31/10/2026
Are you accidentally teaching your dog to do the very things that drive you bonkers?
Here's a familiar scene.
You're sitting on the sofa enjoying a quiet evening.
Your dog comes over and nudges your arm.
You ignore them.
They nudge again.
Still nothing.
Then comes the paw on your knee.
And another.
Eventually, you give in and give them a cuddle.
Everyone's happy!
Except you've possibly just taught your dog something you didn't intend.
Persistence pays off!
Dogs are constantly learning from the consequences of their behaviour.
And it's not always the big training sessions that shape what they do.
Often, it's the tiny, everyday interactions we barely notice.
The dog that barks until somebody opens the door.
The dog that jumps up and gets attention.
The dog that pushes its way past you and gets to something exciting.
If a behaviour regularly produces an outcome the dog wants, there's a good chance they'll try it again.
Of course, there's nothing wrong with giving your dog affection or attention..............It's simply about recognising when and how we're rewarding particular behaviours.
One thing I always encourage owners to do is think about what they're teaching their dog, even when they don't realise they're training.
Because in many ways, we're training our dogs every time we interact with them.
Question: What's the one habit you've accidentally taught your dog that you now wish you hadn't?
If your dog has developed some frustrating habits and you're unsure how to change them, send me a private message.
I'll help you understand why they're happening and teach you practical ways to work towards better behaviour.
Best wishes,
Allan