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Throw Me a Bone - Dog Training & Behaviour Award winning dog trainer, qualified & accredited member of IMDT, specialising in dog reactivity.

31/08/2025

‼️Nothing says “I don’t know what I’m doing” more than a dog “professional” who recommends, or uses, prong & shock collars‼️

27/08/2025

🤔Science has moved on so much on dog training in the last decade alone, yet mindsets are still so slow to keep up …

🐕As frustrating as it can be for those who keep up with the ethical and kind approach- we need to remember that we can only do our best and we can only change one mindset at a time.

👏Even if you change one dog owner’s views on training, equipment, welfare ➡️ you’ve change one dog’s life and that is a a job well done.

🧩Keep going.
🧩Keep educating.
🧩Keep trying.

26/08/2025

Happy International Dog Day 💕

Lets see your dogs 🤩🤩🤩

🤔Why rescue dogs need time to settle in…1️⃣ Physiological stress & “honeymoon period”When dogs transition from a shelter...
25/08/2025

🤔Why rescue dogs need time to settle in…

1️⃣ Physiological stress & “honeymoon period”

When dogs transition from a shelter to a new home, they face significant stress. A 2023 study tracked dogs’ stress indicators immediately after adoption and compared them to their sheltered state using accelerometers (for nocturnal activity), urinary cortisol:creatinine ratio (UCCR), and body weight. Results showed:

• Nocturnal activity and UCCR levels significantly dropped in the new home, indicating reduced stress.

• However, full normalization took time-UCCR returned to normal within three days, but nighttime activity still lagged beyond the third night.

• Dogs didn’t fully match the behaviour of established pet dogs even after several days, highlighting gradual adaptation.  

This also underscores the so called “honeymoon period,” where a dog may initially appear calm, only for stress or behavioral issues to re-emerge later. 

2️⃣ Extended adjustment period ➡️ owners’ perspectives.

Scientific and survey data reveal that settling in often takes longer than people expect:

• Over 50% of adopters reported that it took more than four months for their dog to fully adjust.

• A qualitative study with adopters found similar sentiments: adopters described the adjustment stretching well beyond the early weeks, often shaped by the dog’s previous experiences and individual temperament.

• Additionally, about 14% of adopted dogs are returned within six months, an elevated risk that remains for the first year ➡️ highlighting how long settling can take and how critical proper support is. 

3️⃣ Effects of prolonged shelter stays.

Extended time in a kennel environment can alter dog behaviour in ways that may make the initial transition more complex:

• A 2002 (reviewed in 2023) study on 97 dogs found that the longer a dog stayed in a shelter, the more time it spent at the back of its kennel, resting, and showing reduced vocalization - behaviours often considered less appealing to adopters. 
• These behavioural shifts may reflect stress, depression, or gradual withdrawal, making the re-adaptation process more layered.

4️⃣ Socialization & attachment.

Early-life experiences deeply influence how well dogs adjust to new environments:

• Dogs go through a critical socialization period between approximately 3 to 14 weeks of age.
During this time, exposure to novel stimuli (people, environments, sounds) shapes their lifelong ability to respond adaptively. If dogs miss out on this, they’re more prone to fear, anxiety, or maladaptive behaviour later. 

• Dogs form attachment bonds with caregivers, and those relationships help them feel secure. In new homes, as a dog learns to trust its guardian, its stress reduces and exploration increases. 

5️⃣ Adjustment guidance: The 3-3-3 GUIDE & beyond.

Animal welfare organizations often promote the 3‑3‑3 guideline as a flexible framework (this is NOT a strict rule, more a guide to help set people’s expectations better):
• 3 days: puppies and dogs may act shutdown, overwhelmed, or uncertain.
• 3 weeks: dogs begin to become familiar - showing play, learning routines, and easing into a sense of safety.
• 3 months: many dogs begin to exhibit deeper emotional bonding and feel at home, but not all reach this at the same pace.  

The truth is - dogs are individuals, with their own history and experience, and it is impossible to say how long it may take one dog to “settle in” when compared to 5 different ones. The only sensible approach is, and I highly recommend anyone to get int this mindset - it will take as long as it will take.

What stages of adaptation may look like for a dog:

✨Immediate (Days 0–3)

💡Dog feels overwhelmed; stress markers still elevated. Provide a quiet, safe space and predictable feeding/walking routine.

