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One day, Argentina's peso could be a thing of the past.Javier Milei, the victor in last year's presidential race, won th...
10/04/2024

One day, Argentina's peso could be a thing of the past.

Javier Milei, the victor in last year's presidential race, won the election on a mandate to abolish the country's own currency and replace it with the US dollar - although he has talked less about the idea of late.

In some ways, it's surprising the idea hasn't caught on before. Argentines are reckoned to hold more greenbacks than anywhere outside the US and hoarding them is a way of life for many people.

The move is part of the right-wing libertarian's shock therapy plan aimed at transforming Argentina's economic prospects.

Polls show that 60% of Argentines oppose the idea because it would give too much power to the US central bank, the Federal Reserve.

But like it or not, the dollar already plays such a big part in their economy that to some, the idea feels like a foregone conclusion.

Argentines have traditionally set little store by their own currency, preferring to convert their spare pesos into dollars as soon as they can.

They don't trust financial institutions much either, so they resort to what is locally known as the "colchón bank" - that is, stuffing their dollars under the mattress.

Anecdotal stories abound of people keeping money buried in the garden, hidden in the walls or even secreted in heating systems - occasionally with disastrous consequences if there is an unexpected cold snap and the cash isn't retrieved before it goes up in smoke.

It's a symptom of the country's deep-seated structural economic problems. And like all chronic illnesses, it didn't develop overnight.

To get to the root of the Argentine people's obsession with the US dollar, you have to go back to the dark days of the 1970s and 1980s, when periods of hyperinflation blighted the country's economy.

It's estimated that during the 1980s alone, middle-class Argentines saw their purchasing power shrink by 30%.

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During that time, uncontrolled price rises eroded the value of wages and made a mockery of savings, to the point where people lost faith in their own currency.

The pesos in their pockets shed their worth so quickly that no-one held on to them for long.

There were basically two ways of keeping up: buying goods in bulk or buying US dollars, because either of those would hold their value better than your original pay packet.

Now Argentina has a cost-of-living problem again, with annual inflation at 115%. This has led to an astonishing rise in the number of people living in poverty, from about a quarter of the population in 2017 to more than 40% now.

You might think that no self-respecting government would want this state of affairs to go on for ever. And you'd be right.

There have been various attempts to restore Argentina's confidence in its currency - either by shoring up its value or merely choking off the supply of dollars. But they have all, ultimately, failed.

The most ambitious effort was the so-called Convertibility Plan launched in 1991. This pegged the peso's value at one-to-one with the dollar.

Previous governments had fuelled inflation by printing money. But this time, it was decreed that every peso issued would be backed by one dollar in the central bank's vaults.

The idea was that by telling people they could swap their pesos for dollars at any time, they would eventually decide that they had no need to.

And for a time, it did the job. But it had other side effects which eventually led to a catastrophic economic meltdown in 2001-02.

Argentina had basically outsourced its economic policy to Washington, by locking itself into a currency regime that gave it no flexibility.

Without going into too much detail, Argentina had also let its public debt get out of control. At the same time, the link to the dollar meant that it suffered from the ups and downs of the US economy.

South Korea is seeking to arrest two men for allegedly helping a YouTuber to install dozens of spy cameras at voting sta...
02/04/2024

South Korea is seeking to arrest two men for allegedly helping a YouTuber to install dozens of spy cameras at voting stations.

The authorities believe the pair are the accomplices of the social media influencer, who was seeking to confirm his unfounded election fraud claims.

The influencer, who is in his 40s, was arrested late last week.

Early voting in South Korea's parliamentary elections is due to take place on Friday and Saturday.

According to police in the western city of Incheon, illegal cameras were found at approximately 40 locations nationwide - including polling stations and vote counting centres.

Many of these were disguised as telecommunications equipment, Singapore's Straits Times newspaper reported.

On Monday, the head of the National Office of Investigation said that a search was underway for two men, one in his 50s and one in his 70s.

Charges against them include unlawful entry of properties and violating security laws, according to South Korea's Yonhap news agency.

The influencer is said to hold far-right political views and had previously spoken of concerns over potential election manipulation in this and earlier elections on his YouTube channel.

When questioned by the media following his arrest, the man said he had "wanted to check the number of early voters", the Straits Times reported.

He also spoke of "feeling suspicious about the significant disparities between (the outcomes) of early voting and the main voting".

The publication said he was found to have installed cameras at early voting stations in South Korea's capital, Seoul, during a by-election last year.

