In Stride Equestrian

In Stride Equestrian Classical Training & lesson program dedicated to diversity and inclusion through ethical horsemanship

In Stride Equestrian is partnering with the amazing people over at Massage-ology, LLC to help our local community during...
10/24/2025

In Stride Equestrian is partnering with the amazing people over at Massage-ology, LLC to help our local community during this time. If you are able to help and donate in any way, please consider bringing supplies over to Massage-Ology during business hrs. If you have any questions regarding what can be donated or how you can help in other ways, please reach out! Now more than ever we need to do all that we can to help 💛

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10/23/2025

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"I'm going to be taking a step further back from being fully in the coaching world, the clinic world, and exploring what it's like to truly just be with my horses and find out what other things they like doing,” Anna Buffini said. Read the story at link in comments.👇

Always striving for perfection kills movement exploration. I don't care if each stride that my young horse takes isn't b...
10/21/2025

Always striving for perfection kills movement exploration. I don't care if each stride that my young horse takes isn't biomechanically perfect or correct, even as someone who has spent a lot of time studying "correct" biomrchanics and the why behind movement. It is unrealistic to think that every stride will be the same when we are talking about a living breathing creature.

I want him to explore movement, I want answers to certain questions to result in something that can be sculpted with enthusiasm. I want him to play with solutions and what works and doesn't. I dont think there is any other way for self carriage to develop under a rider without the imperfections of allowing a horse to play with movement and for them to have the freedom to do so.

This was our first time under saddle just playing with halt/trot transitions. We had been playing with it on the ground and he loved that game. It was also really helpful for him mechanically to.figure out compression without curling his neck under (which is something I find many Iberian breeds can easily fall into and get stuck there). So asked him to try it with me on his back, a still of him mid transition and a moment in time. And I honestly vould not be more proud of the way this young stallion thinks through these puzzles. The answers he comes up with and the ways he feels comfortable in using his body.

The beauty in working with young horses, and honestly Manny in particular because its been so indescribably amazing of a process, is to encourage them to feel and be free in their own bodies to get creative with us 💗

Poetry in words and poetry in motion ❤️
10/17/2025

Poetry in words and poetry in motion ❤️

Letter to my young horse(s):

It is the craft I love to preserve your ego. To surrender the training to the pace of your trust. Sacrifice pretty to prioritize chosen balance, understood self-carriage. It is my challenge to let you be freely forward and to earn a contact. To deserve the reins, to ask not require. Over time the ask becomes a variety of answers, gracely offered. Paired together for sustained dancing.

I ask myself always not is your position perfect or correct, but do I posess enough finesse to not compromise the treasure of young balance. Am I skilled enough to ride, without hand. Asking movement question after question, transition after transition. Am I a good enough rider to allow your place on the training scale to be true? Am I humble enough to trust our work, discipline enough for it to transform us with consistency?

Some days I'm not sure and some days I am. Some days the mere fact that the your pride is in tact enough to make the work challenging and ugly, is the win. Other days it's the balance.

Thank you for being my canvas, my mirror, my reminder that the work of life is rarely about me. Always about us. Thank you for often being the only witness to our greatest moments.

*Pictured is Canterbury MM, 7yo Holsteiner in what I like to think is a proper balance for his age and his ego.

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We've all heard it... dressage in its founding was to train horses for battle. To take young and fresh horses and turn t...
10/07/2025

We've all heard it... dressage in its founding was to train horses for battle. To take young and fresh horses and turn them into fit and fierce war mounts ready for battle. But in how many situations do we truly get to put our modern war horse training to the test? How to we take dancing in the sand box and put it to use for what it was intended?

Ollie and I had the opportunity over the weekend to cosplay as riders of Rohan (yes im a big LOTR nerd) and even though this was a staged shoot, I got to put his training to use in so many more ways than I would have thought and it gave me such a different perspective and appreciation for what classical dressage truly is.

I was grateful for the warm up. Our gear was thick, heavy and made true to form. Extra layers, a solid metal helmet, thick leather armor... and even a beard 😆 seriously hindered my range of motion as a rider as well as my point of balance and ability to see around me. If he was responding to something outside of my vision I HAD to trust that there was something there or even something going on with the other horses and give him an aid to move on a seconds notice. And there were 11 other horses and riders, shields, spears and flags that also had to be accounted for. There were horses that spooked, shied, tripped and were over faced at times. Sometimes we had to leg yield to a horse, away from a horse, around dropped gear or a horse that stopped suddenly.

