12/12/2022
The only reason for "look at her till you are pleased" before marriage is to have a balance heart and nice objective/ motive towards your intending journey. During the kitbah, character is studied in retrospect because once a liar may remain a liar in the presence of your own sincere love and genuineness in the marriage, and once a sleep around person may advance in his/her ways even after her/his halal coition.
©️ Abu Jaabir