The authorities are continuing to search for further hidden cameras and said they will carry out additional inspections ahead of voting.

The Korea Times reported that more than 3,500 polling stations will be opened for early voting and that four times this number will be in operation on 10 April - the day of the election.

In 1972, pioneering feminist, journalist and activist Gloria Steinem – who turns 90 today – co-founded Ms Magazine, putt...
25/03/2024

In 1972, pioneering feminist, journalist and activist Gloria Steinem – who turns 90 today – co-founded Ms Magazine, putting conversations about gender equality, reproductive rights and social justice in the spotlight.

"The foundation of this magazine, and what makes it different from others, is that it simply considers that women are human beings – that doesn't sound very revolutionary but it is," Gloria Steinem – who turns 90 today – told the BBC in 1973, as she explained why she had felt compelled to launch the groundbreaking feminist magazine Ms – the first magazine owned, run and written by women.

Sitting at a desk, surrounded by papers and in front of posters advocating women's rights, Steinem was at the time already one of the best-known feminists in the US.

Articulate, energetic and committed, she had carved out a name for herself in the 1960s and 70s through her journalism, which included going undercover at the New York Pl***oy Club to expose exploitative working conditions. She was also a passionate activist, having founded, along with Brenda Feigen and Dorothy Pitman-Hughes, the Women's Action Alliance in 1971 – a group to empower women to combat s*xism in society.

It was just clear that there was no other way we could be honest about women's experience – Gloria Steinem

As a journalist, she felt that even publications women wrote for did not reflect her own experiences or those of women she knew. Nor did they offer advice about how to deal with the s*xism, barriers and harassment they contended with on a daily basis.

"It started in desperation, I think, because there was just a great many women writers and editors who didn't feel that they were working on magazines that they read and that they had the opportunity to really be honest about their own experiences in a magazine," she said.

At the time, while there were glossy publications on the newsstands nominally for women, the vast majority of them were concerned with tips on homemaking, parenting advice or features on fashion and beauty. None of those magazines seemed to Steinem to be articulating or addressing the struggles faced by women in a male-dominated society.

"It would have been much easier to not start one, but it was just clear that there was no other way we could be honest about women's experience," she told the BBC in 1973.

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WATCH: 'The foundation of Ms Magazine is that it considers that women are human beings'

At first, she planned to produce a newsletter to raise money for the Women's Action Alliance, as she told BBC Witness History in 2022, mostly "as a way of getting out the sort of writing we cared about. And Florynce Kennedy, a wonderful lawyer, outrageous woman, said: 'Nobody reads newsletters. How about a magazine?'"

They considered several potential names, including Bimbo – rejected because they didn't think they had the luxury of irony – and Sojourner, in tribute to Sojourner Truth, the African-American abolitionist and women's rights activist, which they dismissed for fear it sounded too much like a travel magazine. Eventually Steinem and the other founders settled on the name Ms – a title for a woman, married or not.

The next problem was how to fund it. "We then started to try and raise money, which turned out to be impossible, everybody said: 'You're crazy and magazines don't make money'."

Steinem had helped found New York Magazine in 1968, and convinced its editor Clay Felker to fund the launch of Ms as a 40-page insert in the December 1971 issue.

"Really the only thing that enabled us to have a test issue to illustrate and thereby to demonstrate that women did really want this kind of magazine was that New York Magazine, which I had been a founder of before, gave us enough money to put out a test issue," she said.

Getty Images Ms Magazine addressed issues that were largely ignored by other publications (Credit: Getty Images)Getty Images
Ms Magazine addressed issues that were largely ignored by other publications (Credit: Getty Images)
The cover featured a picture of the Hindu goddess Kali, pregnant and using all eight of her arms to juggle a surfeit of chores – cooking, cleaning, typing, driving – and one arm holding a hand mirror to signify the pressure to look good while doing it all. The accompanying article "Click: The Housewife's Moment of Truth" by co-founder Jane O'Reilly detailed the moment of clarity that comes to women when they recognise biases within society.

It also featured a groundbreaking "We Have Had Abortions" petition which listed more than 50 prominent women, including Nora Ephron, Billie Jean King, Susan Sontag and Gloria Steinem herself, who signed their name to a public manifesto demanding the legalisation of abortion.

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That issue, with a print run of 300,000 copies, was dated "Spring 1972" so it would be able to stay on newsstands for months without looking out of date. It sold out in just eight days, generating 26,000 subscription orders.

"And that was put out nationwide, and it was enormously successful – and that in turn enabled us to raise money for the total magazine," said Steinem.

