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09/03/2025

Leash reactive šŸ’„
Over excited ā“
Fear reactive šŸ‘€
Maybe you have a super spicy combo of the above?
Tension will ALWAYS create tension and with a reactive dog it can add to all of the issues you both face....and we can often make it worse by adding tension on that lead.
We BOTH need to get out of the habit of constantly feeling that straining and tightening of the leash and stop our habit of pulling back, none of it helps. It can make everything worse.
If you want to teach a loose lead walking technique, there is a video in the comments (just uploaded yesterday)....it walks you through some fundamentals and has some real examples.
You CAN do this !šŸ™‚āœ…

This dog training handout is available through https://www.abcdogsnz.com/product-page/abc-dogs-nz-loose-lead-walking-reactive-dogs?srsltid=AfmBOoquMLw0fOkQUAyCsXUzoPDrLdmHulhMr8CTBW18AvxG7pQH2By8

09/03/2025

Dear public, if you reach out to a dog trainer and they proudly call themselves ā€œbalanced,ā€ run the other way.

Why? These methods rely heavily on choking, shocking, and intimidating your dog into compliance.

ā€œBalanced trainingā€ isnā€™t genuine balance, itā€™s harm masked in appealing language, fundamentally incompatible with modern behavioral science and humane ethical standards.

Unlike truly science-based methods, it relies on suppressing behavior through pain, fear, and intimidation, directly contradicting what we now know about canine psychology, learning theory, and animal welfare.

Itā€™s not just another style; itā€™s outdated, unnecessary, and actively harmful.

Remember, dog training is entirely unregulated, anyone can slap on a label and start shocking, choking, or intimidating your dog without any accountability, leaving your dogā€™s emotional and physical health in the hands of novices with zero qualifications and zero oversight.

Research published in the journal Anthrozoƶs analyzed language from 100 popular dog training websites, revealing that trainers using aversive methods frequently employ specific euphemisms and jargon, such as calling shock collars ā€œe-collars,ā€ referring to painful electric shocks as ā€œstatic correctionsā€ or ā€œstimulation,ā€ and using terms like ā€œpack leaderā€ to justify outdated dominance-based methods.

These phrases are chosen PRECISELY to conceal the harsh reality of their practices.

Another common tactic employed by these folks is making bold guarantees and unrealistic promises, such as ā€œguaranteed results in one sessionā€ or ā€œinstant off-leash freedom.ā€

Such claims exploit desperate guardians, promising quick fixes that rely on painful corrections and aversives to suppress, rather than genuinely resolve, behavioral issues, methods scientifically shown to worsen stress, fear, and aggression in dogs.

But their methods are not aligned with modern ethical standards upheld by any leading behavior science and animal welfare organizations.

Every credentialed veterinary behavior organization worldwide, including the American Veterinary Society of Animal Behavior (AVSAB), explicitly condemns their methods because overwhelming scientific evidence strongly supports they directly cause significant psychological harm, dramatically increasing stress, anxiety, fear, and aggression in dogs.

These harmful techniques can severely damage your relationship with your dog and lead to new, more complex behavioral problems over time.

In stark contrast, modern dog training and behavior methods embrace humane, neuro-affirming practices that prioritize your dogā€™s emotional health, cognitive development, and individual personality.

Neuro-affirming teaching isnā€™t just about rewards or reinforcement, itā€™s a commitment to understanding and nurturing your dogā€™s emotional health, cognitive abilities, and individual personality. It demands a profound respect for dogs as sentient beings whose well-being deserves absolute protection.

You deserve a trainer who doesnā€™t just claim results, but who is educated enough to foster genuine trust, resilience, and emotional safety, someone committed to transparency, compassion, and scientific rigor. Anything less is failing both you and your dog.

When searching for dog trainers, beware of euphemistic and ambiguous marketing language. Look critically at claims of instant fixes or guaranteed results and be cautious of websites using terms like ā€œe-collarā€ without honestly explaining that they mean shock collars.

Instead, choose trainers who are transparent about their methods, clearly state their reliance on humane approaches, explicitly reject the use of aversive tools, and openly discuss the long-term, compassionate, and scientifically validated approaches they use.

