15/10/2025
This is how we wish to remember Parker. Unbothered, fat, lazy, and always photo-ready 🖤🐱
From the busy parking lot of Eton Centris in Quezon City, he came to us before BFFS was conceived. His days chasing birds and darting under parked cars were abruptly ended when he was hit by a car and left with a paralyzed hind area.
Adopting a cat who is unable to use a litter box is intimidating to many, and we wanted to change that. We learned to express his bladder and stimulate his bowels. 5 minutes in the morning and 5 minutes before bedtime was all it took to keep him clean and comfortable.
After being a loner for almost 2 years, we got him a little sister, a kitten who suffered the same fate. Still unbothered, he let little Vivi share his bed, showing her that life as a special needs cat wasn't so bad when you get to enjoy nice beds, toys, treats, and head scritches. They became inseparable.
Parker's health deteriorated over many months. While enduring several vet visits and bitter meds, he continued to be Vivi's strong and patient "kuya" until the very end.
To help us honor Parker, please consider how YOU might be able to change the life of a disabled rescued animal. Inquire with your local animal shelter, and try to get acquainted with adoptable rescues with special needs. Helpful information is also available online. Here's an article we wrote, to start with: https://bffs.org.ph/caring-for-pets-with-hind-leg-paralysis/
Thank you, Parker, for being a truly special cat. 🙏🌈