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⭐ The Christmas Puppy Social ⭐It's here, it's happening, and it's going to be a whole heap of festive fun!🐾 Tuesday 10th...
15/11/2024

⭐ The Christmas Puppy Social ⭐

It's here, it's happening, and it's going to be a whole heap of festive fun!

🐾 Tuesday 10th December 5.30pm
🐾 LLantonian Hall
🐾 For puppies up to 18 weeks old.

FREE for puppies on the Puppy Power Programme
£10 for other puppies

Spaces will be limited, this is an exclusive party 🐾🐾🐾🐾🐾🐾

Give your puppy the chance to have a great experience with other puppies, and learn a bit about what you need to focus on during the critical first 4 months of your puppy's life.

Message me for a space and payment details.

⭐️Another vet visit ⭐️I stayed with noodle and held her in a gentle restraint while she screamed at the vets.You may be ...
14/11/2024

⭐️Another vet visit ⭐️

I stayed with noodle and held her in a gentle restraint while she screamed at the vets.

You may be surprised to hear that I’m not very good at this kind of stuff!

I often hold her while she has her ears looked at and has injections but having her a**l glands done sends her bat sh*t crazy.

As lovely as the vets are, I always feel guilty when I let them take her out to the back or I leave the room for her to have something done .

So today I braved it and held onto my baby girl while she screamed the vets down 🫣

It must be terrifying and really uncomfortable for dogs, I mean as soon as the vet put the blue gloves on, I started sweating😂😂

Noodle had two ear-exams, 2 a**l gland expressed and an injection.

Even though she squealed and screamed, as soon as each thing was done, she looked at me expectantly for some treats. She didn’t try to escape the room once in between. Noodle is quite dramatic but that’s not to take away from any of her feelings at the vets.

She also had a lovely runaround with one of her best friends when we got home.

Hopefully, she will be more comfortable for the foreseeable future. I’m ready for playing with more friends. ( she’s been quite avoidant lately which I feel is due to being in pain and various places.)

Proud of noodle, and proud of myself.

We’ve made so much progress with Noodle’s fear of the vets since the Cowbridge branch opened. Clean slate, new associations.

Maybe next time though the vet will say could you please step outside the room, Hayley? 😂😂😂

Maes Glas Vets

⭐️⭐️Harnesses⭐️⭐️Don’t just slap it on your dog  or wrestle them in or pin them down, and hope for the best! Having a ha...
14/11/2024

⭐️⭐️Harnesses⭐️⭐️

Don’t just slap it on your dog or wrestle them in or pin them down, and hope for the best!

Having a harness on can be quite alien for some dogs, and you could end up with a dog that runs away every time you pick it up. Walks can become a little stressful and time-consuming when this happens.!

So when you get a new harness, take your time and build a really great association with it.
🐾 get the harness out, be excited and feed your dog some tasty treats, then put it out of sight
🐾 repeat until you get an expectant look when you get the harness out
🐾 without putting the harness on your dog clip together the clips and feed (clip = treat) those loud clips can be offputting for some dogs
🐾 go slowly putting each part of the harness around your dog removing it and giving them a treat
🐾 play some games with your dog as soon as they have it on, and then take it off
🐾 watch for any body language that suggests they are trying to move away or are not enjoying the interaction

You can find plenty of videos online to help you.

In the photo is Willow, she is a rescue from Dubai and we suspect she’s never worn a harness before. So today we started some of the training, and she will continue to walk on her collar until she is completely happy in her harness.

The harness is from . This is the make I use with my dog and I often recommend it to clients. It is Y shape doesn’t impede the shoulders, it’s comfortable and it has a front and back clip, this can be really helpful when you have a strong dog.

Other makes are available, I’m not on commission!


2025 PUPPY SCHOOL - DING DING 🛎⭐Puppy Training Classes for puppies 18 weeks up to1 year old ⭐Starts Tuesday 14th January...
01/11/2024

2025 PUPPY SCHOOL - DING DING 🛎
⭐Puppy Training Classes for puppies 18 weeks up to1 year old ⭐

Starts Tuesday 14th January 5.30 - 6.30pm

Venue: Llantonian Hall, Llantwit Major
Duration: 4 weeks
Cost: £95

Don't delay learning about your puppy and how to teach them effectively and kindly, or it may feel like they are out of control before too long.
It may seem as though they don't need too much training when they are young, but their behaviour will change many times, especially when they hit the terrible teens!

