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18/09/2025

I think it's strange that dogs get called naughty, bad or blamed for their natural behaviour.

It's even odder to me that dogs are usually the last one in the household to be considered.

They are just expected to fit in and have no opinions.

Then when they cry out for their needs to be met in one way or another, a trainer is fetched in.

Then the dog becomes the sentient victim of the vast uneducated dog trainer lottery.

Then if they are unlucky the poor dog is exposed to one of those 'broken people dog trainers' who focus only on results so work through threats and force.

In barely no time at all, a desperate animal who has been asking for help in the only way he knows how, is put into the hands of a disconnected brute of a human with a prong collar and a big scary voice.

The dog learns that when they ask for help they are threatened.

They learn that pain is the response to them trying to stay safe.

That dog learns when they are scared, they just have to push it all back inside because of the brute standing over them, or the metal spikes around their neck.

This is not good enough!

We have the capacity to be so much better than this!

We have enough access to education to know that bullying isn't teaching!

We have known for decades that dogs are emotional and sentient animals.

We have intuition and instinct to know that it's wrong to push a vulnerable animal around.

WE know that it's wrong.

YOU know in your heart that it's wrong.

So why the hell are you still doing it?

(Note from the writer - well I escalated quickly 😅)

Noodle has been on painkillers for 2 weeks - the change has been huge.🐾She’s seeking more contact 🐾She’s curling up clos...
18/09/2025

Noodle has been on painkillers for 2 weeks - the change has been huge.

🐾She’s seeking more contact
🐾She’s curling up closer to me in the mornings
🐾She’s playing a bit more with her friends
🐾She’s barking less on the lead
🐾She’s running around the house more

And wait for it……
🐾She’s licking her paws at least 80% less (maybe even more !)🙌🙌🙌

What does this mean?
It may mean that the underlying cause of her incessant licking and biting her paws, flank nibbling, licking surfaces, avoiding play, flinching when touched (she’s always done this) and just becoming more withdrawn and seeming to have lost her mojo may have been driven by an underlying painful condition and not allergies.

Of course I will keep in mind the season change and whether this is reducing her allergies but it never seemed to be seasonal flare ups, so ….

She’s been examined by Bristol Vet Specialists and will be having an MRI next week as she’s been indicating spinal pain for some time.

Dogs can only really tell us through their behaviour, how they are feeling. It’s an added layer to pick through if they have a diagnosis for something that ‘could’ be causing their behaviour.

Sometimes things are not always as they seem.

I always consider pain and discomfort when working with clients on my behaviour programmes. It can be hard to spot and dogs are so good at hiding it and getting on with life ❤️

Today I was accepted as a full member in to the International Canine Behaviourists 🐾 📖 ✔️ Their ethics and Code of Condu...
13/09/2025

Today I was accepted as a full member in to the International Canine Behaviourists 🐾 📖 ✔️

Their ethics and Code of Conduct align beautifully with mine and I am proud to be approved and recommend by them.

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