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❗️Quick fixes can be damaging❗️When you resort to using methods that quickly stop your dog doing something, you are risk...
02/01/2025

❗️Quick fixes can be damaging❗️

When you resort to using methods that quickly stop your dog doing something, you are risking many short and long term damaging effects.

Here are just a few…..

🐾 they may become scared of you, and try to defend themselves, when you approach
🐾 you may be punishing one method of communication such as growling and force them to bite instead (which is just another method of communication for a dog)
🐾 you may make them more anxious about going on walks if you are punishing them or using devices like vibration collars / ecollars and so on
🐾 you may be teaching them the wrong associations, for example, if they see a dog, bark at a dog, you shout at them or yank on the lead - you could be teaching them that dogs = bad stuff happening
🐾 you can cause stress and fear in your dog, leading to a whole host of negative effects on their physical and mental health
🐾 you can leave your dog feeling helpless and withdrawn
🐾 you can strip the joy from their lives

In human terms, if your normal behaviour was met with harsh treatment from the person closest to you, that’s going to affect you.

If you try to communicate your emotions and you are silenced with more harsh treatment (or equipment), this is going to affect you.

It’s the same for dogs 🐶❤️

Seek to understand the reason for your dog’s behaviour, and if you need help, seek out a kind, ethical trainer.

Don’t go for the flashy quick fix claims, the trainers that slap a piece of equipment on your dog, or tell you to ‘just give them a correction’

Quick fixes are borne out of fear, pain and punishment.

Avoid at all costs, your dog will thank you for it 🐾

This is a prime example of what can happen if you use a piece of equipment in an attempt to stop a dog doing something. ...
01/01/2025

This is a prime example of what can happen if you use a piece of equipment in an attempt to stop a dog doing something.

There are NO QUICK FIXES - only pain, punishment, fear, and long term negative effects on a dog’s welfare and behaviour., if you slap a ‘tool’ on a dog to try and change their behaviour.

Not all these negative effects will be so obviously apparent as in this sad example.

I cannot think of a single legitimate use for a ‘bark collar’. Why would it ever be reasonable for a DOG to believe that BARKING’ is painful? Try to consider life from the dog’s perspective - we at least owe them that!

My view is that bark collars should be completely illegal world-wide. They mislead the general public into believing they are a reasonable way to treat animals.

2025 PUPPY SCHOOL - DING DING 🛎⭐Puppy Training Classes for puppies 18 weeks up to1 year old ⭐Starts Tuesday 21st January...
30/12/2024

2025 PUPPY SCHOOL - DING DING 🛎

⭐Puppy Training Classes for puppies 18 weeks up to1 year old ⭐

Starts Tuesday 21st January 6.45pm (1 hour)
Venue: Llantonian Hall, Llantwit Major
Duration: 4 weeks
Cost: £95

Don't delay learning about your puppy and how to teach them effectively and kindly, or it may feel like they are out of control before too long.

It may seem as though they don't need too much training when they are young, but their behaviour will change many times, especially when they hit the terrible teens!

In 4 weeks you will learn:
🐾 Recall
🐾 Ways to get them to focus on you
🐾 Dealing with jumping up
🐾 Some fun tricks
🐾 A big insight to dog behaviour, so you can better understand your furry friend!
🐾 A course booklet with tips and videos to help your training progress

Spaces are limited to 4 so get ahead of your self and book Spaces are limited to 4 so get ahead of your self and book your space soon.

https://www.behavewithhayley.co.uk/classbookingform
Links in bio for Instagram

26/12/2024
⭐ Advice for a Happy & Safe Christmas with your dogs ⭐I hope you're enjoying the festive season with your four-legged pa...
18/12/2024

⭐ Advice for a Happy & Safe Christmas with your dogs ⭐

I hope you're enjoying the festive season with your four-legged pals 🎄 🐾

Christmas can pose a few challenges where our dogs are concerned, so please take a look at the blog I did last year, and my social media posts, for some sound advice.

https://www.behavewithhayley.co.uk/post/keep-your-beloved-dogs-safe-this-christmas

This year has flown by and the Christmas season is upon us again. The food, the friends, the fun and the frolics, but there are many hidden dangers for our dogs, that we need to be aware of. Surely our dogs can just join in with everything right? Wrong…..As a dog trainer, every year I hear horror ...

What a lucky boy Ted is to have found a much happier life in the Vale of Glamorgan.Ted from Bosnia has completed my Rock...
23/11/2024

What a lucky boy Ted is to have found a much happier life in the Vale of Glamorgan.

Ted from Bosnia has completed my Rocket Recall Course, and is now off lead every day!

This makes him happy, makes his new mum happy, and quite frankly reduces the amount he pulls on the lead, without any lead walking training.

Be free Ted! A far cry from his previous life ❤️❤️

⭐ The Christmas Puppy Social is NOW FULL⭐It's here, it's happening, and it's going to be a whole heap of festive fun!🐾 T...
15/11/2024

⭐ The Christmas Puppy Social is NOW FULL⭐

It's here, it's happening, and it's going to be a whole heap of festive fun!