In 1972, Ms started regular circulation as a stand-alone magazine, the first in the US to be owned, run and written by women. Steinem would remain an editor and writer on it for the next 15 years.

In these exclusive BBC Archive interviews, Francis Ford Coppola describes how with his masterpiece The Godfather he visu...
13/03/2024

In these exclusive BBC Archive interviews, Francis Ford Coppola describes how with his masterpiece The Godfather he visualised the intricate web of influence, manipulation and violence that underpinned the world of organised crime – and showed how it reflected the US.

On 14 March 1972, the iconic crime epic The Godfather premiered in New York. With its haunting score, its subtle, evocative cinematography, its endlessly quotable dialogue and its powerhouse performances – which served to revive Marlon Brando's career and make a star of a young Al Pacino – it is now widely regarded as one of the greatest films of all time.

Accused of glamourising crime and the Mafia before it was even released, it went on to be seen by many as the definitive gangster film. But not by its director. "I've always felt The Godfather was really less about gangsters, than about power and powerful families, and the succession of power, and the Machiavellian way that real power works in the world," Francis Ford Coppola told the BBC's Barry Norman in 1991.

Coppola was just 29 years old when he was first offered the chance to direct an adaptation of Mario Puzo's bestselling 1969 novel. The story centred on a fictional New York Mafia family in the post-World War Two years, led by patriarch Don Vito Corleone (the eponymous Godfather of the title), as they try to ensure their survival in the brutal and treacherous world of organised crime. When the Don is betrayed, his youngest son Michael, who had hoped for a life away from the Mob, gets pulled into the family business, as a war between the different crime families breaks out and they fight for control.

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Coppola initially did not warm to the book. He wasn't much interested in the Mafia, and when he first read it, he was put off by some of its more lurid aspects.

The film has become an abiding cultural touchstone that can be seen through many different lenses
"To me originally, and anyone who remembers the original Godfather book, it had a lot of sleazy aspects to it, which of course were cut out for the movie, and I didn't like it very much for those reasons," he told Sir Christopher Frayling in a 1985 BBC interview.

But being from an Italian-American background like its author Puzo, he did understand the culture, tradition and family rituals the story was steeped in. And, as he reread the book, he saw there was much more to it than just a potboiler about crime, s*x and revenge. The story had themes that were classical in their nature, a powerful father and family bonds, a son yearning to escape his fate, old-world values clashing with a changing society, honour and betrayal, and how power corrupts the souls of those who wield it.

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"Obviously I was more interested in those themes but those themes could apply to a Shakespeare play, or any piece that deals, you know, Greek drama even really, that deals with those bigger themes, and that's more where I had my attention on," Coppola told Barry Norman.

He and Puzo drew out these themes as they worked together on the screenplay. Coppola told the BBC that at the heart of the film lies an examination of power dynamics, the corrupting influence of powerful families and a commentary on the way the US operates on the world stage.

Parallels with the US
The first film's timeline, which spans from the 1940s to the 1950s, coincides with an era where the US is emerging from the ashes of World War Two, and becoming a dominant force on the global stage. The Corleones, a family bonded not just by blood but by their immigrant background, represent an America that is both insular looking and ruthless in its application of force and influence in its own self-interest.

In the film, Don Corleone (played by Marlon Brando) will, depending on the situation, negotiate, bribe, intimidate or resort to savage violence to ensure that his family's interests and power are maintained. Likewise, the US, faced with what it saw as the threat of the Soviet Union, was being accused of using clandestine operations or bribery to destabilise rival countries, forming alliances with other nations, promising them its protection and fighting proxy wars in other countries, to ensure US interests prevailed.

In his book Supercommunicators, the writer Charles Duhigg argues that you can learn to get better at connecting with peo...
28/02/2024

In his book Supercommunicators, the writer Charles Duhigg argues that you can learn to get better at connecting with people. David Robson asks him about the neuroscience, how he improved conversations with his partner – and what he learnt from The Big Bang Theory sitcom.

A rich, deep conversation can be wonderful, yet feels rare in day-to-day life. Whether it's with your partner, family or a colleague, it's easy to find yourself talking at cross-purposes or unintentionally falling into pointless disputes, without ever understanding one another.
How can we avoid these pitfalls? To find out, science writer David Robson spoke to author Charles Duhigg about his new book, Supercommunicators: How to Unlock the Secret Language of Connection.
How do you define a supercommunicator?

