12/30/2025
A Quick Bear Update š»
Itās been a little quiet here lately. Iāll share more about that separately, but for now I wanted to give everyone an update on Bear.
When Bear arrived, his world was very small - he spent the first 10 months of his life living in an outdoor kennel with no exposure to the outside world. Since his arrival in mid-September, our initial focus was on getting him medically stabilized. He was over 30 pounds underweight from chronic underfeeding, had double ear infections, hair loss and crusted ears, internal parasites, and had never received proper vaccines, preventatives, or veterinary care.
During that time we also focused on building predictability and establishing routines so he could begin to feel safe.
Now that he is feeling better weāve started expanding his world. Below are some highlights of what weāve been learning and experiencing so far (this is by no means an exhaustive list).
Learning:
⢠Life exists beyond the kennel and humans can be safe and consistent
⢠Walking on a leash, through doorways, and inside buildings
⢠Sleeping indoors, using blankets, and settling in a home
⢠Regular meals, proper nutrition, grooming, veterinary care, and potty training
⢠Wearing jackets, sweaters, and a harness
⢠Getting into a car and getting in and out independently
Firsts:
⢠Walking into the vet on his own
⢠Sniffspots and new environments
⢠Snow (huge fan) and āsnow plow watchingā
⢠An agility ājumpā (walking over it)
⢠A puppuccino, a donut, and movie night (Toy Story)
⢠Playing fetch & tug.
⢠His first birthday and first Christmas
Bear is a very different dog than when he arrived, but we still have a long way to go. Itās critical that we move intentionally and thoughtfully through this process and not rush things, especially during this fragile stage. Predictability matters for him, so we go at his pace, always.
To his credit, Bear never shown any indications of aggression or reactivity (even when we had to put him in some compromising situations out of necessity). Bear tends to respond with FREEZE (trying to make himself disappear) or occasionally FLIGHT (only IF thereās a safe spot or person/me accessible). He is just a sensitive puppy learning how to feel safe in a world he never knew existed until now. Helping him find his courage and slowly expand his world has been incredibly healing for me too.
As always, Iām donating all of my time and professional services to Bearās care. Supporting a case like his comes with ongoing costs, including medical follow-ups, food (we are almost out of food), supplements, and planning ahead for insurance, neuter, microchip, and gastropexy. If youād like to help support Bearās rehabilitation, you can do so by sharing our content, purchasing items directly from his wishlist, or making a donation via Venmo. Every bit of support, financial or otherwise, truly helps.
Thank you to everyone who has supported Bear along the way and helped make this possible.
Ps. We also have a few packages here for Bear that weāll be opening soon and sharing videos of. Iāve been a bit behind on posting and intentionally stepped back from social media while focusing on day-to-day operations and making sure Bearās needs were prioritized, but more updates are coming.
ā”ļø Amazon Wish List: https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/3N4U8PG96I2EK?ref_=wl_share
ā”ļø Venmo: https://www.venmo.com/u/apexcaninebehavior
āSaving one dog will not change the world, but surely for that one dog, the world will change forever.ā š¤