16/01/2026
Part 3 – You Learn From Every Dog You Own 🐾💙
This one was short.
Just two weeks.
But it taught me a lot.
We brought home a small black rescue dog from a large national rescue. Her history was unknown - picked up as a stray, likely a puppy-farm dump. Despite that, she was gentle, timid, and incredibly sweet.
We did the ‘right’ things.
Three 3-hour trips so she and Ronnie could meet.
Careful planning.
Staff encouragement.
She was meant to be spayed, treated, groomed, and ready.
She wasn’t.
The dog we applied for wasn’t the dog we brought home - but caught up in hope and the chance to give her safety, we went ahead.
Things unraveled fast.
The dogs were separated and rotated.
All interactions supervised.
Then she came into season.
Ronnie became frantic.
She began guarding me.
She wanted him nowhere near us.
When we thought she was out of season, we tried again.
I turned my back for seconds.
Then chaos.
She flew at Ronnie, catching his eye.
Blood. Emergency vet.
Thankfully, he kept his vision and was completely unfazed. I wasn’t.
After difficult conversations, the rescue acknowledged there had been serious failings - spaying wasn’t the only one. Together, we agreed she needed a home with no other dogs, where she could truly decompress and feel safe.
With the knowledge I have now, I could work through this.
But at the time, I didn’t know enough and prolonging the stress for my own benefit wouldn’t have been fair on either dog.
Before she left, we had her groomed, gently tidying her up - she was badly matted and sent her on with nothing but love.
Wishing you the safest, happiest life, beautiful girl 🤍
Part 4 coming soon. 🐕✨