21/02/2024
Dear Sisters ❤️,
I'm really sorry that you're going through this in your very young marriage. Honestly, I feel your pain and I just wish I could see you right now for a hug 🫂.
If he is cheating or doing wrong in just about a year into the marriage, then it only means one thing: he has been cheating on you before the marriage. I always tell people NEVER to ignore the red flags in a relationship. If love is blind, marriage will open their eyes.
Marriage is honourable and beautiful. It's painful that the devil is always on the lookout to spoil every beautiful thing that God has created. The Bible says "While men slept, the enemy did this." This sleep refers to a spiritual slumber. When Adam and Eve slept off in the Garden of Eden, the enemy struck and destroyed the beautiful life they had.
How To Deal With a Spouse you claims to
loves
FIRST OF ALL
1. Pray for him/her
I'm a strong believer in the potency of prayer. Prayer changes things just as it changes people. Pour out your heart to God and tell Him what you want Him to do with your husband.
2. Pray for his/her salvation
If your spouse has a divine encounter with the LORD Jesus Christ, he/she will quit this ungodly lifestyle. The Holy Spirit who convinced him/her to get saved will also convict him/her to stop defiling the temple of God.
3. Maturely confront him/her.
Don't fight or nag. Just bring forth your strong reasons and ask questions. You deserve to know why he/she is bent on hurting yoU and taking your love, and loyalty for granted.
4. Don't blame yourself!
Never fall into the trap of blaming yourself for the errors of your spouse. It's not your fault, rather it's theirs. Any spouse caught in the web of sexual (S*X) immoralities lacks self-control and dignity.
5. Don't confront the other woman/man.
You have no business with the strange woman. Face your spouse because they're the ones who owe you loyalty and commitment but have failed to deliver. So, leave the other woman/man out of the matter.
6. Allow third-party intervention.
Report to people your husband or wife respects a lot. This could be your pastors, leaders or family elders. Let them intervene and talk sense into your spouse.
7. Invest more time in yourself.
Let your spouse see that you are getting better day-to-day. Let them feel it that they're the ones missing out on the important things happening in your life. Let them see your growth. This has a way it jolts them out of their unholy fantasies.
I hope these my write up helps you.
May God give you the wisdom to handle any type of situation,,, relationships can never be 100% , you just have to push and be determined with your spouse
Sending you virtual hugs 🫂
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