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Sometimes it feels like only in this industry would people say that causing emotional harm and physical pain to another ...
16/08/2024

Sometimes it feels like only in this industry would people say that causing emotional harm and physical pain to another sentient being is just “a difference of opinion” and that we should find “unity” with harmful individuals. 😮‍💨

Learning new information and changing what we’ve been doing is uncomfortable. Coming to the realisation that things we’ve done in the past weren’t a good idea or weren’t ethical is uncomfortable.

So many of us as force-free/R+ professionals have been through that and actually go through that every couple of years as we learn better ways of doing things and may wish we hadn’t done some of the things we did in the past.

This is part of the process and part of being a professional in a field that should be constantly evolving to provide the best and most compassionate care for our vulnerable companion animals.

On top of this, force-free/R+ professionals have had to witness abuse and harm done to dogs as well as repair said harm, all while also having our work regularly disparaged by “professionals” causing harm (a number of whom participate in such “unity” public conversations) as well as “famous” R+ based professionals who are afraid of progress in our field.

Public, broadcasted “conversations” with harmful individuals who label themselves as “professionals” to find “unity” is not at all about “unity” or “building bridges”. Instead, it’s upholding the status quo, platforming harmful rhetoric, and normalising harmful actions.

We don’t have to call anyone out, but we also don’t have to platform people who are still committed to use harmful methods. We can improve the wellbeing of dogs and people by supporting and amplifying the people that are already making the change and fighting against punishment culture.

Many of us have also been helping people who want to live with their dogs more compassionately and doing so with no shame or judgement towards anything they have done in the past, because it’s absolutely doable to have strong ethics while being kind to people who want to learn.

Real behaviour change and moving towards ethical actions has to come with good faith efforts and a desire and willingness to learn and change.

ID: The text says “We don’t have to click and treat harm in our industry. Public and broadcasted ‘conversations’ with individuals causing harm platforms those individuals and normalises their harmful actions.”

I got quite a few new followers recently so hello, hi, welcome! Thank you for being here! I’m really glad that something...
13/08/2024

I got quite a few new followers recently so hello, hi, welcome! Thank you for being here! I’m really glad that something I posted connected with you.

But to be clear and so that it doesn’t come as a shock with future posts I make, this is NOT just a dog training and behaviour account.

This is very much also a pro-Palestine, anti-oppression, anti-genocide, anti-racism, and decolonial account. Just scroll down a little and you will see what I mean, or check out our Anti-Oppression highlights to learn more about the intersectionality between animal care and anti-oppression and decolonisation.

If this is not for you and you do not care for liberation for all oppressed people, please feel free to unfollow me!

If this makes you feel some discomfort but you would like to keep learning more, then stick around!

Challenging and confronting systemic biases we are all conditioned to and exposed to can certainly feel uncomfortable at times. So well done for sitting with that discomfort to grow!

With multiple genocides happening around us, everyone has a duty to speak up against these atrocities. We are all interconnected, and our silence and inaction is complicity.

This could never and will never be just a dog-only bubble.

Finally, Free Palestine, Free Congo, Free Sudan. May we keep fighting for our collective liberation.

ID: The text says “Hi new followers! This is not just a dog training and behaviour account. This is also a pro-Palestine, anti-oppression, decolonial page. Animal wellbeing is not separate from decolonisation.”

Here are answers to some common comments and questions I get whenever I talk about dogs not being pack animals.Sure, eve...
08/08/2024

Here are answers to some common comments and questions I get whenever I talk about dogs not being pack animals.

Sure, everyone is free to refer to their dogs however they want! However, it’s important and helpful to have the understanding of what “pack” means and how dogs are not pack animals in the back of your mind.

Our dogs are more complex and collaborative than we ted to give them credit for. Reducing them to “alphas”, “betas” or “dominant” and submissive” keeps us from learning about the emotional lives our dogs have and it doesn’t help us either with regards to working with their behaviours.

