24/10/2025
                                        It's valuable.
Whatever your dog has, at that very moment, is significant to them.
The growling, air snaps and further escalations are easy to spot.
That's when many people see this as an issue.
However, it starts way before then for many dogs and I appreciate this is difficult to see in their own dog as it can be subtle.
A slowed movement, a pause, a stiffening around an object or food item can be the very beginning.
Some people view their dogs possession issues as funny, quirky and will encourage it.
Others that have lived (or are now) living with a serious resource guarder know that's just how it started for them and they wish they had recognised it sooner.
It's not funny for them or their dog.
It may look like a game they enjoy.
They run away with a toy, a shoe, socks, a pair of un**es (for all those non Kiwis out there, that's underwear).
We just don't see how this fun little game could be the start of a much more serious  behavioural issue.
To be fair, there are some dogs out there that do like the "grab and go" game and have no possession issues. They do it as a way to illicit a response from us and it is fun for them. They know we are about to respond playfully to that by chasing or starting a game of tug with that item.
For others, we need to be cautious.
Is there an "Elvis" happening (a slight lift on one side of the mouth)?
A tiny lift at the front of the mouth?
Has the mouth clamped and ears flattened?
Do they take the item to an area you cannot reach easily?
If we catch those smaller signs, we can prevent those much bigger reactions.