03/07/2025
đ§Ą Frazzled to Calmness â Kerry & Mabelâs Journey
Kerry reached out when Mabel was just 9 weeks old. The first few days hadnât gone as expected. As I listened to what had been happening, it was clear those early moments of puppy life had hit hardâexhaustion, sleepless nights, and the constant worry of doing it all wrong.
Mabel, full of youthful energy seemed to need watching every second. She was nipping at Kerryâs ankles (âthose teeth really hurt!â) and never seemed to settle. The idea of enjoying life with a calm, happy dog felt very far away.
Feeling Drained and Unsure
Kerry had reached out because getting a new puppy can feel overwhelmingâespecially when itâs your first. Sheâd reached what many puppy guardians recognise as breaking pointâscrolling the internet late at night, searching for answers that never quite fit.
Booking a call with me wasnât just about training; it was about being seen, heard, and supported. My role wasnât just to help Mabelâit was to reassure Kerry that she wasnât alone, and that itâs completely okay to feel overwhelmed in those early weeks.
First Steps Towards Calm
We began with the simplest of steps to help both Kerry and Mabel find their feet. First, we built Kerryâs confidence in using the crateâhello, sleep!âand introduced fun, low-pressure foundation games to help mentally tire Mabel in a positive way. We also worked on helping Mabel feel safe and relaxed around her harness, which she had initially run away from, and set up daily routines that fit around Kerryâs work schedule. Alongside this, we added gentle enrichment activities and cues that helped build connection and trust. The early goals were simple but powerful: to help Mabel settle, reduce her overexcitement, and support her in learning to walk calmly on the lead & reliable recall.
TodayâŚ
Mabel has grown into the puppy of Kerryâs dreamsâa happy, relaxed part of the family. Kerry now has the tools to support her in ways that feel empowering, not exhausting. Theyâve gone from desperation to joyâand it all began with knowing that you donât have to do this alone.
From Kerry:
âGetting our first puppy this year was very exciting but also very daunting. Thereâs so much to learn, and Sarah supported us throughout with her bountiful advice and knowledge, training sessions, and always being available when needed.
Before we started, I honestly didnât know how I was going to navigate having such a lively and demanding puppy! Sarahâs guidance has been fundamentalânot just for Mabel, but for me. From building routines, understanding behaviours, learning cues and enrichment, to walks and the outdoor worldâitâs been invaluable.
I had forgotten what it was like to take a shower without a puppy waiting outside the door!
Mabel is now a well-adapted, amazing part of our family. I cannot imagine life without her.â
Sounds Familiar
Feeling like those puppy days arenât what you expected? Youâre not alone. Mabelâs journey is proof that support, structure, and kindness can change everything. Send me a message if you would like my support.