On top of being better at understanding our dogs’ behaviours for what it is rather than put labels on them, realising the fact that we don’t necessarily have to be our dogs’ “(pack) leaders” because they are simply not pack animals nor desire any hierarchical structure is actually so freeing.

The myth that dogs are pack animals is very pervasive and has been around for a long time. But hopefully over time, we can undo this and keep learning as more information and knowledge about our amazing companion animals come out.

[AMENDMENT: 2nd slide removed to avoid confusion since even wolf packs aren’t hierarchical in the way people think. This doesn’t change the fact that dogs are still not pack animals.]

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As someone who comes from a country that still has free-living animals who are cared for by community and a former free ...
26/07/2024

As someone who comes from a country that still has free-living animals who are cared for by community and a former free living dog of my own, my heart breaks for both the animals and people in Turkey fighting against this cruel law that will be coming into place on Monday, 29 July.

Wanting rid of free-living animals and trying to cull them all comes from a harmful colonial idea that nature and animals are “dirty” and a “civilised” country should not have free-living community animals.

Anyone, like myself, who has visited Turkey can probably tell you that the free-living dogs and cats are often friendly, trusting, and sweet, an indication of how well they are cared for and loved by their community.

But this could likely change once laws that result in forcibly hurting/killing them and taking them away from their animal and human friends, as the animals will start learning that people are unsafe. If the concern is about the safety of people around free-living dogs, such a law would only make things worse.

Mass culling is never the solution. If there’s an issue of overpopulation, there should instead be more efforts and resources put in place to support Trap, Neuter, and Return (TNR) measures that work WITH community carers. With this, the animals can get neutered and spayed with less stress thanks to the trust they have with their community carers, and they can be returned to their original location.

Going through all the photos I took of the free-living dogs and cats in Istanbul and Cappadocia brought back so many wonderful memories and it hurts to think of anything bad happening to the lovely animals we met on our travel. I can only imagine how much more painful it must be now for the people in Turkey who care for them.

Please find the actionable steps you can take to help save the free-living dogs and cats of Turkey in the slides of this post. There is not much time left and we have to do everything we can as a global animal loving community.

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I haven’t been able to stop thinking about what happened to 24-year old Muhammed Bhar since I read about it over a week ...
18/07/2024

I haven’t been able to stop thinking about what happened to 24-year old Muhammed Bhar since I read about it over a week ago, especially as he called the dog mauling him “Habibi”, meaning “my dear” or “my love”. His love for animals remained even as he was being killed.

No one and no families should ever have to go through this.

We cannot claim to care about disability justice without caring about Palestine, the people rendered disabled by this genocide, and the targeted attacks on disabled people through the IOF’s weaponisation of dogs.

The weaponisation of dogs is also a global issue, particularly as police k9s around the world are weaponised against disabled people too, and protection dog companies around the world like in the UK, Netherlands, and Germany sell dogs to Isr*el for their eventual weaponisation against Palestinians.

The very least we can do is take a strong stance against this, especially as a dog care and training industry. And if you participate in certain dog sports, be even louder and work to ban cops as well as those who sell weaponised dogs to Isr*el from your clubs.

Intersectionality, collective access, and collective liberation are a core part of disability justice. These acts of cruelty against the people of Palestine, including disabled Palestinian people, are our problem too, and we must do everything we can to fight for our collective liberation.

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❤️ Happy Gotcha Day to our bestest boy Dave! ❤️This year, we made him a little homemade pizza. It didn’t turn out perfec...
16/07/2024

❤️ Happy Gotcha Day to our bestest boy Dave! ❤️

This year, we made him a little homemade pizza. It didn’t turn out perfectly because coconut flour was weird to work with, but I think this pizza dog still enjoyed it!

2 years of strest life, 7 years of shelter life, and 5 years of home life.

You’ve been through so many changes in your life. From living in tropical Singapore, to loving the seasons in the UK. From being fearful of other dogs, to becoming some puppies’ first chill friend they learn to relax with.

