04/12/2025
๐๐ซ๐ ๐๐ ๐๐ซ๐จ๐ฃ๐๐๐ญ๐ข๐ง๐ ๐๐ฎ๐ซ๐ฌ๐๐ฅ๐ฏ๐๐ฌ ๐๐ง๐ญ๐จ ๐๐จ๐ซ๐ฌ๐๐ฌ?
We do it without thinking.
He likes his stable.
She enjoys this job.
He hates change.
She wants to come in.
Comforting ideas. Neat. Human. And often completely unproven.
Horses donโt come with subtitles. They donโt sit around forming opinions in the way we do. What they do have is a nervous system built for survival in a world where getting it wrong once means you donโt get a second go. When we say a horse โlikesโ something, nine times out of ten what weโre actually describing is tolerance within a predictable setup.
And predictability is the real key here.
๐๐จ๐ฎ๐ญ๐ข๐ง๐ ๐๐ฌ๐งโ๐ญ ๐๐ซ๐๐๐๐ซ๐๐ง๐๐ ๐๐ญโ๐ฌ ๐๐ฎ๐ซ๐ฏ๐ข๐ฏ๐๐ฅ
People love to say horses thrive on routine as if theyโre little creatures of habit who dislike variety. The reality is far less sentimental. In the wild, routine equals safety.
Drink from known water sources.
Graze and browse where footing is safe.
Travel familiar routes.
Stay with the herd.
Play briefly.
Sleep lightly.
Repeat.
That cycle isnโt about enjoyment. Itโs about risk reduction. Predictability keeps a prey animal alive.
So when your horse appears calmer doing the same thing at the same time every day, itโs not because theyโve emotionally bonded to that schedule. Itโs because their brain doesnโt have to work as hard to assess danger. Less information to process equals less stress.
A horse relaxing in routine doesnโt mean the routine is optimal, it means itโs known.
๐๐ก๐ ๐๐ฒ๐ญ๐ก ๐จ๐ โ๐๐ ๐๐ข๐ค๐๐ฌ ๐๐ญ ๐๐ก๐ข๐ฌ ๐๐๐ฒโ
This is where projection creeps in.
We interpret calm compliance as happiness.
We interpret familiarity as choice.
We interpret lack of resistance as contentment.
But horses are exceptionally good at enduring. Stillness, shutdown, dullness, these can look an awful lot like good behaviour if you donโt know what youโre looking at.
A horse can tolerate a stable, a job, a rider, a routine for years without ever choosing it.
Tolerance is not preference.
Horses donโt communicate through narratives or vibes. They communicate throughโฆโฆ
๐๐๐ง๐ฌ๐ข๐จ๐ง ๐ฉ๐๐ญ๐ญ๐๐ซ๐ง๐ฌ ๐ข๐ง ๐ญ๐ก๐ ๐๐จ๐๐ฒ
๐๐จ๐ฌ๐ญ๐ฎ๐ซ๐ ๐๐ง๐ ๐ฐ๐๐ข๐ ๐ก๐ญ ๐๐ข๐ฌ๐ญ๐ซ๐ข๐๐ฎ๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง
๐๐ฎ๐๐ฅ๐ข๐ญ๐ฒ ๐จ๐ ๐ฆ๐จ๐ฏ๐๐ฆ๐๐ง๐ญ
๐๐ฉ๐ฉ๐๐ญ๐ข๐ญ๐ ๐๐ง๐ ๐๐ข๐ ๐๐ฌ๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง
๐
๐๐๐ข๐๐ฅ ๐๐ฑ๐ฉ๐ซ๐๐ฌ๐ฌ๐ข๐จ๐ง ๐๐ง๐ ๐๐ฅ๐ข๐ง๐ค๐ข๐ง๐
๐๐ซ๐๐๐ญ๐ก๐ข๐ง๐
๐๐จ๐ฐ ๐ช๐ฎ๐ข๐๐ค๐ฅ๐ฒ ๐ญ๐ก๐ ๐ง๐๐ซ๐ฏ๐จ๐ฎ๐ฌ ๐ฌ๐ฒ๐ฌ๐ญ๐๐ฆ ๐ฌ๐๐ญ๐ญ๐ฅ๐๐ฌ ๐๐๐ญ๐๐ซ ๐ฉ๐ซ๐๐ฌ๐ฌ๐ฎ๐ซ๐
None of that fits neatly into the story of he loves this, which is why itโs so often ignored.
And letโs be honestโฆโฆ.telling ourselves a horse enjoys something makes us more comfortable with how we manage, train, or use them.๐๐
๐๐ก๐จ๐ข๐๐ ๐๐ก๐๐ง๐ ๐๐ฌ ๐๐ฏ๐๐ซ๐ฒ๐ญ๐ก๐ข๐ง๐
If you truly want to know what a horse prefers, you have to look at what they choose when choice is available.
Where do they stand when no one puts them there?
Who do they interact with when pressure is removed?
How do they move when they are not driven?
Do they seek engagement, or simply comply?
A horse that consistently offers something when they are free to decline is giving you information. A horse that only ever complies under confinement is not.
Routine does matter. Hugely. But routine should reflect the horseโs biology, not human convenience wrapped in comforting language.
Routine should allow forโฆโฆ..
Forage led days
Movement over distance
Social contact
Variation within predictability
Mental decompression
The 5 domains.
Not just repetition because he doesnโt like change.
Because more often than not, it isnโt that the horse likes things a certain way.
Itโs that theyโve learned not to protest.
And the quiet horse deserves just as much scrutiny as the loud one.
M we need to stop asking, Does he like this?
and start asking, What is this horse actually telling me?