12/06/2021
Time to remind clients and potential clients (who's pets I have not seen or have knowledge of how they're doing recently) about one very special service i provide, that's the tough topic of euthanasia.
euthanasia is clearly a very difficult and emotional decision. and unfortunately i find there's so much information and so many questions that need to be investigated by owners that i feel veterinarians would do better to have a preparatory meeting with a client struggling with this decision.
When's the right time? is my pet suffering? how to tell if theyre in pain? does my pet have time left? should i have done this earlier? should children be present? what is the process?
see there are lots of things to become clear about.....and i dont feel i can do a good job with this on first meeting a client.....and then with covid it makes it even more difficult (can i hold my pet while you give the injection, can i be there, can you come in the house and do it on his favorite spot on the couch....What if its not appropriate to do this, then what, how much time do we have and what to do in the meantime? what if my pet has cancer versus old age, are the issues different ?.........the list goes on....
so for this reason i'm separating this process into 2 visits: first we schedule a meeting where all the owners questions are identified and discussed, we allow time for consultation with family, we sleep on it....we do this early enough in the process (if possible) so its not a drama, emotionally charged event. we prescribe tranquilizers for the pet so that there's less stress on that final day, when ever it will be. we will also discuss the 'funeral' arrangements.
then finally, there is the next visit, when its time....this is never easy but much less traumatic when thought out with the help of a veterinary health professional.
this is such an important decision, it deserves a little extra time spent. i know for myself, having been both the pet owner and the veterinarian on duty at the same time.....hardest thing i ever do and gets harder all the time......that's why i'm so committed to doing this with these priorities in order: 1) well being and relief of suffering for the pet. 2) clear thinking, honesty and support for the owner and family.
thanks for reading this
drtom