29/10/2025
Something I wrote 5 years ago that I very much still stand by today!
Does a 'bad' dog mean a bad owner ?
Nope!
Your dogs behaviour is based on a whole host of factors : Their genetics, working drives, mums health/happiness during pregnancy, the birth, the attentiveness of the mother, the environment of the birth, the size of the litter, the experiences in the first three weeks... just to name a few which occur before you even go and choose them. A traumatic birth can often result in reactive puppies. Lack of handling in the first few days often results in dogs who struggle to deal with stress. Genetic tendancies can give rise to a dog that resource guards without learning to...
Yes owners have a responsibility to pick a good breeder, research the breed and then adequately socialise and train their new dog. But what if, like most, you have no idea how. What if you adopt an older dog? What if you do everything right, and then your dog suffers an attack, trauma or health condition which effects their behaviour? What if you do everything right, but your dog is genetically predisposed to certain behaviors/ fears.
I've met so many puppies, watched them grow with the best care, with experienced owners, and seen them develop problems despite this.
So no, a dogs behaviour does not indicate your ability as a dog owner, or as a human being. What does, is how you manage it.
Your dog doesn't have to want to play with other dogs, but you do have to keep them on lead and/or muzzle them if they show aggression. Your dog doesn't have to love people coming into your home, but you must secure them safely away or keep them on lead when people enter.
There's no magic wand that can erase your dogs genetics, rewire their learning and make them forget their traumas. Management is part of life with any dog and part of any training programme. Training takes weeks, months or even years, and it has it's limitations. Don't believe the hocus pocus on TV where a few jabs in the side cures a dog of fear based aggression. Dogs can't be "fixed" just like humans with severe trauma or anxiety can't be "fixed".
Stop judging people on their dogs behaviour, and start understanding that one day it could be you. Stop telling people to " just get them trained" like an hour with a trainer will solve irreversible damage done in puppy-hood, years of trauma or complicated phobias.
Be proud of your dog, warts and all π your dog doesn't have to be perfect. You just have to keep them and others safe.