11/08/2024
New Blog Post: Consent-Based Training ft. Amy Vanner
One of my favorite trainers in the horse world is Amy Vanner of STARS Sporthorses, nestled in the suburbs of Ooltewah, Tennessee.
I've been so fortunate to cross paths with her, not just as an equine professional, but as a mentor and a sister on this journey. Every time I step onto her land, I leave with new wisdom and a deeper connection to the universe of horses. What I admire most about Amy, beyond her fierce spirit, is how she taps into the gentle flow of consent-based horse training. Before I dive into the magic of that, let me share a little about Amy's evolution and how she found this harmonious way of working with horses.
In her blog, “Empowering Equines: The Art & Importance of Consent-Based Horse Training,” Amy radiates her soul's desire for a kinder, more loving approach to her equine partners. She’s always growing and evolving. And the horses? Oh, they are her greatest gurus. While Amy’s talent for guiding sporthorses to shine in the competitive world is impressive, her heart resonates the most with the so-called "throw-away" horses—the rescues, the misunderstood, and the ones labeled as too wild or dangerous. You know, the ones other trainers might turn away from, but Amy sees their light.
In the beginning, like many of us, Amy walked the path of dominance-based training, thinking she had to make horses "respect" her by using force and control. She was surrounded by gadgets and techniques that dulled the horses’ true essence, creating more resistance than understanding. But when Amy found her quiet space, her own little haven, she tapped into the stillness, observing the horses in their purest form. That’s when she truly began to listen to them—not with her ears, but with her heart and soul.
Later in life, Amy was diagnosed with Asperger’s, which she now sees as a blessing, giving her an extra layer of sensitivity to the energies around her. This heightened awareness has deepened her ability to connect on an empathic level with the horses, picking up on the subtleties most would miss. Her roots in Spanish and Mexican vaquero traditions also flow through her, grounding her understanding in an ancient wisdom that’s hard to explain.
Amy now lets the horses guide the way, giving them the space to set the pace and direction of their interactions. This shift? It wasn’t some overnight awakening. It’s taken years of soul searching and inner work, trial, and error, but she’s found her rhythm. Now, she stands on a solid foundation built from love and respect for the horses' free spirits.
The Essence of Consent-Based Training
Consent-based training is all about treating horses, and all beings, with love, respect, and dignity. It’s a way of being in sync with the horse, flowing together in a mutual trust and understanding, not fear or force. It’s about giving horses a voice in their own journey, empowering them to choose how they engage with their training.
A few core elements of consent-based training:
1. Empathy and Understanding: Building a real, heart-to-heart connection with the horse.
2. Active Participation: Inviting the horse to show you what feels good and what doesn’t, letting them be part of the process.
3. Trust and Communication: Creating a sacred space where the horse feels safe to express their truth.
In conclusion, Amy Vanner’s journey is a shining example of what happens when we allow ourselves to evolve, embrace love, and truly see the beings we share this Earth with. Through her commitment to consent-based training, she’s shifted from the old ways of control to a more harmonious, partnership-based approach. She’s teaching us all that when we listen, learn, and let go of fear, we can create bonds with horses—and with life itself—that are rooted in love and respect. Amy continues to light the way for others, showing that the path of compassion leads to the most meaningful and lasting connections.
Are you ready to learn more about consent based training? Check out Amy’s work at Stars Sporthorses at https://www.starssporthorses.com
You won’t regret it. Peace and love, always.