28/04/2025
Demand barkingâŠ
Itâs easy to miss â but itâs one of the most common mistakes that feeds into bigger behaviour problems, especially in reactive dogs.
When your dog barks at you â for attention, for food, for play, or just out of frustration â and you respond (even by accident), youâre reinforcing that barking.
Youâre teaching your dog:
âIf I bark, I get what I want.â
At first, it seems harmless: you throw the toy, open the door, put the lead on.
But over time, it becomes your dogâs strategy for everything. Barking becomes the tool to manipulate their environment. And if your dog is already reactive?
Youâre adding fuel to the fire.
When a dog learns that barking = control, you see:
âą Barking at every small frustration
âą Barking to demand access to things (doors, leads, toys, people)
âą Barking when they see other dogs or triggers
âą Barking just to âmove the worldâ around them
So how do you fix it?
You donât just ignore it â you also give your dog a better choice.
This is where incompatible behaviours come in.
If your dog is barking to demand something, ask for a behaviour that physically prevents barking â like a down stay, sit and look, or place command.
You canât bark frantically and hold a calm down stay at the same time.
When you teach your dog that calm, obedient behaviour earns freedom, you build a dog that learns patience, self-control, and trusts you.
Freedom comes through obedience.
When a dog understands that good behaviour unlocks what they want â not barking, not pushing â they gain real freedom.
They can be trusted around distractions. They can cope when frustrated. They stop thinking they have to âfightâ for control.
Bottom Line:
If you donât want a pushy, reactive, barky dog calling the shots, be extremely aware of what youâre reinforcing.
Demand barking is never âjust barking.â
Itâs a habit you are either feeding or fixing.
Teach your dog that calmness, obedience, and patience open doors â not noise.
The result? A clearer-headed, more stable, and far more reliable dog.
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