In 4 weeks you will learn:
🐾 Recall
🐾 Ways to get them to focus on you
🐾 Dealing with jumping up
🐾 Some fun tricks
🐾 A big insight to dog behaviour, so you can better understand your furry friend!
🐾 A course booklet with tips and videos to help your training progress

Spaces are limited to 4 so get ahead of your self and book your space soon.
https://www.behavewithhayley.co.uk/classbookingform
Links in bio for Instagram

It’s true, sadly.Some dog trainers choose to use painful and scary methods to force a dog to do something.This could be ...
30/10/2024

It’s true, sadly.

Some dog trainers choose to use painful and scary methods to force a dog to do something.

This could be because they are an old-fashioned trainer with outdated views, because they are ill educated, or because they just don’t give a sh*t about your dog’s emotional state.

Never be scared to ask your trainer what they will do if your doesn’t do the behaviour they want. if they say things like a correction or a little jerk or raise their voice or shake something at your dog or anything along these lines, I advise you to look for a different trainer.

If they immediately want to slap a piece of equipment on your dog to force them to do something, this is not advisable either.

If you have a puppy, or an anxious dog, these methods can be even more damaging.

Protect your pet , don’t pay someone to bully them ♥️

💥Bonfire Night Advice💥(and all the other nights that fireworks are let off)Put in some preparation now, don't assume tha...
27/10/2024

💥Bonfire Night Advice💥
(and all the other nights that fireworks are let off)

Put in some preparation now, don't assume that your dog will be ok with it all.
🐾 A new puppy? - don't risk developing a life long fear
🐾 A puppy that seemed fine on their first Bonfire night? - this could be very different on their second
🐾 An older dog? - they may find it more scary than previous years
🐾 A dog that is in pain? - they may also be more scared this year as pain and sound sensitivities are massively linked. (you may have no idea that your dog is in pain remember)

Plan and prepare as if they will be scared, you will have plenty of tools in your tool kit when the fireworks are upon you. Trying to scrabble around at the last minute when your dog is distressed, can be really ineffectual.

Just telling your dog that everything is ok and not to be scared - IS NOT ENOUGH!

Apart from the obvious advice about walking them in daylight, keeping their microchip details up to date, keeping them on lead etc..... you can do lots in the house.

🔥Watch for more subtle signs your dog is becoming scared - being more vigilant, attention seeking behaviour, panting, lower body posture- don't let it get beyond this. to full blown panic
🔥 Prepare a safe space, close blinds, make it cosy, put food toys in there, always allow your dog to escape there if they want to
🔥 Distractions are great - tricks, tug, ball play, super tasty Kongs, snuffle mats, chews etc.
🔥 Noise and light blocking - use of white and brown noise (get your dog used to these in advance if you can) If your dog retreats to the bathroom, you can run the taps. I find classical music has too many pauses and quiet moments and doesn't cut the mustard!
🔥 Calming supplements and weighted clothing 'may' help
🔥 Never punish your dog
🔥 If you can't distract them with fun and food, provide as much comfort to them as needed.
🔥 Shower them with treats after every noise they notice and keep a happy tone of voice
🔥 Never leave them alone at home
🔥 In more serious cases, speak to your vet, they may prescribe a short term medication, that lasts a couple of hours.

Here is a link to a 3 minute video from the wonderful
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TFF52aLgQow&t=36s

And a link to the eBook and infographic
https://illis.se/en/eliminating-firework-and-thunder-phobia-in-dogs/

Remember, loud noises can be terrifying for animals, but you can help yours through it ❤️

🔥 BE PREPARED 🔥There is so much you can to help your pet on Bonfire night.If they are a puppy experiencing their first o...
20/10/2024

🔥 BE PREPARED 🔥

There is so much you can to help your pet on Bonfire night.

If they are a puppy experiencing their first one, don't leave it to chance! Prepare as if they may be scared, or you could end up with a life long problem at this time of year.

