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https://lavendergardenanimalservices.myflodesk.com/strategies-for-overwhelmed-dog-parents Covering Willington, Repton and surrounding areas of Derby and Burton on Trent. Our aim is to provide you and your pet family members with trusted & tailored dog walking and reward based training services. We also have a wide variety of natural treats, chews and dog access
ories for sale from fellow small business owners and offer free local delivery! Our approach will always be nurturing and patient for all animals in our care. Our Head Trainer & business owner, Sian, runs an award-winning training business! She is qualified in Dog First Aid, holds a L3 Canine Care, Behaviour and Welfare qualification, is Puppy Trainer certified & is currently studying a 3 year, Level 6 dog behaviour qualification!
02/05/2025
"She needs to be told off by other dogs to learn manners."
Sound familiar? đŹ
Itâs one of the most common pieces of puppy advice out there, and it can be one of the most damaging.
Because while it might sound logical⌠itâs really just handing your puppyâs emotional development to a dog who didnât ask for that role.
A growl or a snap isnât a teaching moment, itâs a warning. And for sensitive or inexperienced puppies, it often creates fear, reactivity, or a deep distrust of other dogs.
đś Puppies need calm, clear, human-led guidance.
Not playground politics or ânatural corrections.â
And definitely not chaos disguised as confidence-building.
⨠Your puppy doesnât need to be âtold off.â
They need to feel safe.
And thatâs where real learning begins.
đ Have you ever been told this advice before?
Letâs talk about it.
02/05/2025
Welcome to Myth-Busting May - where each week, weâre cutting through the noise, the nonsense, and the outdated advice so you can raise your dog with more clarity, confidence, and calm.
⨠Week One?
Weâre starting where it all begins: puppy socialisation (post 1 was yesterday, go check it out)
Because if you've ever been told to âjust take your puppy everywhereââŚ
âŚor to let them be told off by other dogs to learn mannersâŚ
âŚor that socialisation is a race against the 16-week clockâŚ
Youâre not alone.
And also? You're not getting the full picture.
This week, Iâm breaking down the biggest myths around socialisation, the ones that lead to fear, overwhelm, and behaviour struggles down the line.
Youâll learn what socialisation actually means, how to do it safely, and why less is often more.
đż Ready to replace fear and pressure with clarity and connection?
Hit save and follow along - letâs rethink socialisation, one myth at a time.
01/05/2025
Letâs talk about socialisation - because most people are getting it very wrong đŹ
If someoneâs told you to just âget them out thereâ and let them âlearn by being told offâ⌠please pause. That advice could actually do more harm than good.
Overexposure. Rough play. Confusing corrections from unfamiliar dogs.
None of that teaches your puppy what you think it does.
đ§ True socialisation is calm, gentle, supported exposure to the world.
Itâs observing, recovering, and growing confidence slowly.
So letâs stop chasing chaos and start focusing on calm connection.
Thatâs how you raise a resilient dog who can thrive in the real world.
đ Tell me - whatâs one âsocialisation mythâ youâve heard that drives you mad?
29/04/2025
Training Tip Tuesday: Boost your dogâs focus with fun engagement games! đž
Try this:
đ The âLook at Meâ Game: Hold a treat near your face and say âlook at me.â Reward when your dog makes eye contact.
⨠Build their attention span by gradually increasing the time before rewarding.
đ This skill is especially helpful for training in distracting environments.
Focus = Connection = Easier training. Whoâs ready to give it a try this week? đâ¨
26/04/2025
Sheâd been barking all day.
At birds. The wind. The neighbourâs car.
Every five minutes - another sharp jolt to my nervous system.
And even though I knew it wasnât her fault,
I could feel myself reaching that familiar edge of âI canât do this right now.â
Not in a dramatic way, just that quiet kind of overwhelm that builds when everythingâs loud, and you havenât had a second to reset.
So I stepped outside.
Breathed in.
And reminded myself: youâre not doing anything wrong, youâre just overstimulated.
This is the part no one talks about, isnât it?
That being a dog parent is emotionally loud.
And that sometimes the reset isnât for the dog, itâs for you.
đ If youâve ever hit that moment, I want you to know youâre not alone.
Youâre not failing.
Youâre just a human doing your best.
𫶠Tell me below - whatâs the one thing your dog does that gets to you when youâre already feeling a bit fried?
26/04/2025
Tell me honestly⌠whatâs the wildest thing you Googled during that first week with your puppy?