✨Short term (weeks 1–4)

💡Emergence of comfort signals; behaviour may fluctuate. Reinforce routines, gentle enrichment, and lots of patience.

✨Mid-term (months 2–4+)

💡Deepening trust, more confident play, settling of behaviour . Continue positive reinforcement; seek support if challenges persist.

✨Long term (beyond 4 months)

💡Many dogs feel secure, but some take longer. Recognition of individual differences and ongoing support are key.

Helping a rescue dog settle in is a patience driven journey, not a switch flipped overnight. Scientific findings make clear that dogs:

• Experience acute and lingering stress following adoption.
• Often take weeks to months to truly adjust - praised routines and a calm environment help immensely.
• Carry behavioural legacies from the shelter - longer stays can deepen withdrawal.
• Thrive with consistent care, social bonding, and time to decompress at their own pace.

References
• Van der Laan et al. (2023): stress adaptation measured via nocturnal activity, UCCR, and weight changes. 
• Adopter experience surveys and interviews: adjustment over four months common.  
• Return rates remain elevated up to one year post-adoption. 
• Long shelter stays impact dog behavior negatively. 
• Socialization critical period shapes lifelong adaptability. 
• Attachment bonds and stress relief via human interaction. 

Since I’ve relocated over the pond 🇺🇸 , I am overwhelmed by the sheer volume of prong and electric collars around. Virtu...
21/08/2025

Since I’ve relocated over the pond 🇺🇸 , I am overwhelmed by the sheer volume of prong and electric collars around.

Virtually every other dog wears them (frequently both at the same time). Even service dogs 😟

🫥You see them not just in every pet shop (even those which describe themselves as holistic), but also in every supermarket.

🫥It’s official- abuse has been normalised.

But let me make it clear ➡️ just because you see it everywhere, doesn’t make it right. Just because the description says they are “humane” ➡️ they are NOT !! How can they be ???? Just stop for a minute and think how they actually work !!

🫥Ignorance is not an excuse to mistreat or harm animals.

💡There is no humane, kind way to use an electric or prong collar. They ARE designed to cause pain and discomfort (also fear and anxiety), and they do. There is no “correct” way of using them, which doesn’t cause pain / discomfort, unless you simply don’t use them. A torture equipment doesn’t work unless it harms. And these are exactly that. They are torture tools for dogs. And for what??? Human convenience.

😕We must do better by dogs. We owe them that much. They deserve better from us.

19/08/2025
17/08/2025

Dog behaviour is a story of what the dog needs and how they feel.

🤔Behind every behaviour… is a NEED. 🐾🧩When a dog barks, snaps, digs, guards, reacts, bites, or shows aggression, what yo...
13/08/2025

🤔Behind every behaviour… is a NEED. 🐾

🧩When a dog barks, snaps, digs, guards, reacts, bites, or shows aggression, what you’re seeing is not the problem ➡️ it’s a symptom.

🐕 Behaviour is communication.

💡Dogs don’t ‘misbehave’ out of spite or stubbornness - they respond to how they feel, what they need, and the environment around them. That “unwanted” behaviour is their way of saying, “I need help” or “Something’s not right.”

✅ Emotional needs might include:

• Fear, anxiety, or insecurity (leading to reactivity, guarding, snapping)
• Frustration or boredom (leading to barking, digging, destructive chewing)
• Overwhelm from too much stimulation (leading to withdrawal or aggression)

✅ Physiological needs might include:

• Pain or discomfort (often behind sudden onsets of reactivity or aggression, reluctance to be handled)
• Fatigue or lack of adequate rest (lowering tolerance to stress)
• Nutritional deficiencies or medical conditions (impacting energy, mood, impulse control)

🌟If we only address the surface behaviour by suppressing the barking, the digging, or punishing guarding - we risk ignoring the true cause. That’s like putting a plaster on a wound without treating the infection underneath.

✨By taking the time to identify and meet the real need, whether emotional or physical, we don’t just “fix” the behaviour. We improve the dog’s wellbeing, strengthen trust, and set them up for long-term success.

💫 Next time your dog shows an ‘unwanted’ behaviour, ask:

“What are they trying to tell me?”
“Is this an emotional need… or a physical one?”