Some dogs that have been ok with fireworks can still change their minds, particularly if they are older and experiencing some pain.

Dogs that seemed fine on their first fireworks year, can then not be fine the next year.

So the message is...
PREPARE AS IF THEY WILL BE SCARED.

Apart from the obvious advice about walking them in daylight, keeping their microchip details up to date, keeping them on lead etc..... you can do lots in the house.

🔥Watch for more subtle signs your dog is becoming scared - being more vigilant, attention seeking behaviour, panting, lower body posture- don't let it get beyond this. to full blown panic
🔥 Prepare a safe space, close blinds, make it cosy, put food toys in there, always allow your dog to escape there if they want to
🔥 Distractions are great - tricks, tug, ball play, super tasty Kongs, snuffle mats, chews etc.
🔥 Noise and light blocking - use of white and brown noise (get your dog used to these in advance if you can) If your dog retreats to the bathroom, you can run the taps. I find classical music has too many pauses and quiet moments and doesn't cut the mustard!
🔥 Calming supplements and weighted clothing 'may' help
🔥 Never punish your dog
🔥 If you can't distract them with fun and food, provide as much comfort to them as needed.
🔥 Shower them with treats after every noise they notice and keep a happy tone of voice
🔥 Never leave them alone at home
🔥 In more serious cases, speak to your vet, they may prescribe a short term medication, that lasts a couple of hours.

Here is a link to a 3 minute video from the wonderful

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TFF52aLgQow&t=36s

And a link to the eBook and infographic

https://illis.se/en/eliminating-firework-and-thunder-phobia-in-dogs/

Remember, loud noises can be terrifying for animals, but you can help yours through it ❤️

⭐️Pain can often be hard to detect in dogs⭐️Anything different to the norm should be taken seriously and not seen as you...
18/10/2024

⭐️Pain can often be hard to detect in dogs⭐️

Anything different to the norm should be taken seriously and not seen as your dog just being difficult .

I’ll be the first to admit that I’ve had a very frustrating week with Noodle, she’s hard to get out of the door. She’s standing around a lot. She’s not playing much with other dogs and then she doesn’t want to go home. She’s also not responding to her rock solid Recall ( the one just before going home)

On top of this, she seems to want to go in the opposite direction to me on walks, which ever way I go!

She’s had allergic flareups again this week and she’s lost her mojo a little bit.

My happiness is massively affected by Noodle’s wellbeing but I’m trying my best to stay calm with her and get a new treatment plan in place.
I’ve also made some changes to the walks and what happens as soon as we get in (currently it’s a paw wipe which is maybe why she doesn’t want to go home as her paws are really sore)

Loving a dog can be hard at times, and being a dog can certainly be hard at times!

If only they could speak and tell us what’s wrong.😑

All behaviour is communication from our dogs - we need to watch and listen really hard to it.

♥️

Please don’t take your dog training advice from someone that comes to fix your washing machine, or build your fence, or ...
17/10/2024

Please don’t take your dog training advice from someone that comes to fix your washing machine, or build your fence, or deliver your shopping 🫣

They say things like
🐾 It’s what I’ve always done
🐾 It always worked on my dogs
🐾 They need to learn

You wouldn’t let me rock up and get stuck into your electrical appliances with absolutely no idea, or maybe you would if I said that I’ve owned washing machines all my life ?! 🤔

Take your advice from an educated experienced and ethical dog trainer.

Granted, some dog trainers will tell you to sq**rt your dogs with water and I would also say get the hell out there.

Dogs need ….
Cooperation not coercion
Patience not punishment
Hayley not Hotpoint 😂

Well this is nice :)Thanks for the reviews on my Google page that have been part of how they decide the top 3https://thr...
17/10/2024

Well this is nice :)

Thanks for the reviews on my Google page that have been part of how they decide the top 3

https://threebestrated.co.uk/dog-trainers-in-vale-of-glamorgan

I'm a modern, ethical, kind dog trainer that will work with you holistically to bring changes to your dog's behaviour whilst ensuring their welfare is not compromised. Not all trainers operate this way- beware the ones using 'corrections', slip leads to train lead walking, those recommending you spray your dog with water, those yanking them around the neck and raising their voice.

