01/08/2026
My daughter, Saoirse, rehearsing the out command with Koda with toys and dried beef liver. At his go home lesson we used a raw pork tail.
Koda was developing guarding behaviors at home with toys and food, and was starting to even guard space. He would also steal things like socks and make it clear that they were HIS so you couldn't take them away.
There are several things that needed to happen here. #1 no guarding. That is a conversation that won't be skipped if it happens.. There is a consequence for that.
#2 no stealing. There's never a time that we want a dog stealing our things, so that is also corrected directly and eliminated.
#3 The out command. Humans control resources. Even small humans. If a person asks you to drop a resource, even if it's a very high value resource, you put it down, you move away from it, you disengage from it, and you don't go back to it unless you are told to. This is a very low conflict way to garner a lot of respect and create a lot of clarity. We never reach to take something out of a dog's mouth directly with our hands. That is very confrontational and not necessary.
#4 Accountability for everything across the board everyday. Once your dog knows how to do things, you should expect them. When you ask for them. You should follow through. There should be a consequence if they choose not to listen to you. Without that, your dog is really just doing whatever they want to do all the time, and while for some dogs this might not be a big deal, for a lot of dogs it is.
If your dog has a bit of a dominant streak in them or possessive tendencies or whatever else, it's really important that you build a relationship with them where accountability is part of life and party of your relationship. They are NOT fully autonomous.. Otherwise, the nature of your relationship is just you being a doormat and a pez dispenser. This doesn't bode well for a dog with any proclivity toward using their mouth to get their way.
I've seen a lot of recent posts from other trainers lately talking about "preventing" resource guarding. And while I don't disagree with a lot of the protocols they talk about in these posts, I don't feel they actually PREVENT resource guarding. I think it's a bit misleading. More to come on that later..