25/12/2025
āIf your horse gets worse when you soften the rein, self-carriage was never there.ā
This one catches a lot of riders out.
They finally soften the contactā¦
and the horse immediately speeds up, falls onto the forehand, or loses balance.
So the reins come back.
And the cycle continues.
That reaction doesnāt mean the horse needs holding.
It means he hasnāt learned how to carry himself yet.
Self-carriage isnāt what happens when the rider holds everything together.
Itās what shows up after the rider gives.
A horse in true self-carriage can:
ā keep the same rhythm when you soften
ā stay balanced without leaning
ā stay straight without being held
ā wait for the next aid
If softening the rein causes chaos, the answer isnāt to hold longer.
Itās to teach the horse how to organise his body before you give.
Thatās built with:
ā clear preparation
ā quick reactions
ā short moments of softness
ā and immediate re-organisation if balance is lost
Softening is not the test.
Itās the result.
Teach the horse to carry himself, and the rein can finally become light.
š¬ What happens when you soften the rein: nothing changes, or everything falls apart?
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