🐾 Tuesday 10th December 5.30pm
🐾 LLantonian Hall
🐾 For puppies up to 18 weeks old
FREE for puppies on the Puppy Power Programme
£10 for other puppies

Spaces will be limited, this is an exclusive party 🐾🐾🐾🐾🐾🐾

Give your puppy the chance to have a great experience with other puppies, and learn a bit about what you need to focus on during the critical first 4 months of your puppy's life.

Message me for a space and payment details.

⭐️Another vet visit ⭐️I stayed with noodle and held her in a gentle restraint while she screamed at the vets.You may be ...
14/11/2024

⭐️Another vet visit ⭐️

I stayed with noodle and held her in a gentle restraint while she screamed at the vets.

You may be surprised to hear that I’m not very good at this kind of stuff!

I often hold her while she has her ears looked at and has injections but having her a**l glands done sends her bat sh*t crazy.

As lovely as the vets are, I always feel guilty when I let them take her out to the back or I leave the room for her to have something done .

So today I braved it and held onto my baby girl while she screamed the vets down 🫣

It must be terrifying and really uncomfortable for dogs, I mean as soon as the vet put the blue gloves on, I started sweating😂😂

Noodle had two ear-exams, 2 a**l gland expressed and an injection.

Even though she squealed and screamed, as soon as each thing was done, she looked at me expectantly for some treats. She didn’t try to escape the room once in between. Noodle is quite dramatic but that’s not to take away from any of her feelings at the vets.

She also had a lovely runaround with one of her best friends when we got home.

Hopefully, she will be more comfortable for the foreseeable future. I’m ready for playing with more friends. ( she’s been quite avoidant lately which I feel is due to being in pain and various places.)

Proud of noodle, and proud of myself.

We’ve made so much progress with Noodle’s fear of the vets since the Cowbridge branch opened. Clean slate, new associations.

Maybe next time though the vet will say could you please step outside the room, Hayley? 😂😂😂

Maes Glas Vets

⭐️⭐️Harnesses⭐️⭐️Don’t just slap it on your dog  or wrestle them in or pin them down, and hope for the best! Having a ha...
14/11/2024

⭐️⭐️Harnesses⭐️⭐️

Don’t just slap it on your dog or wrestle them in or pin them down, and hope for the best!

Having a harness on can be quite alien for some dogs, and you could end up with a dog that runs away every time you pick it up. Walks can become a little stressful and time-consuming when this happens.!

So when you get a new harness, take your time and build a really great association with it.
🐾 get the harness out, be excited and feed your dog some tasty treats, then put it out of sight
🐾 repeat until you get an expectant look when you get the harness out
🐾 without putting the harness on your dog clip together the clips and feed (clip = treat) those loud clips can be offputting for some dogs
🐾 go slowly putting each part of the harness around your dog removing it and giving them a treat
🐾 play some games with your dog as soon as they have it on, and then take it off
🐾 watch for any body language that suggests they are trying to move away or are not enjoying the interaction

You can find plenty of videos online to help you.

In the photo is Willow, she is a rescue from Dubai and we suspect she’s never worn a harness before. So today we started some of the training, and she will continue to walk on her collar until she is completely happy in her harness.

The harness is from . This is the make I use with my dog and I often recommend it to clients. It is Y shape doesn’t impede the shoulders, it’s comfortable and it has a front and back clip, this can be really helpful when you have a strong dog.

Other makes are available, I’m not on commission!


FULLY BOOKED 2025 PUPPY SCHOOL - DING DING 🛎⭐Puppy Training Classes for puppies 18 weeks up to1 year old ⭐Starts Tuesday...
01/11/2024

FULLY BOOKED

2025 PUPPY SCHOOL - DING DING 🛎
⭐Puppy Training Classes for puppies 18 weeks up to1 year old ⭐

Starts Tuesday 14th January 5.30 - 6.30pm

Venue: Llantonian Hall, Llantwit Major
Duration: 4 weeks
Cost: £95

Don't delay learning about your puppy and how to teach them effectively and kindly, or it may feel like they are out of control before too long.
It may seem as though they don't need too much training when they are young, but their behaviour will change many times, especially when they hit the terrible teens!

In 4 weeks you will learn:
🐾 Recall
🐾 Ways to get them to focus on you
🐾 Dealing with jumping up
🐾 Some fun tricks
🐾 A big insight to dog behaviour, so you can better understand your furry friend!
🐾 A course booklet with tips and videos to help your training progress

Spaces are limited to 4 so get ahead of your self and book your space soon.
https://www.behavewithhayley.co.uk/classbookingform
Links in bio for Instagram

It’s true, sadly.Some dog trainers choose to use painful and scary methods to force a dog to do something.This could be ...
30/10/2024

It’s true, sadly.

