
03/07/2025
๐ Yesterday saw another one of theTTDE dogs' birthdays.
๐ถ Firefly was 8 years old, and she got to do what she loves best - swimming ๐โโ๏ธ
๐ค As dog trainers and behaviourists, it would be easy to think that we never have struggles with our own dogs, but this couldn't be further from the truth.
๐ณ Life with Firefly has not been easy. Despite having lots of experience with Labradors, she's certainly taught us lots.
โน๏ธ Just as people can struggle with regulating their emotions, so can dogs and Firefly is a prime example of that. It would be easy to punish her when we see behaviours we don't like, such as jumping up, pulling on the lead etc but if you look at the bigger picture and the situation in which these behaviours occur, it's because she finds it too overwhelming.
โ๏ธHow do we manage this โ๏ธ
๐ข We lower our expectations of what she can achieve
๐ข We don't put her in situations she can't cope with, and if we see her starting to struggle, then we remove her from the situation and reflect on what should've been done instead.
๐ข We consider how she can be carefully introduced to new situations at a pace she can manage, that means there is adequate distance and time frames are kept short. All of these things can be gradually increased as her emotional responses improve
๐ข We never punish her
๐ข We make sure all her basic needs have been met before starting any training
๐ข She gets plenty of breaks doing 'dog' things.
๐ข We reward the behaviours we do like
๐ข We have lots of patience
๐ข We ensure that we have allocated plenty of time so we don't need to rush through training
๐ขWe celebrate small wins
๐ขWe don't focus on what she can't do, but look at the things she's great at
โ๏ธ Nobody's perfect โ๏ธ