Were we fighting each other? Nope! But we had to take accountability for our horses and to everyone else around us. And at times there was a lot going on. Not to mention it was a first for many of us and our horses. I couldn't be more proud of how Ollie handled every challenge and worked with me. We truly were a cohesive team. Dodging horses, equipment and people with lovely collected lateral work and even a couple of unintended pirouettes.

Dressage without purpose seems to fall flat. It keeps us in this mindset of striving for perfection and possibilities of micro management. When dressage put to use as it was intended is powerful, light and explosive. It truly brings horse and rider together more than anything ever could

👏🏽 such a great collaboration 💓
10/02/2025

👏🏽 such a great collaboration 💓

Part time feeding position available!We are looking to add someone to cover 5 feeding slots (am and pm Sunday, am and pm...
09/30/2025

Part time feeding position available!

We are looking to add someone to cover 5 feeding slots (am and pm Sunday, am and pm monday and pm thursday).

Duties include bringing horses in/turning out, feeding, filling hay nets, picking stalls and cleaning/filling water troughs and buckets. We never have more than 8 horses and they all have wonderful ground manners and are easy to handle.

Chores vary in time between 1-2 hrs depending on whether it's a morning or evening feeding or how many horses are in th barn, but never take more than 2 hrs to complete.

Located just 3.5 miles from downtown aiken.
Pay is $25/hr. Pm for more info!

Very well written and digestible piece in the conversation of to bit or not to bit. And to also add to this, that the ri...
09/10/2025

Very well written and digestible piece in the conversation of to bit or not to bit. And to also add to this, that the rider should have enough of an education to understand the importance of self carriage and collection and have enough of a base line understanding so that they can continue to help and maintain their horse under saddle regardless of the tools they use

Bitted, vs Bitless, vs Bridle-less

Just yesterday, I was thinking about interesting horse-related topics to write about. Then today, as if I’d pre-ordered something in the mail via express post, the answer stared me straight in the face! I came across a video today of someone who claimed bitless and bridle-less riding was rubbish. I thought to myself, What an interesting topic for conversation.

I’m not anti-bits; I feel they can have their benefits. However, my preference with my own horses is bitless and bridle-less. What I wanted to talk about today is collection- what collection means to me and why I feel there is no black and white answer in terms of: to bit, not to bit, or bridle-less. The truth is, most things in life are not black or white, but instead all shades of grey.

So what is collection? To answer this, I need to rewind a little further, so just bare with me.

Did you know horses aren’t designed to be ridden? …
In which case, I believe it’s our responsibility as horse owners to work our horses in such a way that not only maintains the soundness they would have had if left to their own devices in the paddock, but also that we can improve on their soundness and make their lives as our partners in dance, one that is positive and beneficial for their bodies.
To do this, we need at least a basic understanding of what's going on beneath a horse’s skin.
Typically, a horse has 7 cervical vertebrae, 18 thoracic, 6 lumbar, and 5 sacral, on average 18 coccygeal (tail). There can be variations; however, I’m not going to go into this right now.

Now is the time to use your imagination…
Imagine each one of these vertebrae is a carriage on a train track.
What we are looking for is what is called Spinal Alignment….
I’m sure at some point, each of you have been on a horse, and you're trying to turn right- the horse bends its neck to the right but falls through the outside shoulder like a derailed train falling off its tracks. This feeling is the horse losing alignment through the spinal column.
It feels messy, and biomechanically, the body's muscle chains have entirely lost their ability to work in harmony with each other. It’s like a train crash within the skeletal system, which has a knock-on effect to all the tendons, ligaments, muscles, fascia, and organs.
This train crash in the body is what many people refer to as a “hollow horse”.

Why does it matter if your horse is hollow?
It matters because a horse does not have a collarbone, which is both a blessing and a curse.
A blessing, because it gives them their incredible ability for movement and speed.
A curse because it means that in place of a collarbone, muscles suspend the sternum portion of the ribcage between the two front legs.

