over females in heat (you should NEVER put your female in this situation, things can turn ugly very quickly!).
❗️ Small puppies can be an easy target and may get picked on. They are not yet equipped with coping skills, communication required, and may become quickly overwhelmed & stressed.
We did a walk in the pups neighborhood, some of the quieter side streets and cut through a quiet park on the way back. We did see some distractions; a stroller, cyclists, people & dogs, a garbage truck! It was garbage day and while I don’t permit dogs to p*e up garbage totes, recycling bags or sniff gross garbage! It’s a smelly treat for their noses walking by garbage bags! The pups calmly observed their triggers at a safe distance, we also used distraction tools, treat tosses, distance or crossed the street to give the pups more distance & to offer them a choice. Once you offer choices, you’ll find your dog will pick the choice that best suits them. We also touched on leash manners to help Frankie with his 'pulling' when he gets triggered & goes into flight mode!
The pups were ready for a nap by the time we got back. They worked their cute little brains hard today! 🧠🤗💞