18/04/2024
Skye has been doing so well over the last few months, I've really noticed a change in her behaviour, she is so much calmer and better able to cope with things that she used to find really stressful. She is even able to calm herself down if something spooks her and she is way less reactive. I'm so proud of how far we have both come together. I've learnt so much from her and things I've been learning about myself, my ADHD and my mental health have helped me to better understand her 😊.
We haven't gone for a ride for at least a year and a half, neither of us were ready for riding up till now but with us both doing much better mentally and emotionally I felt I would take the first step to potentially work towards riding. I decided to add extra rings to her noseband so I can use it as a sidepull bitless bridle to see what Skye thinks (I still need to come up with a solution to hold the cheekpiece straps securely). I do have a bit for her that she did find comfortable but I want to take a different approach this time, really take our time and listen to how Skye is doing every step of the way. We may go back to using the bit but I want to try something different for restarting her so she associates riding with feeling happier and more relaxed.
As far as I know, she's never been ridden bitless before so I knew I would need to teach her what the rein signals mean before even thinking about getting on board. For our first session on the ground, she did brilliantly. She really quickly picked up what I was asking her and was turning and stopping with very light rein aids. I've been using clicker training with Skye for a while and it has been working brilliantly for us for all kinds of things. Although we are different species, clicker training is a language that we can both understand. Skye really clearly understands when I tell her she's done something right and I'm sure she has learnt things much more quickly.