
08/05/2025
“The Dog Behind the Curtain”
We never saw Lucy for the first three weeks of class.
Her owner came alone, clutching a notebook and a lead with no dog at the end of it. She thought she could learn first as Lucy would be too much for the class!
Lucy was a rescue, a German Shepherd with a questionable past. She barked through walls, destroyed furniture, and panicked at the mere sight of another dog. Walks had become impossible. Guests certainly weren’t allowed. Life shrank down to almost one room, curtains always drawn to keep her calm.
Week four, she brought Lucy in, just for a second. Lucy saw the other dogs and screamed. Not barked. Screamed.
Her owner said that she was broken but myself and Trish didn’t see broken. We saw a dog overwhelmed by a world that had never been kind and an owner doing everything she could to hold it all together.
We worked outside at first. Far from everyone. Lucy paced and cried but she stayed. Week by week, minute by minute, she stayed.
She never fully joined the class. She didn’t “graduate.” Like the others but one day, Lucy walked past another dog at twenty feet and didn’t scream.
Not every training journey ends with rosettes and perfect sits. Some end with just a single peaceful walk.
Because reactivity isn’t a choice. It’s a cry for help and behind every reactive dog is an owner quietly breaking under the weight of judgment, guilt, and exhaustion, holding on because they love too much to let go.
If you see your story in Lucy’s, please know you’re not alone. We’re here to help, without judgment, and always at your dog’s pace.
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