Was it:
đ âWhy is my puppy biting my feet?â
đŠ âHow do I know if my puppyâs p**p is normal??â
đ´ âShould they really be sleeping this much⌠or this little?â
đ âIs it normal to feel completely overwhelmed with my puppy??â
Because if youâre in it, I want you to know something important:
This is the Puppy Blues.
The exhaustion. The second-guessing. The constant worry that youâre getting it all wrong.
Youâre not.
Youâre just learning - in real time.
With a living, breathing (biting) baby who doesnât speak your language yet.
And that, my friend, is a lot.
đ If this is where you're at - you're not alone, and it doesn't mean you're failing.
Want me to share more on what puppy blues are (and how to cope with them)? Let me know in the comments and Iâll do a dedicated post soon đ
25/04/2025
When Lucy reached out, she was on the verge of tears.
Her puppy Teddy had bitten her again - hard.
Her daughter was scared.
And every Google search left her feeling more confused.
She was trying everything.
Nothing was working.
But after one calm conversation - and a few tweaks from Puppy Preschool - everything started to shift.
âď¸ She added decompression walks.
âď¸ Swapped ânoâ for redirection games.
âď¸ Focused on rest instead of overdoing stimulation.
Three weeks later, she sent me this:
âHe just lay next to me!! No biting. Just calm.
I feel like Iâve got my evenings back.â
If youâre in the biting trenches right now - there is a way through it.
Youâre not failing.
You just need the right tools.
đ Puppy Preschool Online is here for that.
DM me âPUPPYâ to learn more.
25/04/2025
If youâve ever cried after a training walk⌠this oneâs for you.
You donât need a pep talk. You need a reset.
And thatâs what this blog is all about:
đ 3 Things to Do After a Dog Training Meltdown
Inside, Iâm walking you through:
â How to regulate your own nervous system (before tackling your dogâs)
â What to reflect on without blaming yourself
â A simple action that can bring you both back to connection, fast
đ Because youâre not failing.
Youâre just emotionally overloaded.
And you deserve tools, not judgment.
⨠Read the blog here â lavendergardenanimalservices.co.uk/dog-training-blogs/3-things-to-do-after-a-dog-training-meltdown
⨠Share this with a dog parent who needs a gentle reset today
24/04/2025
Let me tell you about a walk that didnât go well.
A few years ago my dog lost it.
A dog came past too fast, too close - and boom: barking, pulling, stress overload.
And my body? Matched hers.
I wanted to shout, to run, to melt into the pavement (it's what I'd done all those other times before!!)
But instead I learned a different way⌠I paused.
I took a breath. Dropped my shoulders.
That moment of grounding - thatâs what I call Calm Transference.
It didnât fix the situation straight away.
But it gave me the presence to guide us through it.
I moved us away.
Played a short pattern game.
Let her sniff and reset.
She initially didnât relax quickly.
But she began to recover faster than before each time we did it.
And so did I.
This is what emotional regulation in dog training really looks like.
No magic. No âjust be calm.â
Just being with your dog through the chaos and knowing what your strategy looks like when you need it.
You donât need to be perfect.
Just present.
24/04/2025
Feeling like everyone has advice for your dog, but none of it helps?
I get it.
You try a reel, a tip from your breeder, something you read in a bookâŚ
Then your friend says âHave you tried [insert thing here]?â
Suddenly, it feels like youâve got 100 strategies, but no actual solutions.
⨠This is the mindset shift I share with every overwhelmed client:
âIâm not here to fix everything.
Iâm here to choose one thing we can improve together this week.â
Thatâs it.
Not everything. Just something.
This is exactly why I created my Quick Calm Down Kit -
đ§ Simple routines to settle emotions
đś Calm training wins that build connection
𫶠Designed to reduce overwhelm, not add to it
Itâs ÂŁ19, self-paced, and ready when you are.
đ˛ DM me âCALMâ or head to the link in bio to start today.
You donât need to do it all - just one small step forward.
23/04/2025
Some days feel like two steps forward, one step back when it comes to trainingâbut guess what? Progress is still progress.
This Wellness Wednesday, letâs focus on small wins:
đś Your pup finally settled on their mat for a minute? WIN.
đ You managed to keep calm when they pulled on the lead? WIN.
đŞ You showed up for your dog even when you felt like hiding under the covers? BIG WIN.
