02/02/2025
This weekend, I had the pleasure of spending time with the most gorgeous cocker spaniel boy, Arlo 🐾. Arlo was booked under our Etive Package, which included two nights in dog-friendly accommodation while his parents celebrated their wedding at the Radstone 🖤💛. Although he was originally booked for chaperoning duties, his parents ultimately decided to prioritise his comfort and opted to remove him from the wedding day itself, ensuring a completely stress-free experience for their beloved boy 🫶.
Familiarisation Process
In the three weeks leading up to the big day, I met Arlo for three familiarisation sessions: one dog walk, one home visit, and a final dog walk. These sessions were invaluable in getting to know his unique personality, his routines, and, most importantly, his parents’ concerns about his mild nervousness and reactivity. It’s so important to me that I fully understand my clients’ worries and fears, so I was really glad to see their openness and transparency 🫶.
🐾 The first meeting was a low-pressure dog walk in a quiet public area, allowing me to observe how reliant Arlo is on his parents and how he responds to other dogs. His reactivity clearly stems from fear, so we took things slowly. I avoided taking charge of the walk initially, instead letting him get used to my presence while he explored on a longline, which gave him a little freedom. During this session, I suggested some activities to engage his brain and build confidence, such as scatter feeding (scent games) and recall training. I was delighted to hear from his owners that these activities had a positive impact—they noticed a real improvement in his engagement with them 🖤.
🐾 The home visit focused on how Arlo responds to new people in his space. At first, he showed his nervousness with fear-based barking, but we approached the situation calmly, chatting and moving around as naturally as possible, much like a friend would. By creating an environment of calm and reassurance, Arlo began to settle quickly. Before long, he was happily accepting treats, offering licks, and even playing ball by the end of the visit—a big win for his confidence 🫶.
🐾 For the final walk, we returned to the same quiet location to provide a sense of familiarity. This time, I gradually took charge of the walk, encouraging Arlo to focus on me rather than his parents. To everyone’s delight, we managed to maintain a 75-yard distance from his parents while they chatted, and Arlo stayed completely engaged with me. At the end of the walk, we practised getting him in and out of the car boot—a task he initially hesitated over. With a bit of patience, positive reinforcement, and teamwork, Arlo’s confidence grew, and he eventually hopped in and out of the boot with much more ease 🖤💛.
Arlo’s Stay
When the wedding weekend finally arrived, Arlo showed just how much progress he had made. He came for cuddles, played happily, and exhibited no significant signs of reactivity throughout his stay. A real highlight was when he joined my own springer spaniel, Loki, for a walk. Loki’s calm, composed demeanour seemed to help Arlo feel more relaxed and confident. While Loki isn’t one to actively engage with other dogs, his steady presence was a reassuring influence on Arlo, who appeared more at ease with each step 🐾.
A Stress-Free Success
Arlo’s transformation over these few weeks was a testament to the power of patience, preparation, and tailored care 🖤💛. Watching him grow more confident and stress-free was incredibly rewarding—not just for me but for his loving parents, who could truly enjoy their special day knowing Arlo was in safe hands 🫶.
Tailored care, like what Arlo received, ensures that even the most nervous pups can have a positive and fulfilling experience, whether or not they’re directly involved in the wedding day.
Arlo was an absolute joy to care for, and I couldn’t be prouder of how well he adjusted. It’s always such a privilege to see nervous dogs gain trust and confidence, and I know Arlo’s parents were just as thrilled as I was with his journey 🐾.