So I have a question. If you were having a bad day, and you wanted to call a friend, and you just knew that talking to this person would make you feel better – does someone come to mind?
Definitely, I immediately think of one of my best friends.

So for you, she is a supercommunicator, and you are probably a supercommunicator for her. You both know how to listen to each other in a way that you really hear what the other person is saying. And you know how to prove that you're listening. You know how to ask the right questions, the questions that really make you realise things about yourself, and she gives you evidence that she wants to be there for you.
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Now, some people do that consistently. They can connect with almost anyone. And those people are consistent supercommunicators. When I started reporting this book, I figured that these people must be really charismatic, or extroverts. But it turns out that it's just a set of skills or tools that anyone can learn.
What does neuroscience tell us about the secrets of good communication?

When any of us communicate, our bodies and our brains become entrained. The pupils of our eyes are beginning to dilate at basically the same rate, and our breathing patterns are starting to match each other. And most importantly, our neural activity is becoming more and more alike, as we are beginning to think the same way. The point of communication is that I can describe feeling an emotion or experiencing an idea, and you then feel some version of that. Our brains would become more and more similar.
In your book, you cite some beautiful research by the neuroscientist Beau Sievers, which reveals how supercommunicators change group dynamics.

It’s really fascinating. He put these groups together and asked them to discuss some movie clips that were really confusing. He found that some groups just bonded and connected with each other, and their answers were much better. Inside each of those groups, there was at least one person who was a supercommunicator. They would do things like ask 10-20 times as many questions as the average person. Some of their questions were designed to invite other people into a dialogue and others allowed the other people to expose something more meaningful about themselves. These participants also matched the other people's jollity or seriousness.
Getty Images Talking at cross-purposes happens when two people are having different 'types' of conversation (Credit: Getty Images)Getty Images
Talking at cross-purposes happens when two people are having different 'types' of conversation (Credit: Getty Images)
Most importantly, they recognised that there are different kinds of conversations. Most of us think that a discussion is about one thing. We're talking about my day at work or my kid’s grades. But actually, every discussion is made up of different kinds of conversations, and most of them fall into one of three buckets. There are practical conversations, where we're making plans or solving problems. There are emotional conversations, where I'm telling you how I'm feeling, and I want you to listen and empathise. And then there are social conversations, which are how we relate to each other and the social identities we carry with us. Sievers found that supercommunicators are so effective because they pay attention to what kind of conversation is occurring. And then they matched the other people in their group, and they invited those people to match them in return. So they were all having the same kind of conversation at the same time.
That reminds me of psychologist Anita Williams Woolley's research on collective intelligence, which found that team members' individual social sensitivity determined how good they were at solving problems together.

Absolutely, and when you think about what we call social sensitivity, or being an empath, it really means you're just paying attention to what the other person is telling you they need right now, and what kind of conversation they want to have.
You argue that we should ask more "deep" questions. How come?

Deep questions ask someone about their values, beliefs or experiences. When we talk about those things, we talk about who we really are. And they're really easy questions to ask, right? If you've met someone who's a doctor, you could ask: "What made you decide to go to medical school?" Or "what do you love about practising medicine?" Those are both deep questions, because they invite the other person to say something real and meaningful about themselves. And they make it easy for us to reciprocate to tell them why we decided to do our job.
Well, along those lines, I wanted to ask you a deep question. What personal experiences prompted you to write Supercommunicators?

I was working as a manager at the time, and I turned out to be terrible at it. I was okay at the strategy part and logistics, but it was the communication that I just messed up. I would fall into this pattern with my wife, where I would come home after a long day at work, and then start complaining about my boss and my co-workers. And she would very reasonably suggest some advice like, "why don't you take your boss out to lunch, so you guys can get to know each other a little bit better?" And instead of being able to hear her, I would get even more upset. And then she would get upset because I was suddenly yelling at her just for giving me advice.
About 50% of the way that we send signals and receive information in a conversation is not tied to the content of the words
When I told the researchers, they said that I was trying to have an emotional conversation, and my wife was having a practical conversation. If you're not having the same kind of conversation at the same time, you're not really going to hear each other and you're definitely not going to connect. That’s known within psychology as the matching principle: real communication requires you to have the same kind of conversation at the same time.
What's the role of non-linguistic communication?

We know that about 50% of the way that we send signals and receive information in a conversation is not tied to the content of the words but everything that surrounds it: the tone of voice, the speed at which someone speaks, their body language, the expressions on their face. Our brains have this capacity to detect how people feel, by paying attention to two things: their energy and their mood.
Babies will be able to pick up on their parents' mood, even before they know how to speak or understand words. But as we get older, words themselves become so captivating, so information rich, that we tend to stop paying attention to everything else, and sometimes we have to remind ourselves to do it.
In your book, you illustrate this with The Big Bang Theory sitcom.