I realize this post will ruffle the feathers of "balanced" trainers, and while our community warmly welcomes those ready to cross over to humane methods, the violence and denial in this profession must stop.

For those still digging in their heels, here are a few questions you owe it to the public, yourself, and to dogs, to honestly answer:

If your methods arenā€™t abusive, why do you need to use devices designed specifically to inflict pain, fear, or discomfort on dogs?

If causing pain or fear is truly unnecessary, how can you justify repeatedly choosing tools and methods proven to cause psychological trauma?

Why do you continue using methods explicitly condemned by credentialed animal behavior experts as unethical and harmful, if youā€™re genuinely interested in the well-being of dogs?

Learn more:

https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/fellow-creatures/202304/you-have-to-read-dog-trainers-websites-closely-study-says

09/03/2025
18/02/2025

Another controversial post...
For many years now the "answer" to all resource guarding was to hand feed meals.
If only it were that simple and if only it helped every dogā€¦..but it doesnā€™t ā—
In fact, it can exacerbate resource guarding for many dogs.
The comment ā€œhand feed every biteā€ is thrown around on social media when the subject of resource guarding comes up.
It is time to look deeper at the issueā€¦not just for ā€œsimpleā€ solutions.
Hand feed every bite āš ļø
Take your dogs bowl away when they are eating āš ļø
Put your hand in their food when they eat āš ļø
Feed only in a crateāš ļø
None of this takes into account a dogs individual issues and it can cause many more issues than it solves.

Some trainers still believe putting your hand in a dogs food and hand feeding dogs their meals is a magical cure for all resource guarders. Then there are the "other" trainers (and we are in a minority, or at least it seems that way). There are VERY real dangers with RG and hand feeding.
Resource guarding morphs and changes.
It can expand in many different waysā€¦.all from following a strangers advice and they may be very well meaning.
Perhaps it worked for them, but many trainers have seen the damage this advice can do.
The person is then guarded ā—
The crate has become a highly valued resource and now people canā€™t go near it ā—
This dog may have developed multiple areas that this show up in now, and in multiple situations.

A few of us have seen the issues "hand feed every bite" causes and thankfully there are a growing number of us pointing out the dangers of this. If you have issues with RG, you do need to be aware that this needs professional help.
Google, Ai or dog behaviour groups won't really help and can make this worrying issue even worse.
If you are looking for tips or advice in this postā€¦.there really are none (apart from seek real help) because this can be a very dangerous topic to advise on without a full understanding of that individual dog.
All the best with this, it can be a very worrying and complex issue indeed.
This dog training graphic is available through https://www.abcdogsnz.com/product-page/abc-dogs-nz-resource-guarding?srsltid=AfmBOopG0AFwrmbElmFmtsDjkBCEhZjiCIecPC7TkB1nPuY3YfAYP1bl

07/01/2025

In Defence of the Cockapoo

I love cockapoos. There. Iā€™ve said it. Itā€™s cool to hate on them and call them designer dogs but actually I really like them. However they are grossly missold.

They are not an easy, lazy, low maintenance family pet.

They are a cross between two working breeds. Usually a miniature poodle, one of the most intelligent breeds on the planet, and a working cocker spaniel, arguably as intelligent and crazy high energy.

These dogs are smart, tenacious, often loud with a wicked sense of humour. They are also often sensitive and easily startled or worried by things. If they are exercised appropriately and given an outlet for all those smarts and busyness they are phenomenal. If they arenā€™t, well frankly they are a hot mess. They can be destructive and reactive and yes, aggressive, with a particular disposition for resource guarding.

If you want a family pet to lay on the sofa all day, make sure they are from show lines spaniels at the least, and make sure you meet and assess the temperament of the parents. If you want an active pet, down for mud, adventure, water, fun, sports and general energetic joy, then this is the breed for you. Do the dog justice. Whether you think they are a breed or not, they are becoming ever popular and Iā€™m seeing so many dogs that just need an outlet.

Cockapoos excel in most dogsports, especially agility. Seeing that glorious fluff storm around an agility course, usually barking at the same time is a joy to behold, and itā€™s the owners of dogs that have this outlet that usually have the most well rounded dogs.

