12/07/2025
This time I want to speak a bit about reassurance.
When horses are afraid and stressed their behavior can quickly become so erratic and their movements so strong and fast that the situation can easily become quite dangerous for us humans.
Horses are prey animals and so it is simply natural for their fear responses to be so huge, consequently we don't ever have to judge them as being bad or naughty, by doing something intentionally to hurt us, as theirs is just a surviving instinct and not a disobedience at all.
Well, horses have two basic responses to scary situations: if it's possible they run away, while if they feel trapped they begin to fight for their own survival.
So for us humans is important to try staying always below their panic threshold, developing the ability to understand their emotional state accurately, while also being self-aware of our own one too, as our horse will tend to mirror our emotions too.
So if we can remain calm this in itself can be a very important first reassurance for our horse, communicating that there's nothing to fear.
Then to me there are basically three effective ways to deal with a scared horse.
1) Speaking with a calm, low tone while gently caressing him with a thoughtful steady touch, absolutely never slapping, can help him to settle down.
On the contrary a loud screaming voice can get just the opposite effect.
2) The eating motion alone generally settles horses down and actually provides reassurance that they are safe, as horses don't eat without feeling a sense of safety.
So it's useful to let them eat something and in fact it's very common to see fearful horses grabbing a bite of grass and quickly bringing their head up again, dancing around a bit and then grabbing another bite, going on like this until they finally care more about eating than what they were afraid of.
3) Rather than attempting to restrain a scared horse by increasing his sense of feeling in danger, it's more useful to ask for a simple releasing movement, such as walking around us: what's more horses in the wild are reassured of safety by the guide of the herd who knows when and where to move the herd for its protection.
So at the end of the day our human reassurance for a fearful horse can be expressed in some different ways, but all of them have always in common a calm, confident and skillful handling being based on a willing cooperation and a developed sense of mutual trust 🧡