The Big Bang Theory was a total flop at first, and the reason it succeeded was because the writers figured out how to have the characters express their feelings without using words.
It's about these physicists who are very bad at conveying their emotions or their feelings. That's where the humour comes from – they're so awkward that it's funny. But the problem is, how do you write a sitcom when your main characters can't get across what they're feeling or thinking?

Conflict in Ukraine, Gaza and Sudan has led to millions of children losing family members, fleeing their homes and being...
22/02/2024

Conflict in Ukraine, Gaza and Sudan has led to millions of children losing family members, fleeing their homes and being caught up in the fighting themselves. The effects could last for decades.

When the Bosnian war broke out in 1992, Selma Baćevac was a seven-year-old in Sarajevo. Her life changed overnight. Her father disappeared for long stints, fighting on the front lines. Baćevac herself had to hide from shrapnel more than once. She survived bombings. She lost her home. "So many atrocities occurred, I could speak to you for hours and not get everything in," she says now from her home in Florida in the US.
Even play wasn't safe. Like many other war-affected children, Baćevac and her brother would role-play scenes of danger, or being refugees. They drew pictures of bombs and explosions. When they met other children, they had to find hidden spots to play that seemed less likely to be shelled. Once, when she went to a marketplace with her father to buy a Barbie doll, a mortar bomb struck the crowd, killing 68 people. She later lost the Barbie – and all of her other toys – in a fire when her home was bombed.
Baćevac and her family escaped the war in Bosnia-Herzegovina in 1994, spending three years in a refugee camp in Germany before resettling in the US. Today, at the age of 38 years old, she works as a psychotherapist specialising in trauma. Many of her clients lived through war themselves.
From the outside, Baćevac seems to epitomise how very resilient children, in particular, can be. But, she says, there's also what you don't see.

"As a child, when you don't experience safety, it affects your ability to relate to yourself," she says. "It affects your ability to trust your environment. It affects your ability to trust adults. We have a fear of commitment, fear of setting boundaries, fear of speaking up, fear of being seen.
"It's not something you just get rid of. It's something that stays with you."
Getty Images Millions of children worldwide live in active conflict zones, such as in Ukraine following Russia's invasion two years ago (Credit: Getty Images)Getty Images
Millions of children worldwide live in active conflict zones, such as in Ukraine following Russia's invasion two years ago (Credit: Getty Images)
It's common, particularly in the wake of (or alongside) a crisis like war or a natural disaster, to hear that children are resilient. That's true, say experts – children can have the ability to overcome serious hardship, particularly if they benefit from particular protective factors, like a close bond with a present caregiver. At the same time, decades of research has found that various types of trauma experienced in childhood – even in infancy – can rewire a child's nervous system, changing the path of their development, their risk for psychological disorders and, even, their physical health long-term.
After a trauma, there is a window known as the "golden hours", a critical period in which action to support people's mental health can limit long-term damage, such as post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD), anxiety and depression.
Medics and psychologists in Ukraine are using "mental health first aid" in an attempt to lessen the psychological effects on people who have been caught up in the conflict. They hope it will help the country, and its citizens, to recover faster when the fighting finally stops.
Read more about how mental health first aid is helping people in Ukraine in this article by Martha Henriques.

Since the late 1990s, one frequently used method to understand the prevalence, and effect, of childhood traumatic events has been screening for Adverse Childhood Experiences (ACEs), which includes incidents like s*xual abuse, a parent's incarceration and divorce. The more ACEs a child has, the more likely they are to experience outcomes like depression, anxiety and drug use – particularly once they accumulate around three or more different types, experienced by around one in 10 US children.
But ACEs provide an incomplete picture. The original list doesn't include exposure to war or terrorism – even though, as of 2022, more than one in six children worldwide, 468 million, were estimated to live in active conflict zones. That's double the number of children affected by war in the mid-1990s.
More than half of Ukraine's children were displaced within the first month of the war with Russia following the full scale invasion in 2022, according to Unicef, while more than 500 children have been killed and more than 1,100 injured, mainly from bombing of Ukraine's cities. In the Gaza Strip, called "the most dangerous place in the world to be a child" by Unicef spokesperson James Elder, the agency estimates that 850,000 children have been uprooted and lost their homes. More than 11,000 children in Gaza are estimated to have been killed in Israeli attacks since the war there began in October 2023, according to figures from health officials in Gaza, a number that does not count those under the rubble or deaths from other war-related causes like starvation or lack of healthcare.
Perhaps twice that many may have lost at least one or both parents, says the non-profit Euro-Mediterranean Human Rights Monitor. In Israel, up to 40 of 253 people taken hostage and around 30 of those killed by Hamas were children, while some 126,000 Israelis, including thousands of children, have been displaced from their homes during the war. In Sudan, around four million children have been displaced by the war that broke out in the country last year, with "terrifying numbers of children killed, r***d or recruited" and more than 700,000 likely to suffer from severe malnutrition, according to Unicef.
Such war-exposed children, who often experience multiple traumatic events simultaneously, are at far higher risks of psychological disorders including PTSD, depression and anxiety.

