
05/08/2025
🐾 A not so straight forward thing 🐾
🐶 You've got a dog. You'd like to take your dog over to your friends place that also has a dog. You take your dog over & hope for the best. This doesn't tend to go down too well.
🐕 Dog's are naturally territorial by nature. It is in their nature to protect their resources, which includes their humans, yard, toys, food, whatever they deem valuable, from perceived threats. Some breeds are naturally much more guarding in nature & will not be happy about an outsider coming into their home. Considerations need to be thought out carefully before just bringing a new dog over or even if it is doable.
🐾 Plan.
🐾 Manage risk.
🐾 Minimize conflict.
1. Meet on neutral territory. Anywhere that is calm & not either dogs home.
2. Have dogs on lead & keep a distance while one walks infront of the other. Swap positions with your friend so they are in follower mode (still maintain a safe distance). This allows the dogs to sniff each others down wind scent which contains vital information for each dog to learn.
3. If the dogs are looking relaxed, there is no tension or conflict, then start walking parallel with each other & gradually slow down to a stop for introductions. Watch out for any facial greetings, no putting necks up over necks, don't allow for long pauses longer than a few seconds, do not add anything to the interaction like squeaky voices, treats or having a tight leash. Remain calm, praise verbally calmly, then keep walking.
4. If the interaction is good, end the walk & go to friends house. Tie dogs up separately at a short distance with their own water & let them rest in each others presence. This may be all you will get out of their 1st social session. If it's going well, then take your dog back home & repeat another day so the relationship has time to develop.
5. If dogs seem really relaxed & friendly, then facilitate the interaction by being a good coach. Make sure the yard is free of resources that may cause an issue. No bones or toys laying around. Walk dogs around the yard on leash & then drop the leashes. Watch how they interact, then if it feels right, take the leashes off & let them play. Dogs should have a good recall so that you can relieve any tension that may arise. Keep the interactions short & often to establish a positive relationship. Relationships take time.
⚠️ This all changes when there are multiple dogs involved. Pack dynamics require skill at reading multiple dogs personalities, body language, interactions. It is advisable to get in a trainer to help with this if the dogs will be seeing each other often.
⚠️ Some dogs will not at all be down with having another dog in their home territory. This is where good management applies. Some dogs might be happy to play at the park with their friends but not at home.
🐾 Dogs differ so much in personality inside & outside the home. Planning, managing risk & minimizing conflict should be at the forefront of social interactions. The "they'll sort it out approach" doesn't need to happen.