Choose wisely ❤🐾

14/10/2024

⭐Habits⭐

They can be really hard to break, for us AND for dogs.

If they are put in the same situation, they will likely perform the same behaviours. A dog sat in the window every day is more likely to bark, a peson in a sweet shop every day is more likely to eat sweets.

If you want behaviour to change, you need to make changes to prevent the same old habits being practiced over and over and over.

The best way, is to replace these behaviours with new rewarding behaviours, and avoid the *sweet shop for a while! (* replace with wahtever it is that causes your dog to do the behaviour you don't want)

10/10/2024

⭐FREE PUPPY SOCIALS⭐

Next date 7th January @ 5.30pm

Now taking place on the 1st Tuesday of every month.

For puppies up to 18 weeks.

Llantonian Hall, Llantwit Major

It's such a great opportunity for your puppy to meet, and play with other puppies of the same age.

Your puppy will get other great new experiences, all in a positive, supervised and fun environment. The social, is a very important piece of the overall socialisation jigsaw (there's so much more to it however)

You can sign up to my full Puppy Power Programme at any time, even before you bring your puppy home. Find out more here
https://www.behavewithhayley.co.uk/puppies

⭐Knowledge is Power when you have a new puppy!⭐

Book a space for a Puppy Social at
https://www.behavewithhayley.co.uk/group-dog-training-classes

10/10/2024

Travelling with your pooch is a part of life, weather its for the daily walk, or only when you need to head to the vets. Either way it is important for dog owners to understand the legal requirements for transporting their dogs and also how we can best set them up to be comfortable and calm during transit.

The highway code states that.

🚨 Rule 57 🚨
When in a vehicle make sure dogs or other animals are suitably restrained so they cannot distract you while you are driving or injure you, or themselves, if you stop quickly. A seat belt harness, pet carrier, dog cage or dog guard are ways of restraining animals in cars.

Failure to comply with this rule could mean that if you get into an accident, your insurance would be invalid. You can also be fined and have pointed added to your licence. If you do get into an accident, some of the methods of retraining your dog could be insufficient and cause them harm. If your dog is kept in a boot during transit and many owners have boot guards or crates to keep them there. However, if these are not crash tested bits of kit and you are rear-ended, your dog could be seriously injured or killed.

Furthermore the method you use to restrain your dog needs to also be able to keep the dog from escaping the car in the event of an accident or breakdown. Many accidents, deaths and injuries occur with dogs getting out the car and running into traffic.

So, it’s important to have a serious think about how you want your dog to travel in the car and what you want to implement to keep you both safe.

Travelling itself can be a problem for dogs who might suffer from anxiety or motion sickness. Check out my top tips for helping your dog:

✅ Start by not even leaving the driveway! Create positive associations with the car and where your dog will be during transit. You can do this by putting your dog in the car and settle them with their dinner or a nice chew or stuffed Kong.

✅ Take your dog on car rides that don’t end in them going for a walk so they don’t get over excited when in a car.

✅ Make sure your dog has been to the toilet before travelling.

✅ Avoid feeding your dog within 30 minutes of intended travel time.

✅ If you’re planning a long journey, research dog friendly pit stops so your dog can stretch their legs and toilet. Many service stations have facilities for dogs.

✅ Open the windows before closing the doors – it relieves the pressure inside. This is especially helpful for puppies as their inner ears are still forming.

✅ It’s important that they have a comfortable bed to curl up in or something they can use to grip and brace against, so they aren’t sliding about.

✅ The repeated high impact of jumping in and out a car isn’t good for young or old joints, nor might it even be possible for dogs with mobility issues. Teaching them to walk up and down a ramp is a great alternative and saves your back from lifting them!

✅ Drive carefully – accelerate and brake slowly and take corners gently. No dog wants to be on a rollercoaster!

✅ If your dog get’s motion sick, try giving them a ginger nut 30 minutes before you leave. If your dog really suffers, you can get motion sickness tablets from your vet.

09/10/2024

What do fearful dogs really need? It's not JUST love. And advising someone with a fearful dog that their dog "just needs love" sets the person and the dog up to fail by delayed actual professional help, behavioral medication (if needed) and a whole host of other issues.

