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We are once again looking forward to presenting Part 1 and Part 2 of Learning to Listen.If you want to learn how to succ...
05/12/2025

We are once again looking forward to presenting Part 1 and Part 2 of Learning to Listen.

If you want to learn how to successfully observe dogs and then learn about the OCD Framework for thinking beyond the observations then this is for you.

Sessions are an hour and fully interactive so lots of opportunities to get involved ( if you are comfortable too)

Tickets are available at www.speakdog.co.uk/events

If you have a valid ticket through one of the amazing businesses who collaborates with us then please ensure you use your code to avoid charges.

11th December starting at 6.30pm
Tickets are just £17.50
Certificate Available for evidence of CPD.

“For me the goal should be to support a dog in feeling safe enough to become a butterfly, not to suppress them into bein...
04/12/2025

“For me the goal should be to support a dog in feeling safe enough to become a butterfly, not to suppress them into being too afraid to break out of their cocoon.”

( Picture of my beautiful golden oldie, Miss Mouse, enjoying her well known drop and roll routine on the beach )

The world feels different now, almost unrecognisable compared to just a few years ago. Life moves faster, expectations r...
01/12/2025

The world feels different now, almost unrecognisable compared to just a few years ago.

Life moves faster, expectations run higher, and everywhere we turn there seems to be more pressure: to achieve, to respond, to keep up.

People carry heavier loads on their shoulders, and with that weight often comes frustrations.

We see it in shorter tempers, less patience, and a growing sense that everyone is just… overwhelmed.

Whilst we know our dogs live with us, we sometimes forget is that our dogs experience this world with us.

They may not understand the news or the deadlines but the constant noise of modern life, the tension they feel it and carry it.

They can’t take a sick day, or change their environment, or step away from the chaos.

Dogs rely on us completely, for stability, for comfort, for a sense of safety.

They absorb our emotions, even the ones we never speak out loud. They feel the pressure of a home and life that’s rushed or overwhelmed.

And yet, despite carrying pieces of our stress, they still meet us with trust. With hope. With loyalty.

They wait for us to notice when they need gentleness, when they’re confused, when they’re anxious. They wait for us to make their world bearable again.

In a world that feels harsher than it used to, maybe the kindest thing we can do, both for ourselves and for them,.is to slow down, breathe, soften, and remember that they’re navigating all of this right beside us.

They depend on us to guide them, to protect them, and to give them the peace that can be so hard to find out there.

If we can’t always make the world better, at least we can make their world better. And sometimes, in doing so, we make our own world a little gentler too.

(.Picture of Lettie my beautiful lurcher and our good friend Hilary)

This, all day long!!!! 🥰
30/11/2025

This, all day long!!!! 🥰

LAST NEW DATE AVAILABLE IN 2025The final dates for Learning to Listen Part 1 and 2 for 2025 have now been released.If yo...
29/11/2025

LAST NEW DATE AVAILABLE IN 2025

The final dates for Learning to Listen Part 1 and 2 for 2025 have now been released.

If you have a ticket for a session through one of our fantastic collaborators, please ensure you use your unique code when purchasing to avoid additional costs.

If you would like to join us and purchase a ticket, you can do so on the website www.speakdog.co.uk via the events page.

11th December

Part One - Observation over Interpretation: 6.30pm
Part Two - The OCD Framework: 8pm.

Sessions are an hour long and interactive, fun, and relaxed.

If you have any questions, please email me at [email protected]

29/11/2025

SPEAK DOG BUSINESS COLLABORATION SHOUT OUT.

SWINDON AND SURROUNDING AREAS

Having 11 dogs its not always easy finding someone who is happy to welcome the crew and somewhere that's safe and easy to let all the dogs out for some fun.

I appreciate not everyone is as mental as me having this many dogs, but off lead spaces are so valuable for many reasons and for many people and dogs.

We wanted to give K9 Confidential Training and Behaviour a BIG shout out, we are always made welcome, the dogs LOVE thier time there, the security and entry system puts my nerves at ease ( that's not easy).

If you're looking for a place to enjoy some time with your dog please do check them out.

www.k9confidential.co.uk

.How Human Health Can Affect Dog BehaviourDogs are incredible observers. They pay attention to our tone, posture, scent,...
27/11/2025

.How Human Health Can Affect Dog Behaviour

Dogs are incredible observers. They pay attention to our tone, posture, scent, movement, breathing, and daily rhythms. When a human in the home is experiencing physical or mental health challenges, dogs can pick up on these changes.