Un-romantics and the broken-hearted look for unusual ways to mark Valentine's Day, and a veritable cottage industry of r...
15/02/2024

Un-romantics and the broken-hearted look for unusual ways to mark Valentine's Day, and a veritable cottage industry of revenge has sprung up to heed the call.

Valentine's Day celebrates love – but there are also inventive ways to celebrate singledom. For some, that might look like a night out with friends or a "Galentines". For others, it might be using the day to get revenge on an ex – or at the very least, mending a broken heart via a little catharsis at the local zoo.
In recent years, the greater public has gobbled up events dedicated to ex-lover-induced rages. One of those events is San Antonio's Zoo's annual "Cry Me a Cockroach" fundraiser. The Texas-based tradition makes donating to the organisation a little more fun by enabling the angry or heartbroken person to name a roach, rat or veggie after their ex. It will then be fed to a hungry animal.
Cyle Perez, spokesperson for the San Antonio Zoo, says the viral event started in 2020, and has "snowballed" since then. To date, it has raised around $250,000 (£199,000) in donations from the scorned. Each year has brought in successively more money, and although Perez says the final numbers won't be in until after Valentine's Day, this year could be the most successful. Perez adds part of the event's "uniqueness" is that it's allowed the zoo to "invite people all over the world to contribute" to their mission. It's "the most fun time of year", he says.
Animal shelters have also joined the anti-Valentine's Day movement, with spay/neuter events that allow people to name an animal after their exes before the procedure. The Feline Rescue Center in Baltimore, Maryland recently posted their Neuter Your Ex event, and other shelters across the US and Canada have held similar events.
Heartbreak isn't just used to drive donations to animals in need of a snack or a snip. For profit businesses are getting in on the game, too. The Unleashed Rage Room in LapuLapu City, Cebu, Philippines, also has a Valentine's Day promotion for angry exes who want to come in and "feel the rage". "Are you boiling over with anger at the thought of your ex or somebody who ghosted you? Probably just a stress that would [make you] want to break things?" says a recent Facebook post from the rage room. "Unleashed Rage Room is created specifically for these reasons." They're encouraging the scorned to partake in some healthy "destructive therapy." Participants can also blare the music of their choosing while smashing items.
The facility is running a special contest for the broken-hearted on Valentine's Day, inviting people to share their stories of heartache, says Stella Amor Manliguez, one of four partners who own the business. Three winners will be selected and awarded prize packages that include use of the rage room, allowing people "to release their pent up emotions like anger, frustrations or disappointments," says Amor Manliguez, adding that the rage room has had a steady stream of booking inquiries in advance of Valentine's Day.
The Euphoria Rage & Paint Room in Missouri offers its own anti-Valentine's Day special. They are inviting the heartbroken to bring in a picture of their exes and it will be taped to "Dale the Dummy", a life-size dummy that can be tossed, kicked and stomped on. According to the company, Valentine's appointments are nearly sold out.
Anti-Valentine's Day self-expression may serve an important purpose, according to those who specialise in broken hearts. "I think it brings a light-heartedness to a situation with so much pain," says New York City-based social worker Lexi Joondeph-Breidbart, who is also the founder of the Lonely Hearts Club, a break-up support group participants can join for $35 (£28) per meeting or $280 (£223) for the full eight-week session. "It really allows individuals to escape the emotional roller coaster they're on."
These activities and gatherings also offer participants a form of proof that they're not the only ones who have gone through heartbreak, adds Joondeph-Breidbart. They may also help those experiencing a broken heart process their grief. "We should not have to go through grief alone, even if it's just a few moments of laughter and poking fun at an ex," she says.

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