Some dog trainers choose to use painful and scary methods to force a dog to do something.

This could be because they are an old-fashioned trainer with outdated views, because they are ill educated, or because they just don’t give a sh*t about your dog’s emotional state.

Never be scared to ask your trainer what they will do if your doesn’t do the behaviour they want. if they say things like a correction or a little jerk or raise their voice or shake something at your dog or anything along these lines, I advise you to look for a different trainer.

If they immediately want to slap a piece of equipment on your dog to force them to do something, this is not advisable either.

If you have a puppy, or an anxious dog, these methods can be even more damaging.

Protect your pet , don’t pay someone to bully them ♥️

💥Bonfire Night Advice💥(and all the other nights that fireworks are let off)Put in some preparation now, don't assume tha...
27/10/2024

💥Bonfire Night Advice💥
(and all the other nights that fireworks are let off)

Put in some preparation now, don't assume that your dog will be ok with it all.
🐾 A new puppy? - don't risk developing a life long fear
🐾 A puppy that seemed fine on their first Bonfire night? - this could be very different on their second
🐾 An older dog? - they may find it more scary than previous years
🐾 A dog that is in pain? - they may also be more scared this year as pain and sound sensitivities are massively linked. (you may have no idea that your dog is in pain remember)

Plan and prepare as if they will be scared, you will have plenty of tools in your tool kit when the fireworks are upon you. Trying to scrabble around at the last minute when your dog is distressed, can be really ineffectual.

Just telling your dog that everything is ok and not to be scared - IS NOT ENOUGH!

Apart from the obvious advice about walking them in daylight, keeping their microchip details up to date, keeping them on lead etc..... you can do lots in the house.

🔥Watch for more subtle signs your dog is becoming scared - being more vigilant, attention seeking behaviour, panting, lower body posture- don't let it get beyond this. to full blown panic
🔥 Prepare a safe space, close blinds, make it cosy, put food toys in there, always allow your dog to escape there if they want to
🔥 Distractions are great - tricks, tug, ball play, super tasty Kongs, snuffle mats, chews etc.
🔥 Noise and light blocking - use of white and brown noise (get your dog used to these in advance if you can) If your dog retreats to the bathroom, you can run the taps. I find classical music has too many pauses and quiet moments and doesn't cut the mustard!
🔥 Calming supplements and weighted clothing 'may' help
🔥 Never punish your dog
🔥 If you can't distract them with fun and food, provide as much comfort to them as needed.
🔥 Shower them with treats after every noise they notice and keep a happy tone of voice
🔥 Never leave them alone at home
🔥 In more serious cases, speak to your vet, they may prescribe a short term medication, that lasts a couple of hours.

Here is a link to a 3 minute video from the wonderful
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TFF52aLgQow&t=36s

And a link to the eBook and infographic
https://illis.se/en/eliminating-firework-and-thunder-phobia-in-dogs/

Remember, loud noises can be terrifying for animals, but you can help yours through it ❤️

🔥 BE PREPARED 🔥There is so much you can to help your pet on Bonfire night.If they are a puppy experiencing their first o...
20/10/2024

🔥 BE PREPARED 🔥

There is so much you can to help your pet on Bonfire night.

If they are a puppy experiencing their first one, don't leave it to chance! Prepare as if they may be scared, or you could end up with a life long problem at this time of year.

Some dogs that have been ok with fireworks can still change their minds, particularly if they are older and experiencing some pain.

Dogs that seemed fine on their first fireworks year, can then not be fine the next year.

So the message is...
PREPARE AS IF THEY WILL BE SCARED.

Apart from the obvious advice about walking them in daylight, keeping their microchip details up to date, keeping them on lead etc..... you can do lots in the house.

🔥Watch for more subtle signs your dog is becoming scared - being more vigilant, attention seeking behaviour, panting, lower body posture- don't let it get beyond this. to full blown panic
🔥 Prepare a safe space, close blinds, make it cosy, put food toys in there, always allow your dog to escape there if they want to
🔥 Distractions are great - tricks, tug, ball play, super tasty Kongs, snuffle mats, chews etc.
🔥 Noise and light blocking - use of white and brown noise (get your dog used to these in advance if you can) If your dog retreats to the bathroom, you can run the taps. I find classical music has too many pauses and quiet moments and doesn't cut the mustard!
🔥 Calming supplements and weighted clothing 'may' help
🔥 Never punish your dog
🔥 If you can't distract them with fun and food, provide as much comfort to them as needed.
🔥 Shower them with treats after every noise they notice and keep a happy tone of voice
🔥 Never leave them alone at home
🔥 In more serious cases, speak to your vet, they may prescribe a short term medication, that lasts a couple of hours.

Here is a link to a 3 minute video from the wonderful

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TFF52aLgQow&t=36s

And a link to the eBook and infographic

https://illis.se/en/eliminating-firework-and-thunder-phobia-in-dogs/

Remember, loud noises can be terrifying for animals, but you can help yours through it ❤️

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