Here’s how human health can influence canine behaviour:

1. Changes in human scent

Illness, hormonal changes, stress, or medication can alter a person’s natural scent. Dogs rely on scent as one of their primary ways of interpreting the world, so these changes can create uncertainty or concern.

2. Shifts in human routine

Health challenges often disrupt daily structure, walks may become shorter, feeding times shift, play decreases. Dogs thrive on consistency, so sudden changes can lead to anxiety, frustration, or restlessness.

3. Changes in human mood and body language

Pain, fatigue, depression, and stress all affect how we move, speak, and interact. Even subtle shifts are meaningful to dogs, who may respond with behaviours ( but not limited to)

increased clinginess

guarding behaviours

reduced confidence

agitation or pacing

withdrawal

4. Reduced engagement or communication

When a person isn’t feeling well, their ability to offer clear guidance, cues, or affection may change. Dogs can become confused or begin to test boundaries simply because they are unsure.

5. Empathic or mirroring responses

Some dogs, especially highly attuned or bonded individuals, may actually mirror the emotional state of their human.

If the person is stressed, the dog becomes stressed. If the person is sedentary, the dog’s energy and behaviour may shift too.

Our health and wellbeing matters!!

Now can you imagine a dog processing the emotional and or physical information from thier humans and then trying to " train" this out of the dog!

Training a dog using kind methods could still potentially add more stressors in some situations. My goal is always to seek ways to decrease demands and pressures not add more expectations.

Now think about someone using harsher methods to stop the behaviour, I find it very sad to think about how those dogs might feel.

Why Professionals Investigate the Whole Picture

A dog doesn’t exist in isolation. Their behaviour is shaped by:

the home environment

the relationships around them

daily routines

the emotional climate

and yes, even human health

A skilled and ethical dog professional investigates all aspects of a dog’s life because behaviour is rarely the result of one simple cause.

By understanding and identifying stressors the dog is responding to. Adapting support plans to the family’s capacity, and supporting both dog and humans more compassionately.

We can better avoid mislabeling behaviours as “problems” when they’re actually symptoms, and can encourage better lines of communication and understanding and work towards long term change..

A good professional investigates, we dont simply turn up, train and leave 🔎

Why thank you Quality Business Awards !!
20/11/2025

Why thank you Quality Business Awards !!

Help — My Dog Resource Guards.Understandably, most people think resource guarding is simply about training: swapping ite...
20/11/2025

Help — My Dog Resource Guards.

Understandably, most people think resource guarding is simply about training: swapping items for higher-value rewards, teaching a cue to release the object, or using obedience to “fix” the problem. These approaches get treated as the solution.

But resource guarding is a symptom, not a diagnosis.

I’ve worked with numerous dogs where guarding was actually a by-product of an underlying health issue. Pain, discomfort, and medical changes can drastically affect how secure a dog feels in their world.

Other times, it’s rooted in learned experiences, maybe the dog had items taken away repeatedly, or felt unsafe around certain resources. And sometimes it’s not about the item at all, but about a deeper need for control in general, with the item simply becoming the outlet.

Sure, I could punish a dog for displaying the behaviour. For some dogs, that might suppress it. But then what? How does punishing a dog resolve pain, gastrointestinal issues, thyroid problems, or sensory changes?
It doesn’t.

You may end up with a quiet dog, one who knows that showing discomfort gets them in trouble, yet the underlying issue remains. Now you have a dog who is still struggling, but silently.

When working these cases, I prefer to fully investigate. I liaise with the right team of professionals to rule in or rule out other causes. We must understand what we’re dealing with in order to support the dog appropriately and help the humans understand what their dog is communicating.

This kind of work can take longer than simply punishing a dog into silence. But silence isn’t change.

True change comes from real understanding

If Aversive Tools Were Truly Harmless… Why Wouldn’t We Use Them?When we talk about dog training, emotions inevitably get...
18/11/2025

If Aversive Tools Were Truly Harmless… Why Wouldn’t We Use Them?

When we talk about dog training, emotions inevitably get involved, and rightfully so.

Think about it, we read something, disagree and even that can impact us enough to retaliate with anger in some cases.