At 14 years young, you are so strong, kind, soft, gentle, and inspiringly ungovernable. I love everything about you.

I am forever indebted to this pup for everything. He has taught me so much, and continues to all the time. I will always do my best for him and love him to the fullest.

Long live Davey! 🙌

Loving animals and fighting systemic animal cruelty has everything to do with caring about people and fighting against s...
10/07/2024

Loving animals and fighting systemic animal cruelty has everything to do with caring about people and fighting against systemic oppression and colonial violence.

The killing of animals and destruction of nature by oppressive, colonial forces is also a systemic destruction of people’s way of life and culture.

In fighting for our collective liberation, we can start to abolish our hierarchical thinking around animals, interrogate punishment culture and its effects on how we work with animals, and fight for people’s basic rights and needs which in turn brings about better lives for animals too.

If you love animals, please refrain from saying you care about animals but you don’t care about humans. In the end, it does no favours to progress and improve animal care, and it shows a lack of care and compassion for people experiencing marginalisation and oppression.

We are all interconnected. No one is free until we’re ALL free and the animals we love are not free until we’re ALL free.

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Today I saw a compulsion trainer say that how a dog feels does not matter to them and that they have a client who was wo...
01/07/2024

Today I saw a compulsion trainer say that how a dog feels does not matter to them and that they have a client who was worried about telling them that how their dog feels is important to them.

It was incredibly heartbreaking to hear about how a caring and kind dog guardian had been led to believe that caring about how their dog feels is somehow wrong and that they have been advised to use a shock/e-collar level above a setting that they had stated they were uncomfortable with using.

Please never be guilted into using aversive control and aversive tools like prong collars and shock/e-collars because you’ve been told you’re too “emotional” or “soft” with your dog.

Please never be made to feel silly for apologising to your dog when you accidentally step on their paw.

Please never stop asking yourself if your dog is enjoying something or worried about something in the moment.

Please never let the ableist, racist, and misogynistic notions of being “soft” and “weak” stop you from engaging in kind and loving actions towards your dog.

Behavioural “issues” in our dogs do not stem from us being “soft” and caring towards our dogs or us being concerned about their feelings and wellbeing. Instead, it has more to do with our dogs:

- being in pain
- having unmet needs
- feeling unsafe and afraid
- not having enough choice and control in their lives
- not having enough opportunities to engage in natural behaviours like sniffing, digging, marking, etc.
- experiencing the fallout of punishment.

By caring about how our dogs feel and being “soft”, we get to help our dogs in the way they need us to. We can help them feel safe, help them find us reinforcing to be around, and allow them to be able to express how they feel with us so we can learn what they need and meet their needs more effectively.

Being “soft” in the world of punishment culture as the norm is a brave and powerful act too. It’s a choice to NOT make the world around us worse by participating in the abusive treatment of other beings.

This world needs more care and softness. Let our relationship and care for our dogs be that starting point.

ID: The text on top says “Please never stop caring about how your dog feels”. There’s a cropped out photo of Dave, a brown Singapore Special dog with pointy ears and his lip stuck on his tooth, walking forwards. There’s a speech bubble next to him that says “Be unapologetically soft!”

Colonisers will weaponise dogs against people and then act like they’re morally superior because they claim to love dogs...
27/06/2024

Colonisers will weaponise dogs against people and then act like they’re morally superior because they claim to love dogs while other cultures and communities may have some folks who are afraid of dogs, thanks to the weaponisation of dogs by colonisers against their people.

These are horrific violations of both animal and human rights by the IOF. If we say we love dogs, we must condemn this.

And we must continue to question the glorification of the weaponisation of dogs in our industry, including through “sports”.

Dogs are loved all around the world. But I completely understand when they become hated and feared when they are used as a tool to brutalise people.

This is how colonialism and colonial violence tears our communities apart and tears our connection with nature and all its beings apart.

If you haven’t spoken out about this genocide yet, I implore you to do so now and know that we are all safer the more we all speak out.

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25/06/2024

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