When a horse is using their body functionally and sustainably, the ribcage is suspended between the two front legs rather than collapsed between the two front legs. When the suspension system is working, the skeletal structure has space between the vertebrae, just like carriages on a train track, allowing the spinal column to bend laterally, make rotations, and lift dorsally more easily.
Good range of motion and functionality go hand in hand…. BUT… when the horse is not correctly using their body, the muscles lack strength and functionality, meaning the ribcage sits lower in the chest and the vertebrae of the spinal column are compressed together like a train that just became all sorts of crashed and de-railed.
When there is no space in the spinal column, the body’s ability to move well and sustainably becomes diminished, and as a result, compensation patterns form. Compensation patterns mean that some parts of the musculoskeletal system are not doing their job, while other parts work over time to try to create stability in the body.

The spinal column is the housing for the spinal cord, and off the spinal cord are nerves that feed into various other places in the body. The spinal cord and the nerves are responsible for delivering information to the body from the brain, and back to the brain from the body. Together, the brain, spinal cord, and nerves form pathways of communication known as neural pathways. These neural pathways make all movements possible, both voluntary and involuntary.

So what do you think happens when there is a train crash in the body??
Well… These pathways become restricted or even blocked. Meaning that just because a message is leaving the brain, there is no guarantee the message will reach its desired destination… or vice versa for a message travelling back to the brain. In a nutshell, this also means that poor posture can and does affect the entire nervous system.

Way back when, the purpose of dressage was to help produce a sound, balanced, and willing horse capable of being a brave and reliable partner in war. Dressage was like Pilates for a horse. Every different movement helps to increase the horse's range of motion and strength, which in turn allows them to carry their own bodies at ease, as well as a rider.

On average, 60% of a horse's weight is carried by its front legs and 40% by their hind legs. Collection to me means shifting a horse's center of gravity further back in the body so that they take more weight on the hind end. This can only be done when a horse is able to maintain balance, posture, and rhythm without the rider constantly needing to ‘help’ the horse. This ability of a horse to maintain balance, posture and rhythm is called self-carriage. To ride it will feel effortless and rhythmic.

Once self-carriage is achieved, you can then ask for more collection.
Think back to the train for a minute, say for instance the horse's body is the train- travelling at 60km an hour in self carriage. Each carriage is at an even distance from the next, and each carriage travels at the same speed. When I ask the horse for more collection, I am asking for the entire body to collect, which will require tensegrity of the suspension system, more lift of the front end, and more loading on the hind end. As a result, the center of gravity is moved further back. In terms of train carriages, this would be comparable to all carriages slowing to 40km and maintaining the same distance and harmony between them. Of course, the train is not capable of moving its center of gravity towards its hind end! In this way, the two are not comparable haha.

In my opinion, many people ask for collection too soon. Meaning that the neck contracts, slowing the carriages (vertebrae) in the neck to a speed of 40km, but if the body is not yet capable of achieving or maintaining collection, the carriages (vertebrae) of the thoracic, lumbar, and sacrum will keep the original speed of 60km, causing a train crash in the body. The horse will start to become hollow over the back, step short behind, and paddle with its front legs because there is not enough lift or strength of the suspension system to allow for the lift of the thoracic to allow straight movement of the front legs.

Now the next layer. Bit vs Bitless vs Bridle-less.
Just as you wouldn’t go and buy your entire family a size 12 kids' shirt, there is no one-size-fits-all when deciding whether to ride bitted, bitless or bridle-less.

Some people will find bitless more effective for their horse, some will find bitless less effective for their horse.
There are so many questions you can ask yourself when deciding what's right for the individual horse.
Are there anatomical factors that are influencing your decision?
Maybe someone has a horse with arthritic changes to the TMJ, damage to the hyoid, damage to the cervical spine, and is better able to find functional posture with small movements of the bit, stimulating small corrections of alignment.
Or maybe for some horses, having a bit encourages just enough movement of the tongue, which helps to encourage a release of brace through the ventral line (muscle chain which connects the tongue to the hind leg).
BUT!..

