26/08/2025
Hormones!
Ember is now 18 months old, and has just come to the end of her second season. If you have a female, you may have noticed quite a few changes during oestrus, besides following her around with a mop for the first couple of weeks.
A reliable early sign for me is an increase in short wee-stops when on walks - if, like me, you have girls who already scent mark (in Ember’s case, literally cocking her leg up fence posts like a boy 😱😆) then it can be harder to spot but it’s usually noticeable.
We have continued to walk, but with sensible precautions in place: avoiding other dogs, mostly staying on lead and sticking to places where we can see a fair distance ahead.
The really interesting change this time though has been Ember’s reaction to other dogs. When we moved house recently, barking in surrounding gardens predictably set off a response in my two - I worked on this straight away and reminded them that, as in our previous home, we don’t need to shout back. All fine until week two of the season: suddenly, hearing another dog barking sent Ember into a fury of retaliation. She also struggled with seeing other dogs on walks, and if they made a sound then we had a reaction. This isn’t something she would normally do unless she felt threatened so it was a significant change.
If we think about how much hormones contribute to our mood and feelings, it’s pretty understandable that they affect dogs in similar ways. Ember will have been feeling quite conflicted, urinating everywhere to advertise her availability but not actually wanting anyone near her for the most part (we were even more careful to avoid others at the most crucial stage when she stopped bleeding, the most fertile point of the season).
Thankfully - and very clearly - as she reached the end of the cycle, these changes disappeared and she is now, once again, able to generally ignore barking in the garden and show a friendly disposition towards others on walks.
If I hadn’t considered the possibility of hormonal changes causing her grumpiness, I might have been really worried; it’s well worth thinking about what’s going on if you see a new or different behaviour in your dog.