Words can hurt our feelings but being pronged and shocked doesnt ever hurt dogs?

Dogs are sentient beings, they experience fear, stress, joy, curiosity, and connection. So when conversations come up around tools like shock collars, prong collars, or choke chains, it’s important to approach the topic with compassion and clarity.

Let’s be honest for a minute.

If there truly existed a tool, say, a shock collar, that wasn’t aversive, wasn’t punishing, didn’t hurt, didn’t frighten, and genuinely felt good for the dog… while also delivering fast, reliable training results… then why on earth wouldn’t we use it?

Seriously.
If a device could magically communicate what we want, instantly and painlessly, and dogs enjoyed the experience, it would be irresponsible not to consider it. We’d all want access to something that made learning easier and deepened the bond between handler and dog.

But that’s not the reality.

Why I Don’t Use These Tools

Speaking personally, and on behalf of my business, the reason I don’t use shock, prong, or choke tools is simple:

I don’t need them.

I already have methods available that:

teach effectively

build trust

protect the dog’s emotional well-being

create lasting behavioural change

strengthen the human-dog relationship

And I can achieve all of this without applying pain, fear, intimidation, or intentional discomfort.

If a tool relies on causing an unpleasant sensation, or the threat of one, to stop behaviour, then it is, by definition, aversive. And even when an aversive tool “works,” it can bring along unwanted side effects: anxiety, suppression, stress, or breakdowns in communication.

Think about it…

If these tools were truly harmless…
If they truly had zero negative emotional or physical impact…
If dogs genuinely enjoyed them…

Why would any compassionate, welfare-focused trainer choose not to use them?

It would make no sense to leave an effective, pain-free training option out of our toolbox. Trainers aren’t avoiding them out of stubbornness or ideology. We avoid them because:

The evidence doesn’t support the “harmless” claim.

There are better, kinder, modern alternatives.

The welfare of the dog matters more than shortcut results.

It’s not about shaming people for being misinformed or overwhelmed, its about showing there are kinder, better ways if you want to be a compassionate caregiver.

It’s about advocating for dogs.

It’s about ensuring the methods we choose, every single day, honour the emotional lives of the animals who trust us.

When we know better, we do better. And as professionals who understand behaviour, learning theory, body language, and stress responses, we have a responsibility to choose approaches that prioritise welfare.

At the End of the Day…

I don’t avoid aversive tools because I just dont know how to use them properly.
I avoid them because I don’t agree with using them.

And if there ever came a day when a genuinely non-aversive, enjoyable, instant-communication collar existed? I’d be the first to research it.

But until then, I’ll stick with what protects the dog, respects the dog, and builds them up from the inside out.

Because that should be the heart of training:
teaching with kindness, clarity, and compassion.

Aversive tools "work" because the dog wants to avoid the unpleasant sensation, even if the company, professional or pers...
18/11/2025

Aversive tools "work" because the dog wants to avoid the unpleasant sensation, even if the company, professional or person pushes it as gentle, even on a 10!!! 🙄

If the dog isn't feeling it, why not use a whistle ?

I Plant the Seed 🌱There’s often a lot of pressure, and sometimes blame is placed on professionals in this industry when ...
13/11/2025

I Plant the Seed 🌱

There’s often a lot of pressure, and sometimes blame is placed on professionals in this industry when someone has paid for your services and understandably expects results.

But here’s the truth: I am here to plant the seed.

I can plant it, show you how to water it, and help you figure out why it might not be growing as expected, but........

If you don’t regularly water the seed yourself, if you dont treat the bugs, or want to buy plant food or move it from the place that's too dark, into the light; then it is unlikely to thrive and grow.

The truth is, no matter how good the professional might be, there is little a reputable professional can do to make the seed grow in those circumstances.

The reality is: a good professional wants you to succeed and for your dog to be happy.

We want to make life better for you and your dog; we want you to feel you received a good service and speak highly of us and recommend us to others.

My job does sometimes entail having conversations around appropriate expectations; sometimes people plant a daffodil bulb and expect it to blossom into a tulip.

Sometimes people want to see it flower after a few days of watering it, I understand it, but it's just not possible. Nurturing takes time, patience, consistency, and the right conditions.

It's essential to recognise the roles we ALL play when seeking change, growth, and adaptation. 🌿

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