Overthemoonnewfoundlands

06/21/2024

Nope not giving up those puppies yet😜😎

06/21/2024

Ah the Scooby gang for the win 👏👏👏

I like to mix up my be and do for the best results too.

What about you?

Do you dobedobedobe?

❤️ Trudi Jane

06/20/2024

06/20/2024

No progress on labor with Calypso. She could wait until the last due date🤨June 22nd😩

06/18/2024

06/18/2024

You guessed it, mama and daughter, Calypso due anytime, Meadow due July, 6-9, they are even bigger now, so who knows how many. After a year off for my health, I’m very excited to have babies again🩷🩷

06/17/2024

❤️...!

06/17/2024

✨️✨️💛💙💖💛💙💖💛💙💖✨️✨️

06/17/2024

✨️✨️💛💙💖💛💙💖💛💙💖✨️✨️

06/12/2024

Calypso, you make slobber look good😁😁

06/12/2024

Meadow, your so sweet, even if your a drooly mess🩷🩷

05/15/2024

“Today in one of our classes I introduced the children to two apples (the children didn't know this, but before the class I had repeatedly dropped one of the apples on the floor, you couldn't tell, both apples looked perfect). We talked about the apples and the children described how both apples looked the same; both were red, were of similar size and looked juicy enough to eat.

I picked up the apple I'd dropped on the floor and started to tell the children how I disliked this apple, that I thought it was disgusting, it was a horrible colour and the stem was just too short. I told them that because I didn't like it, I didn't want them to like it either, so they should call it names too.

Some children looked at me like I was insane, but we passed the apple around the circle calling it names, 'you're a smelly apple', 'I don't even know why you exist', 'you've probably got worms inside you' etc.

We really pulled this poor apple apart. I actually started to feel sorry for the little guy.

We then passed another apple around and started to say kind words to it, 'You're a lovely apple', 'Your skin is beautiful', 'What a beautiful colour you are' etc.

I then held up both apples, and again, we talked about the similarities and differences, there was no change, both apples still looked the same.

I then cut the apples open. The apple we'd been kind to was clear, fresh and juicy inside.

The apple we'd said unkind words to was bruised and all mushy inside.

I think there was a lightbulb moment for the children immediately. They really got it, what we saw inside that apple, the bruises, the mush and the broken bits is what is happening inside every one of us when someone mistreats us with their words or actions.

When people are bullied, especially children, they feel horrible inside and sometimes don't show or tell others how they are feeling. If we hadn't have cut that apple open, we would never have known how much pain we had caused it.

I shared my own experience of suffering someone's unkind words last week. On the outside I looked OK, I was still smiling. But, on the inside someone had caused me a lot of pain with their words and I was hurting.

Unlike an apple, we have the ability to stop this from happening. We can teach children that it's not ok to say unkind things to each other and discuss how it makes others feel. We can teach our children to stand up for each other and to stop any form of bullying, just as one little girl did today when she refused to say unkind words to the apple.

More and more hurt and damage happens inside if nobody does anything to stop the bullying. Let's create a generation of kind, caring children.

The tongue has no bones, but is strong enough to break a heart. So be careful with your words.”

Words by: Mum in the Moment

RESOURCES:

Need to find out more about kids and bullying: https://parenttv.com/?s=Bullying

How to help look after your child’s mental health: https://parenttv.com/topics/mental-health/

05/14/2024

"To sit with a dog on a hillside on a glorious afternoon is to be back in Eden, where doing nothing was not boring—it was peace." – Anne Raver

05/11/2024

05/09/2024

In recognition of May being Motorcycle Awareness Month