30/07/2024
Do we really understand our dog's behaviour??
This is why we follow and share our good friends posts. Emma at Speak Dog helps you ask the right questions and understand your dog's behaviours; building a trusting and respectful bond.
They only bark initially
This is a statement I hear a lot of the time when in the context of a dog responding to a perceived threat or worry.
Dogs bark in various contexts and for various reasons, but on this post I'm talking about when a dog is feeling concerned.
Example: My dog feels nervous around people they bark and lunge at them but when they approach and come close they stop barking.
This is often viewed as an achievement, success even!!
But in this context, knowing the dog worries, should we believe the dog becoming quite is a sign of coping?
Let's look at this a little more.
Your dog is worried by people when there is some distance between them, why is the scary thing being closer going to make them feel better, would it make you feel better if something you were scared of got closer?
Could the reason be the dog is feeling under so much pressure they go quiet ?
Have you ever been shellshocked where you just didn't know what to say or do, you were gobsmacked as we say!!
Could the pressure of being so close build and end in a bite?
Are we putting the stranger or unfamiliar person in danger and what are the possible reprocussions if the dog does bite for all parties?
It's also common in these situations for dogs to repeat the barking process everytime.
The dog continues to always bark initially when spotting the person or being put in that situation, so what is this achieving in the long term what benefits are being gained?
It's really important to recognise that a quiet dog does not suddenly give us the illusion the dog is coping.
There can be many reasons a dog goes quite in those situations and I would say there are far more LESS desirable reasons than desirable.
Quiet doesn't mean coping, and repeated exposure with such intensity is likely to ingrain the behaviour further and deeper making it much harder to improve in the long run.
Another aspect we need to consider is how our dogs feel about us when we are the ones who keep allowing our dogs to be put in that situation?
Are we showing our dogs we offer safety and they can trust us, or are we the person holding the lead that keeps allowing it to happen?
Your dog will be communicating but that communication maybe silent, through visual communication such as body language and scent ( which we can't see or smell)
It's important that we don't just focus on the shouting and we really understand what quieter whispers could be telling us!
(Note Picture of Rodney and Derek playing bite face)