Thank you to everyone who joined me for the Learning to Listen Session yesterday evening.
Everyone did so well, and it was a fun and relaxed session with everyone getting involved in the interactive parts and some great answers given and questions at the end.
Hope to see everyone again at some point.
Sound on.......Funny how I love hearing dogs chow down but human chewing I find quite irritating 😅
Cronchy, yummy moon bones for the dogs.
Chewing has so many benefits, one study showed it lowered dogs pulse rate.
Types of chew matters, hardness, duration, texture etc.
Good for mental wellness, teeth, plus offering variety of food can have benefits for the gut microbiome amongst other things.
Treat boxes are available on our shop page
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So, firstly aplogies for the crap video footage, but I wanted to show the scenario.
I am working with these two beautiful Rottie x Lab girls.
One of them is a little unsure when out and about and can bark and pull at people.
I was walking down a quiet familiar (to them) location when unusually a lady and a small child was heading towards us.
With nowhere to go, I turned back and headed for this little side path and walked slowly down it allowing them to sniff and mooch about.
The lady and child passed and nothing eventful happened.
You see avoidance may not change the behaviour but can avoid making the association stronger or habit.
Why would I want to carry on in that direction knowing the dog would struggle and react?
Why would I want to put them in a situation where they might worry a little girl and adult?
Why would I want to have to hold on to them as they pull hard.
You see after they had passed we went back to where we were and went on our walk.
I fully understand there are some situations that you just get trapped but that should be a rarety if we're picking the right locations and making the right choices.
A simple brief change in my plan made all the difference to the dog, the people passing ( unbeknownst to them) and to me.
When humans change their behaviours, patterns, thought processes, and expectations, it can have a HUGELY positive impact for our dogs.
Changes aren't just the dogs responsibility 🙂
Meet Tia
We are just starting our journey together but I wanted to share this.
This is Tia working the Speak Dog activity mat and sniffy mat set.
She works calmly and methodically which has a HUGE amount of benefits for Tia.
Tia's human said they were worth the wait and such great quality.
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Part Deux
Now although there is soft blinking and a head turn this is very common for Tesla when someone is looking at her, although she is very happy to approach and make eye contact when she is wanting to innitiate contact or wants something.
Here we can see her chest area is a much preferred area for contact than her head, which I try to be mindful of and advise other people of.
Of course I sometimes fail when I'm mid way through a cuddle with another of my dogs who likes a head scratch, but we're human and she kindly and gently reminds me when needed 🥰
Thank you to my friend for allowing me to capture this conversation and sharing it.
Also the flat pack was made , it's still standing and we're still friends 🤣
Meet Tesla, one of my very beautiful little girls.
She is a very sweet natured girl who avoids conflict like the plague.
I have two videos to share the first video shows her communicating she would prefer her head not being stroked, it's not due to any reason other than her personal preference.
Tesla actually approached my friend ( we were flat pack building) she knows her very well and tapped her for a stroke.
There is a difference though from pawing to pull her hand towards for physical contact and down to get a rub in the desired place, which is what you see in this video.
I want to stress that she is not fearful and can be handled there when necessary ( checking ears for example).
Video 2 will he posted shortly 😊
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Thank you Sam from the fabulous K9 Confidential Training and Behaviour for giving this wonderful review about the " Learning to Listen Business Collaboration "
Sam was one of the first professionals to see the benefits of this service and welcome it into her business model.
If you want to find out about how this popular collaboration service can work for you, your business and clients please do get in touch.
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Meet Diesel 😍
His guardians won't mind me saying he was all over the place when out and about.
He yanked you out the door, pulled like a train, and often barked at people and dogs.
A " Professional" said he was the worst they had ever walked 😪
He is such a lovely boy but he is anxious and finds the world a lot to process so going at 100 miles an hour didn't allow him time to think!!
Over the last few months we've worked hard.
Not on heelwork, or gaining control, quite the opposite I've listened, created safety, space and allowed HIM to have choice and build trust in me and himself.
I'm not after robot perfection, I'm looking for decompression, trust, and him knowing I have his back.
He still sometimes pulls and struggles with his belly but by god have we come on MASSIVELY.
No aversive tools, no needing to take charge, be leader or any other outdated rubbish.
Just good old fashion compassion!!
This video warms my heart, good job Diesel Dog 🥰
Speak Dog are absolutely thrilled to be collaborating with the utterly amazing Amy Thomson Dog Training.
Clients joining one of Amy's fantastic Life Skills courses can join the "Learning to Listen" Session that I present as part of thier package.
How cool is that!!!
This vital information will help Amy's clients understand how to gather accurate information about thier puppies and dogs, which benefits the dog, the guardian, and the professional.
Please check Amy's classes out if you are local to Cirencester and surrounding areas and want a ethical, reputable Trainer, I believe she has some cool online resources becoming available soon too 😊
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This video may not seem impressive but trust me it's HUGE!
This video shows time, dedication and effort, and trust amongst other things.
Lexi has always panicked about traffic but we have been working hard on not overwhelming her, giving her space, and giving her moral support.
This was sent to me by Lexis humans and I am so proud of them all, what A team!!
A wonderful example of why avoidong constant, high intensity exposure pays off.
Dogs shouldn't go on sofa's they said.
Dogs should sit below you so they know who is pack leader they said.
WHAT A LOAD OF UTTER NONSENSE, I SAID!!
Dogs are here for such a short time, they offer us SO MUCH, you have all the sofa space you want guys, it's the least I can offer you!
PLEASE CONSIDER.... !!
New Year's Eve will be the beginning of a death sentence for so many innocent dogs.
I have said my piece about the legislation BUT I would like to mention another area it also impacts.
Please also take a little time to consider the impact and horror that has been forced on professionals within the dog community.
The welfare organisations who will see dogs they have cared for and loved euthanised, an increase in these dogs being dumped, abandoned knowing they can't help them just put them to sleep!
The staff at vets who will witness and for some have to be part of a mass euthanasia process.
As animal lovers for many this will be just as heartbreaking and stressful as it gets.
Please be kind, please be considerate ❤️
To any of my amazing fellow professionals,
please reach out, please talk, please know we need each other now more than ever and I am here for anyone that needs a listening and sympathetic ear!
To all the dogs affected, I'm so so sorry humans let you down!
The festive season will soon be upon us and no doubt for many of us we are still trying to figure out what to buy family and friends!
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Visit our website www.speakdog.co.uk press the shop tab and the drop down for gift cards will appear like the magic of Christmas itself.
You will be at the top of Santa's good list for sure!!
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Do you have a dog that struggles in some situations?
Maybe they bark at other dogs, hide from people, seem hyperactive or destructive?
You may think you need a firm hand to gain respect ....YOU ABSOLUTELY DO NOT.!!
Almost anyone can call themselves a " professional" and bully a dog into stopping many behaviours.
It takes knowledge, kindness, compassion and ethics to help and support a dog and thier human to make better choices built on a relationship of trust, safety.
A reputable professional will always look at what your dogs needs and not expect the dog to simply " fall in line"
Please be your dogs advocate 🥺
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