Because when we treat the cause, the behaviour often changes naturally.

Happy weekend folks 🤩
02/08/2025

Happy weekend folks 🤩

01/08/2025

A little treasure for reactive dog owners (UK) to keep an eye on ….

Coming soon, a paradise for reactive dogs specifically… holiday in a quiet, absolutely stunning location in Wales. I visited the family last year, so I know the property really well. They are experienced reactive dog owners, and we have discussed in great detail the needs for a holiday destination for dogs with reactivity issues.

Given them a like / a follow ➡️ im sure once the cabin is ready they will be booked up fairly quickly.

Red Dog Retreat

https://www.facebook.com/share/1FYQ7z7gYQ/?mibextid=wwXIfr

Reactive/anxious dog holiday cabin in rural Wales. Opening Feb 2026 🎉🐾

🧠Why is listening to your dog’s needs so important … In a world full of commands, expectations, and quick fixes, it’s ea...
30/07/2025

🧠Why is listening to your dog’s needs so important …

In a world full of commands, expectations, and quick fixes, it’s easy to forget one simple truth: our dogs are constantly communicating with us - through body language, behaviour, and emotion. The real question is - are we actually listening?

🫥Too often, dog training is framed around obedience. And absolute control at all cost. But if we stop and pay attention, we’ll find that our dogs’ physical and emotional needs come first. Welfare and wellbeing first, training second - ALWAYS.

🧠 Emotional needs matter.

Anxiety, frustration, fear, overstimulation - these aren’t “naughty” behaviours to be corrected. They’re signs of unmet needs.

Let me repeat that again. Unmet needs. We simply don’t talk about it enough.

When a dog barks excessively, pulls on the lead, or can’t settle, they’re telling us something. Are they tired? Stressed? Overwhelmed? Needing connection? Why do we focus so much on stopping immediately what an inconvenience to us, when there may be a bigger problem in the picture???

🐾 Physical needs matter too. Sleep, exercise, diet, appropriate outlets for instinctive behaviours - all are essential. A dog who isn’t well rested, or who is unwell, or their body / mind doesn’t function at optimal level will struggle to focus, regulate, and feel safe. No amount of training will override a physical imbalance.

The solution? Kindness. Empathy. Evidence-based methods.

🔁 Positive reinforcement builds trust, confidence, and motivation ➡️without fear or force. It teaches dogs what to do, rather than punishing them for what they’re struggling with. It’s backed by decades of behavioural science and endorsed by every major veterinary and animal welfare organisation globally.

📚 Leading organisations like the American Veterinary Society of Animal Behavior (AVSAB) and the Royal Society for the Prevention of Cruelty to Animals (RSPCA) consistently recommend positive, force-free approaches ➡️ not just for effectiveness, but for the sake of a dog’s emotional health.

Listening to your dog isn’t a sign that you’re “not inc control”.. It’s smart. It’s humane. It’s intuitive.

👍And it’s the only way to raise a dog who feels secure, seen, and supported.

Let’s lead with curiosity, not control. Let’s raise dogs who cope well with day to day life , not just do trick on demand.

Thunderstorms 🫨🫨🫨🫥 We have recently moved to a beautiful, subtropical US location. As stunning as it is, it comes with a...
28/07/2025

Thunderstorms 🫨🫨🫨

🫥 We have recently moved to a beautiful, subtropical US location. As stunning as it is, it comes with a fare share of (daily) thunderstorms, which we rarely get in the UK, and two of my Woofers are not liking this at all …dont blame them .

😖 The thunderstorms are frequent, unpredictable but give some warning, and we are working with thunder vests / shirts. These have worked wonderfully with one of my other dogs, providing that it was put in him really early on.

These, like all other “aids” may help some dogs, but not others, but my view is - if your dog struggles with thunderstorms, loud noises, etc … why not give it a go? What if it’s enough to take the edge of, or even better - fully relax?

🎽These vests / shirts are sold pretty much everywhere these days, but one thing I’ve noticed is that no one explains HOW they work. Aren’t you interested in?

💡The idea is that you are meant to wrap them fairly tightly around the body, and by doing so they are meant to engage the parasympathetic nervous system (feeling of safety). And from my own experience with my own dogs, they can make a massive difference.

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