10/06/2025
The path of the wild sovereign woman is not for the faint of heart.
You may be shamed.
Some may claim you are seeking attention, you are a narcissist, you need to quiet down and be more pleasing.
Your embodiment, your creativity, your range of emotion may be seen as a threat, as ungodly, as impure.
Sisters, remember: Your humility, your willingness to be seen even in the mess, your grief, your anger, your forgiveness, your resilience, your song, your dance… this is your power.
You can reclaim yourself again and again by looking at your problems from a lens of “how did I contribute to this?”
Blame is a sword that you must put down again and again.
Innocence is a seat you can choose to inhabit at any time. No one can take it from you.
Pleasure is power, it is fuel for your work of service. Claim it. So you can give from a full cup.
Grief is a river that flows, let it flow freely.
I share this as a woman who almost put myself away this year- who almost decided that my very essence must be “bad” and “wrong” because of heavy projections that came my way, and from intense hardships that I faced as a single mother.
But then, swimming naked in the river with my sisters, I remembered.
This body is my home. This earth is my home. Every part of me is welcome - even the parts I’d rather hide.
I am not “bad” or “wrong”. I don’t deserve to suffer for having made turns in my journey that led to hardship.
If you haven’t noticed- the earth is unravelling. We are unravelling together with her and building something new by being honest about our love AND about our pain.
Few of us were offered enough tools to navigate this journey and so we are finding the tools as we go.
Be the wayfinder. Share from what you learn as you are tossed about in the waves of life. 🌊
The old ways can no longer hold all of us. So make new ways that hold you the way you long to be held.
Grieve and dance and sing and heal and offer your gifts. As you do- your soul will remind you how to find your way home, and you will guide others home too.
With love,
B
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