So this is a post celebrating the cockapoo, but reminding you that they are not a lapdog. Get one by all means, there are *some* conscientious, good breeders of them out there, but do the dog justice. PLEASE

Time to look at the majority of pet dogs now...?
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Time to look at the majority of pet dogs now...?

Many domestic horsesā€™ needs for space, forage and socialisation are not being med, a survey has shown ā€“ as it provides opportunity to improve equine wellbeing. The National Equine Welfare Council (NEWC) has announced the publication of a ā€œgroundbreakingā€ two-part study that ā€œdelivers a com...

Wise words - oh and don't dress them up!  They're animals with fur, not bald humans!
08/12/2024

Wise words - oh and don't dress them up! They're animals with fur, not bald humans!

āŒAT CHRISTMAS YOUR DOG DOESNā€™T HAVE TO:

šŸ§‘ā€šŸŽ„ Visit Santa at the garden centre

šŸŽ„ Be around your visitors

šŸŽ…šŸ½ Go to other peoples houses

šŸŽ„ Go to see the Christmas lights switch on

šŸŗ Go to the busy pub on Christmas Eve

If they are anxious or get worried about people, dogs or busy places or if they just donā€™t like doing these things. Itā€™s not a fault if they donā€™t like doing these things, many dogs donā€™t enjoy ā€˜human activitiesā€™ like this (some do, I have one that loves all of it and two that would be šŸ«¤ ).

āœ… Instead they may prefer to:

šŸšŖ Be in their safe space (see upcoming post on this), a quiet room they like being in with a dog gate on the doorway when you have a house full of people who may scare them

šŸ• Have an extra trip to a freedom field on Christmas morning and some extra enrichment at home while you go and visit family for a few hours if theyā€™d find it stressful to come with you

šŸ¶ A meet up with a dog or human friend at a place they like rather than a trip to the heaving pub on Christmas Eve

šŸ¦“ A trip to a dog enrichment centre or a 121 in an activity they love (scent work, mantrailing etc) rather than an outing to see the Christmas lights switched on

šŸ– Some dog safe Christmas biscuits youā€™ve made them rather than dressing up in a dog Santa outfit

Loads of these Christmas ā€˜traditionsā€™ that we enjoy are not enjoyed by our dogs, especially if they are anxious or more sensitive. Even the most robust dog may tolerate these activities rather than love them.

Please be mindful of your dogs wants and needs and donā€™t put them into situations they find stressful just because we want them to be part of Christmas. Itā€™s your Christmas, not your dogs, they really wonā€™t mind not being included in everything you do ā¤ļø

Laura McAuliffe Dog Communication 2024

25/10/2024

Interesting read... the emotional stress and welfare implications of taking street dogs and transporting them thousands of miles to have as 'pets'.
fil:///C:/Users/Owner/Downloads/Adda2024_WellnessorHellnessRediscussingFree-RangingDogsWelfare_REF.pdf

Dog bites child... owners call us... they now understand dog.Such a shame every dog owner doesn't have to learn these ba...
14/10/2024

Dog bites child... owners call us... they now understand dog.
Such a shame every dog owner doesn't have to learn these basics when they have a puppy. Which might then go on to save some of the 30,000 young dogs that are PTS every year in the UK.

Belly rubs. āœ… or āŒ ?
Flopping on the ground in front of us, showing their belly and wanting rubs may not be what your dog is saying at all....or it could be. Tricky stuff indeed.
This graphic can help a little to decipher what is actually happening.

Generally speaking.....tongues licking noses or poking out, ears flat and back or tight against head, stiff posture with paws tucked in tight can all be signs your dog may not enjoying that rub on the belly.
Another issue is they may only enjoy it for a very brief amount of time and then we may not recognise those signs that it has moved from enjoyment to being uncomfortable....so we may persist WAY beyond a dogs comfort level.
..Just something to think about the next time a dog flops down in front of you.

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We are fully qualified canine behaviourists with vast experience involving a large caseload of dogs and addressing all types of behaviour, from basic puppy manners to severe aggression.

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