Write down or reflect on one small win todayâit can make all the difference in your mindset. Need help spotting your wins? Let me know in the comments!
23/04/2025
Are you only training what you can see?
Because behaviour is just the tip of the iceberg.
đ§ Beneath every sit, stay, and âleave itâ is a world of emotion.
And if we only train the visible stuff, we miss what matters most.
A puppy who âseems fineâ might be flooded underneath.
A dog whoâs pulling might be trying to cope, not disobey.
⨠When we focus on supporting emotions, not just managing behaviours.
We create change that actually sticks.
đ Thatâs what the Quick Calm Down Kit is all about.
Not just training your dog to respond, but helping you both reset, regulate, and re-centre together.
đĽ Bite-size videos
đ§ Breathing + regulation tools for you
đś Training games for calm and confidence
đ˛ DM me âCALMâ or hit the link in bio to grab yours today for ÂŁ19.
Start where it matters, beneath the surface.
22/04/2025
Training Tip Tuesday: Is your dog barking for attention? đ
Hereâs how to teach calm communication:
1ď¸âŁ Ignore the barkingâdonât look, touch, or speak.
2ď¸âŁ Reward them when theyâre quiet, even if just for a second.
3ď¸âŁ Gradually increase the time they need to stay quiet before rewarding.
Consistency is keyâyour dog will learn that calm gets your attention, not barking. đ Teach your dog what you want them to do instead - an alternative behaviour in this moment.
Whatâs your pupâs quirkiest way of asking for attention? đž
22/04/2025
âEverythingâs going fine right nowâŚâ
I hear that a lot from new puppy parents. And I get it. You're a week in.
âď¸ Your puppy comes when called (in the garden)
âď¸ They love meeting people
âď¸ Theyâre following you everywhere
âď¸ Theyâve only chewed one slipper so far
âď¸ Itâs all mostly under control
But hereâs the thing đ
Some of the most common teenage behaviour problems start out as âfineâ puppy habits⌠AAAND you don't know what you don't know.
đž Easy recall in the garden doesnât always translate to recall in the park
đž Friendly greetings can become chaotic lunges on the lead
đž Sweet attachment now can lead to full-blown separation anxiety later
đž Casual chewing becomes a daily battle without early boundaries
The good news?
Youâre in the perfect moment to shape your puppyâs future.
⨠My Puppy Preschool Online is designed for this exact stage, when things feel fine, but fragile.
Youâll learn how to gently prevent common issues before they happen, with support that fits into your life.
đĽ 1.5 hour session
đŹ Private Q+A Group
đ Real advice, not random TikToks
đ˛ DM me âPUPPYâ for the link or tap the bio to join now. Youâll thank yourself later.
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Professional Dog Walker, Reliable Pet Sitter, Quality Pet Products
I offer fully tailored and professional dog walking, pet pop-in visits and pet sitting services to you and your furry or feathered friends. Alongside this I have a pet product store where you can feel confident that you are purchasing a range of delicious, 100% natural, pure human grade meat dog treats and chews, as well as a range of quality toys for both cats and dogs!
I have been lucky enough to have grown up surrounded by animals, Iâm from a family of animal lovers! At home now we have our two lovely lurcher rescues, Bonnie and Oliver, and our gorgeous 11 year old budgie, Billie, who weâve had since she was a baby!
I started my animal care business in September 2019 as I have never felt like I have made a difference in the many corporate jobs I have had over the last 10 years. It got to the point in August 2019 where I could no longer ignore my feelings. Animals have always been a love of mine, no matter how big or small so if I can make a positive difference to the lives of your pets, then my goal has been met.
My business name came about when I thought about what I wanted to do for the animals in my care... enable a relaxed, calm and happy atmosphere whilst they were with me and not only is lavender something that is known for its natural, calming properties, but I also have a garden full of it!
I have ensured from day one that I offer a professional service - so attended a Dog First Aid course in July 2019, which is valid to 2021, but also keep up to date with any changes and updates in this area. I am also fully Insured, have had a valid DBS certificate, for your peace of mind and have completed and passed a fully accredited ONC Level 3 in Canine Care & Behaviour between 2019-20.
I am very excited to embark on further training in September 2020, to become a Puppy School training tutor! By 2021, I will be running my own puppy classes to the north of Derby, all positive and reward based. Watch this space for more info and updates!
Thanks so much for reading my story, I really hope I can hear your stories very soon!