
11/09/2025
Pilot checks, horse agency and riding with compassion.
Imagine how much easier it would be if you could have a conversation with your horse before you got on his or her back.
Have you ever thought about what you might say?
Would you ask them if they felt like being ridden today?
Would you ask them what they felt like doing if they were to be ridden?
Would you ask for their permission or opinion?
We all like to feel like we have some control over our situation or environment and horses are no different. We all want some form of agency in our lives - to make choices, decisions and be individuals.
Imagine how your ride would be different if you did listen more closely to your horse. What sort of pilot checks would you make before you started? Would you ride differently, ask differently, expect less or more? Would you both enjoy it more?
Riding with compassion involves recognising that it’s a privilege to have horses in our lives, and that comes with a responsibility to ensure that they enjoy the relationship we have with them as much as we do. Horses are not machines- they are living, breathing, feeling individuals with their own needs, preferences and desires.
So- next time you interact with your horse, look closely into their beautiful eyes and ask them; ‘how do you feel’? and if you are prepared to listen carefully and act accordingly - you can consider yourself to be a compassionate equestrian.