17/06/2024
The Myth of "Meet & Greets" in Dog Introductions
"Meet & Greets" are often touted as a go-to method for introducing dogs, but they can be misleading. These brief, intense interactions rarely predict how dogs will actually get along in the long run. Whether the dogs seem to hit it off or show signs of dislike during these short meetings, it doesn't necessarily reflect how their relationship will develop under various conditions.
Consider how daunting it is to go to a large social event, if you're someone who has social anxiety or gets claustrophobic. Dogs face similar challenges when introduced to new canine companions. One major risk factor in dog-dog aggression cases is poorly facilitated early introductions. Instead of relying on initial "meet & greets," focus on gradually building relationship over time.
A newly adopted dog already has to adjust to new humans and environments without the added pressure of fitting in with established dogs. Start by fostering neutral responses between the dogs in controlled conditions. Understand that forming cooperative relationships can take months, and that some dogs may never become best friends across all contexts, or evolve into social butterflies... And that's okay. With these dogs, management will be your best tool.
Investing time in the beginning to help your new dog develop healthy and safe relationships with both humans and other dogs is crucial. This process cannot be rushed or based on a few short meetings. For example, the newbie could spend some time on walks with another dog who largely ignores him, setting up a calm environment where hanging out together becomes normal or even boring. However, if these dogs were to live together, this careful, rehearsed approach under managed conditions would be essential.
Avoid rushing the process—patience is key to fostering lasting and harmonious relationships!
