20/11/2024
Today marks the anniversary of the passing of my very first dog, we have loved and lost other faithful canine companions who are equally as missed and I feel a bit guilty that I don’t publicly remember them (though I do think of them often, remember lessons they each taught me, and frequently look for their stars in the sky for a quick chat).
Ruby’s anniversary brings different thoughts; where would I be had I not had her, what job would I have and what would I be doing with my life?
Ruby is not only the reason I met my husband, and have 2 amazing children, but she’s also why I am a gundog trainer today - I made all the mistakes, I believed all the same things that many first time owners believe, I thought we would learn together and muddle through on our own. I believed that her pottering around my horses field occupying herself was good for her; she was out and utilising her natural instincts. I soon learnt that I was assisting her to become self-employed, and to not need me. I had many times of joy and also several of tears, frustration, and wondering where I’d gone so wrong.
She taught me so much about working dogs, about the way their mind works, how no two days are the same and how once you crest the wave it’s one of the most rewarding places to be. She gave me confidence in myself, and sparked my desire to help others achieve their goals with their dogs, as I had with mine.
So believe me, when we speak for the first time on the phone or meet for the first time in the field and I say that I have been where you are - I mean it. I have. And there’s always a way to get to the other side; to reach an enjoyable, fulfilled, and mutually trusting relationship with your dog. One where any thoughts of not being good enough are distant ones, and where now you look forward to taking your dog with you on long walks, can’t wait to get out training, and cherish working together on the shooting field in harmony.
To Ruby, thank you for each and every valuable lesson you taught me through our 14 years together and I hope you’re being just as mischievous up there as you were down here, xx