12/16/2023
If a new dog for you or someone else is part of your holiday plans, think seriously about planning the new homecoming in a way that helps this dog feel safe and learn who their new family core unit is, who they can start to trust.
New dogs should not be exposed to groups of extended family, friends and especially not of the kind who will try to tell the dog what to do. Beware of children. Don't allow them to meet the new dog in groups or to rush towards, hug or lean over the dog. This is extremely intimidating and looks like an attack to many dogs. That can trigger fight or flight responses and potentially long lasting distrust of that or any kid. Any meetings with a child, or adult, should allow the dog plenty of space to move away freely.
New dogs are best restricted to getting to know and trust their new home and new family members in harmony. Their new world needs time to make sense to them.
But what if the new dog acts bold and outgoing? Can you take chances with an immediate social life? Not so much. You should still your new dog several weeks of a quiet life.
What about young pups? Don't they need the socialization? Socialization is not the same as throwing them in the deep end of the social pool. It needs to planned, controlled, have a goal and be time limited to very short sessions. House guests and parties are not good exposures because they last too long and you can't control what other people do.
Get in touch if you have questions about specific situations.
Have holidays full of love and giving.