12/12/2025
HARD-WIRED TO AVOID BLACK DOTS?!!
Yesterday, I shared a plastic garden owl who has been causing some very suspicious behaviour around my neighbourhood...
Want to know why?
Many of the dogs I work with who are anxious or fearful around unfamiliar humans are scared of one particular thing: direct eye contact.
Everything's kind of okay as long as nobody looks at each other.
One dog I worked with recently was having problems with guests. There was a lot of woo-wooing at the door and lots of alarm barking. His hackles were up and he was really unhappy about people coming in. Although it was all sound and fury, he really struggled to move away or settle down. If guests sat down, he'd keep them under his beady watch until one of two things happened: they moved, or they looked at him.
Then the alarm barking would start again.
Although most dogs learn early in life that humans do not seem to respect the natural codes when it comes to looking and they get used to our often very rude and lawless gaze, this isn't always true. It's especially problematic the dog didn't meet many strangers early in development, particularly from 3-8 weeks.
Early exposure tends to work very well preventatively. This is not to say we should eyeball our young pups and give them the old Clint Eastwood, but if they meet a fair few humans and they get used to our very poor and whimsical code of conduct around staring and looking, they'll probably realise we mean no harm.
But why are animals born with an innate fear of being looked at?
In fact, fear of two staring eyes is a widespread fear in the animal world.
Following on from some early work with eight species of birds, researchers had been quick to identify the fact that many animal species will avoid two black circles placed in proximity to one another, not unlike in the image.
That's all you need.
Two black circles. You can see why certain butterflies and moths would have developed circular shapes as part of their adaptations to avoid being eaten for lunch.
Eyes are highly salient. They're easy to pick out. They catch our attention.
That moment they catch our attention causes us to appraise the threat, triggering a concern that in turn generates avoidance behaviour.
Duck or human, your subconscious brain is paying attention.
You don't even need to be a social species to fear those circles. If something out there might eat you, being perceived by the big eyes of a predator is probably a really sensible thing to avoid.
Steer clear of the eye-like circles.
But if you also need to fit into a social group, eyeballing each other can also be seen as a social threat.
We tend to forget this outside of hard-eyed heavily neuronormative Western cultures, but direct gaze can be an enormous social threat that we share with the birds and with other mammals.
Eyes give animals such rich information.
PS if you think you're fine at giving the hard-eyed gaze, please remember that all you have to do to make humans act more honestly and appropriately than they would normally is stick a pair of eyes up on a wall. Sure, they'll probably go off and misbehave elsewhere, but if you don't want them to steal your muffins, pencils or bikes, or you want them to make bigger donations to your honesty box, stick up some eyes and they might go elsewhere to rob a snack or cheat someone else out of a few pennies.
The eyes are watching you.
Perceived surveillance has a strong impact on our feelings, our emotions and the decisions we make. People abide by the laws and are more altruistic even when there are cartoon eyes watching. We do so even without thinking or consciously appraising the eyes.
Crazy, hey?
No different for our dogs, though.
It's why, when asking clients about their dogs, I want to know if their dog stops and stares, or whether they respond negatively to being stared at, by dogs or by humans.
The 'Watching Eyes' effect hits you whether or not you know it. You don't even need to be conscious that you're being watched.
That's just reminded me that a friend of mine has the ick over googly plastic eyes. In the town where she lives, some joker keeps sticking googly eyes on monuments and post-boxes, and she keeps removing them. Every Christmas, I send her a card with two small googly eyes stuck on, because that's the kind of awful friend I am. I'm not sure it's something she ever really thought about, why a moving black plastic counter in a larger white-backed case would give us the creeps, but we humans are no exception to the hard-wired fear of being perceived.
So if you notice that your dog feels uncomfortable with eye contact or with gaze pressure, please know they're not alone. Although most dogs cope admirably with our thoughtless human staring, it does not mean they all should or will find our eye contact to be quite so inoffensive as we mean it to be.
PS: if you're thinking of eyeballing your dog à la Cesar Millan to "help them get used to it" or some other reason, please don't. I know a guy who lost part of his nose eyeballing a dog to 'make the dog submit'.
We shouldn't ever rely on getting a bit of woo-woo alarm barking as the least bad thing a dog could do to us.
References:
Bateson, M., Nettle, D., & Roberts, G. (2006). Cues of being watched enhance cooperation in a real-world setting. Biology letters, 2(3), 412-414.
Dear, K., Dutton, K., & Fox, E. (2019). Do ‘watching eyes’ influence antisocial behavior? A systematic review & meta-analysis. Evolution and Human Behavior, 40(3), 269-280.
Schaller, G. B., & Emlen Jr, J. T. (1962). The ontogeny of avoidance behaviour in some precocial birds. Animal Behaviour, 10(3-4), 370-381.