Maybe for another horse, the bit is the cause of anxiety or the cause of contact issues. Perhaps the horse is sensitive and easily overstimulated. Maybe there are teeth, hyoid, or TMJ issues that make carrying a bit uncomfortable for the horse.
Any of the above factors can be the cause of a ‘train crash’ within a horse's body. As a result, the neural pathways become blocked or restricted, the horse becoming unregulated in the nervous system. A horse that is not free and open through the musculoskeletal system can't have self-carriage. If there is no self-carriage, then there is no possibility for shifting the centre of gravity further toward the hind end – meaning no possibility for “collection”.

To me, whether you have a bit, bitless bridle, or ride bridle-less is entirely beside the point.
My now-retired gelding, whom I rode for 7 years, was always bridle-less on each and every ride, whereas my other horses are mostly ridden bitless.
Two years ago, I was given a palomino mare as a rehabilitation horse; all of the work I have done with her has been without a bit. I tried a bit on her for four weeks as I thought it may help to make releasing the restriction in her TMJ and C6 C7 easier; however, carrying a bit only caused her anxiety.

Every horse is different; it is not a question of whether to bit or not to bit. It’s knowledge of healthy function and an open mind that is key.

Two new training horses to kick off the end of the summer and heading into fall (and perfect weather!). Welcome Ghalia a...
09/09/2025

Two new training horses to kick off the end of the summer and heading into fall (and perfect weather!). Welcome Ghalia and Khadwick to the program 🥰.

With Khad’s arrival yesterday, we now have a full house for September! Ghalia will be going home at the end of the month and so I will have just one full training spot available for the months of October and November, but am booked again in December.

I did want to clarify what encompasses full training board for those who may be curious as it is a pretty vague umbrella term and doesn’t just cover dressage training.

I offer this package to those who are needing more extensive help with their horses. This could be due to a need for physical or behavioral rehabilitation. Physical rehabilitation could look like horses that have come out of rehabbing soft tissue and are ready to take the next steps, have had bad accidents where there wasn’t an “injury” per se but they still aren’t quite right, the “sound” ridden horse who has been ridden inverted or with improper saddle fit/shoeing for a prolonged period of time and needs to learn how to carry themselves correctly. This ties into movement and postural rehabilitation for horses going under saddle as well. But doesn’t encompass horses with acute injury who need medical attention and care to heal.

Behavioral rehabilitation or training looks more like a horse who may have come to you from unclear circumstances, but has reactivity to being worked with. Horses who seem to have faced harsh training or trauma in the past, shut down horses who go through the motions but have become checked out, or even youngsters who may have not had the best start to life. I like to refer to behavioral training as a form of rehabilitation as it takes time and consistency in a program to bring them back to the best versions of themselves.

And lastly, full training of course encompasses those who wish to continue to work their horses up the levels classically, with lightness, power and refinement to their mounts in a way that keeps the horse’s integrity and pride.

My work encompasses all three of these things, physical and behavioral rehabilitation, and lightness in classical Dressage

A few weekends back Josh and I went out to visit our friend Avry Jxn. It was short but we managed to squeeze in dinner, ...
09/05/2025

A few weekends back Josh and I went out to visit our friend Avry Jxn. It was short but we managed to squeeze in dinner, dancing and a horse play day. It was so beautiful and inspiring to be in the moment and with him and his horses. How wonderfully they were coming along and how much he puts into them with the work that he does. It’s uplifting to see another equestrian professional work in so many similar yet unique ways and methods. And to show proof once again in the development of wonderful horses through their own expression and movement through their bodies.

Sweet Mmoja was a delight to sit on and a beautifully developed youngster. And watching Avry ride Canterbury was very exciting. The power and fullness of that horse and how Avry delicately sculpted it was 👏🏽. This horse has a big presence in every way and I cannot wait to see where they are as a team in the future!

Proud of you my friend and all that you have brought together on your farm that is a little piece of heaven ❤️

On the process:

There are days and months where the schooling feels off. Where it seems like maintaining a partnership that empowers the equine athlete requires so much unexpressed frustration on my end.

Then there is that one ride at the end of the schooling week where everything comes together. Where the horse retains it's power, surrenders to your collaboration and offers that feeling.

It's that feeling that keeps me in the saddle and doing whatever I have to to protect my time in it. Trust the schooling, allow the horse the time it needs and be grateful when the partnership aligns.

*Photo is a stylized still from a ride on Canterbury.

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