12/10/2023
So very true. Thank you Dogs Disclosed
DISTANCE ASSISTANCE
It’s not easy having a reactive dog. As much as we may feel frustrated, restricted, angry or even ashamed or embarrassed, our reactive dogs are also experiencing a range of negative emotions when they react to something that triggers them.
This reaction is usually caused by anxiety, fear, feeling threatened or frustrated.
These emotions cause high levels of stress and stress prevents both us and our dogs from being able to process information, think clearly or learn a different, more acceptable way of reacting to whatever triggers us.
This is why creating enough distance is so important.
I’m really scared of snakes and even struggle to look at them. The only thing I want to do is run away and create as much distance as possible.
If someone was restraining me, forcing me to sit down and look at the snake while trying to feed me my favourite chocolate (or any type of chocolate!), telling me there was nothing to worry about or trying to educate me about the specific species, it would do nothing to alleviate my fear and would only increase my stress levels.
Doing this at a sufficient distance, where I felt safe would be far more effective and my stress levels would be much lower. I may even eat the entire slab of chocolate!
In time, with patience and practice, I may even be able to get much closer to the snake without having a negative reaction.
The same principle applies to reactive dogs. Creating sufficient distance where they can see the trigger but still feel safe, comfortable and don’t react is the best way of helping them to cope with their feelings.
Some dogs (and people) may never be able to decrease that distance and that’s also okay.
Accept your dog for the unique individual they are, work on the things you can change and accept the things you can’t.