This is akin to telling someone with a fractured leg that they just need love to heal their fracture. And yes, while there are degrees of fracture severity, like there are degrees of fearful dogs, all broken legs need some type of medical care for proper healing and long term recovery.

While a very simple fracture may only require a brace, ice and rest, other, more complicated fractures require an orthopedic surgeon, pins, plates, medication and extensive physical therapy, Regardless of the type of fracture, an assessment by a professional to make a determination of severity and create plan for recovery is required.

But often, just like in human medicine, mental health issues or pain you cannot see is discounted or minimized. You would never tell someone with a broken leg that they just need love to heal. And we shouldn't minimize the suffering fearful dogs have either.

Read more in my post this week on helping puppy mill dogs.

https://rescuedbytraining.com/2024/10/07/puppy-mill-dogs/

Dog behaviour is very complex and nuanced.It should never be about simply suppressing a behaviour, which is what some do...
07/10/2024

Dog behaviour is very complex and nuanced.

It should never be about simply suppressing a behaviour, which is what some dog trainers will attempt to do.

It’s unfair. It’s sometimes cruel. It’s mostly ineffective long term. It can be damaging.

It totally bypasses all the things going on in your life, and your dog’s life that could be contributing to the behaviour in the first place.

Avoid quick fixes and trainers who offer to slap a piece of equipment on your dog in an attempt to stop them doing something.

Seek somebody well educated, experienced accredited and kind. ❤️

07/10/2024

Adopting a fearful dog from a puppy mill, hoarding situation or backyard breeder dog can be incredibly rewarding and very challenging. There's something to watching a fearful dog blossom into a confident, non-fearful dog. I get a lot of clients who adopt these sad cases because it pulls at their heartstrings, but who are not prepared for the amount of work involved in helping these dogs. In this week's post I address some of the things to be prepared for and what these dogs really need to help them.

https://rescuedbytraining.com/2024/10/07/puppy-mill-dogs/

05/10/2024

When the seed of desire to learn more about dog behavior first implanted itself into my head, I didn't think I would become a behaviorist.

My original plan was to stay a veterinary technician for my entire life.

I loved helping to heal animals physically. At the time I didn't wonder too much about their behavior or how it would be linked to their physical health.

It was, in fact, being in the veterinary field that got me wondering more about behavior.

In our reception area, we had three large TVs that played Animal Planet. It was the early 2000s, and It's Me or the Dog was the 'hot' new show on regularly.

Back then, the show had an overarching theme of human hierarchy and dominance, but I felt it didn't align with my experience working with dogs in their most vulnerable state.

Dogs were scared; they were not at all dominant.

They were in pain and lashing out - but only when threated.

In the reception, watching those shows, things started to make no sense - and when things do not make sense in my head, I start digging.

Flash forward 20(ish) years and I'm still questioning. I'm still digging.

My ideas, how I conduct and educate about dogs and our relationships together are radically different.

The hierarchy is there—it always will be—but with that comes a responsibility to be as kind as possible.

To give dogs the benefit of the doubt.

To understand that dominance we see is really just the ability to have some control over a life with very little.

The behavior "problems" are often the root of unmet needs, health or miscommunication and/or misunderstanding.

Over the last few years, I have seen (and experienced) the depth of the relationship that we can have with our dogs - if we dig in.

Dogs are so willing to tell us what they need, but we often do not hear them. Not from a lack of wanting, but from a lack of not knowing how or knowing.

I joke that Nero is 'so demanding' now - but I love it!

He tells me what he needs more than ever. He communicates beautifully.

But the only thing that has changed is that I give him space to.

I listen.

I respond.

I communicate with him, not just at him.

There is much more dogs can show us, if we let them.

Fear and frustration can both lead to your dog looking like a raving banshie on the end of the lead.Working out the moti...
03/10/2024

Fear and frustration can both lead to your dog looking like a raving banshie on the end of the lead.

Working out the motivation for the behaviour is one of the first steps I take - it’s never about simply stopping the behaviour by adding a jerk or a yank or shouting at them.

This solves nothing and is likely to make things a whole lot worse.

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